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How to support someone who is going through a difficult period

Please also fill up all the radio silences, the waiting period, while we are waiting and expecting Your Eph 3:20 answer and transformation, fill it up with beautiful memories, that we can celebrate You in the waiting period, that we can fill up Instagram with so many beautiful memories You have created and orchestrated for us. 

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Please give the men seven compliments for each insult they have received, give them a positive boost in their self-esteem, make them whole, I love the Greek word for healing – sozo, give them daily, until it is complete emotional healing. I have also had this incident with my phone recently, the speaker stopped working. When I plug in my earphones it works perfectly, but the phone’s speaker stopped working. I did a quick Google search, they gave a couple of tricks, one was a ghost connection still present with a portable speaker. I switched of my blue tooth connection, then restarted the phone and then it worked perfectly. Sometimes I too think we have ghost connections still with the past, with an ex, with a mistake we make in the past, we are still captives in the hamster wheel of being Lot’s Wife. Please cut off all these ghost connections. Please erase, eliminate all the unholy soulties. I also belief further we start getting hardened hearts, we try to protect our hearts ourselves. Please Lord give us marshmallow hearts again, we surrender all the need and will to protect ourselves. I do not want to guard my heart anymore, I want you to guard it for me. 

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God also recently revealed to me that the reason why we should not covet is because everything is supposed to inspire us to pray bigger. My one friend recently departed on an all expenses paid trip to Israel, she sent me the forwarded whatsapp her friend sent her to invite her along to Israel. I said Lord if you did it for you, you will definitely do it for me too. This was a source of inspiration for prayer for me. I have actually had a couple of close encounters to this major bucket list item to visit Israel this year, I see these as preparations. So instead of the men being intimidated by us, switch off the covet or intimidated button in their soul, and switch on the being inspired button instead. 

It recently came under my attention that maybe I’m too independent, I’m 36years old, never been married, so I’m used to making plans on my own. So me and my one friend, shoutout to my cut wisdom decided we need to work on it. As fate would have it, my laptop crashed a couple of days later, I thought this was an excellent situation to be more needy. Needy is a label I have never had in my life. I planted the seeds, with no success, off course my girlfriends, without me even asking came to my rescue, offering a loaned laptop until I buy a new one, another shoutout to my Hero-colleague, my other friend said she will ask her husband for counselling and guidance, another shoutout to my marshmallow friend. But now I’m a little bit confused? So teach me Lord, how to ask for assistance better in the future. I want to be a Ruth, whom Boas assisted. I also know about the Jefferson concept, asking for help might increase the person’s fondness of you.