Better Divorce Podcast

Yes! You do want to avoid making as many mistakes as you can.

I mean, why would you want to make a mistake that you can't undo??

Let me help you now.

Take a short listen and learn to the top 12 divorce mistakes people make.

#6. Being in the dark of their marital finances (assets and liabilities)

They say ignorance is bliss but never in the case of financial ignorance. 

Always read every financial document and be certain you have access to all marital tax returns, Real Estate titles, statements, pensions, investments, annuities and 401k.

Yes! You do want to avoid making as many mistakes as you can. 

I mean, why would you want to make a mistake that you can't undo??

Let me help you now.

Take a short listen and learn to the top 12 divorce mistakes people make.

#5. Downplay or accept the 7 types of abuse

Physically and sexual abuse leave behind bruises, scratches and broken bones... but financial, mental, emotional, psychological and spirit abuse can also linger deep in the recesses of the mind, body and soul and take years to rise to a level of consciousness.

https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

Be sure to take advantage and book a call NOW.

Dr. Thomas Jordan is a clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst and love life researcher in private practice in New York City.

He is on the faculty of New York University’s Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis,

author of Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life and founder of LoveLifeLearningCenter.com.

Dr. Jordan specializes in the psychological treatment of the unhealthy love life and has been studying them for over 30 years.

Yes! You do want to avoid making as many mistakes as you can. I mean, why would you want to make a mistake that you can't undo??

Let me help you now.

Take a short listen and learn to the top 12 divorce mistakes people make.

# 4 Pray, hope, wish and wait for their spouse to change

https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

Be sure to take advantage and book a call NOW.

 Yes! You do want to avoid making as many mistakes as you can. I mean, why would you want to make a mistake that you can't undo?? 

Let me help you now.

Take a short listen and learn to the top 12 divorce mistakes people make.

#3 Hiring the Wrong Attorney 

https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

Be sure to take advantage and book a call NOW.

Welcome to 2023!! Free in 23 that is. 

https://www.transformationintuscany.com/

Introducing Vicky Lynn to the show!

Vickie Lynn is a freedom fighter and overcomer, rising out of the ashes from 25 years of narcissistic abuse. 

Through her company, the Survivor Center, she’s a faith-based, high conflict co-parenting and divorce coach 

reaching back into the fire to help other single mommas sharing custody with an abuser. 

Vickie empowers women to find their voice, create strong boundaries and 

empower their children to do the same despite ongoing post-separation abuse. 

She helps moms gain confidence, clarity, and tap into their own power 

to end abuse in their lineage and change the course of their legacy forever!

For help check out...

https://thesurvivorcenter.com/blog

Join Paulette and Lisa for this conversation about the legal and financial aspects of divorce and gain the insight you need to secure just the right match. 

Lisa Zeiderman is a high-energy, zealous and relentless advocate for her divorce and family law clients in New York City, Westchester and beyond. 

You can rely on her to protect your legal interests, your finances and your children. 

Ms. Zeiderman, a Managing Partner, is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Certified Financial Litigator, known for her work on complex litigation regarding financial and custody divorce matters, as well as pre- and post-nuptial agreements in New York City and Westchester County. 

She is also very active in her community and civic organizations and has an ongoing media and LinkedIn presence which enables her to put together an interdisciplinary team to ensure each client has access to the top professionals in each discipline they might need as they embark on a divorce. Ms. Zeiderman’s recent accolades and activities include: 

Awards and peer/client recognitions Crain’s New York Business Notable Woman Lawyer for 2022 

Crain’s New York Notable Diverse Lawyer for 2022 

Hudson Valley Best Lawyer in 2022 2021 

Best Family Law Attorney for Client Satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law 

Attorneys Super Lawyer in Family Law for 2020, 2021 and 2022 

Maintains a 10 rating on Avvo Client Champion for 2019, 2020 

Thought leader and author Authors well-read blog for Psychology Today, “Legal Matters: Understanding Mental Health Issues as They Apply to Divorce and Child Custody” Regularly published in The New York Law Journal and Financial Advisor Magazine on topics ranging from changes in New York State law that affect family law, complex litigation, tax issues and child custody. 

Is a frequent guest on podcasts discussing divorce, family law, financial matters, and financial empowerment for women. 

As a Certified Financial Litigator and founding member of the American Academy of Certified Financial Litigators, Ms. Zeiderman also brings particular experience in complex financial matters, including issues involving complex executive compensation, deferred compensation, restricted stock units (RSU) as well as retirement assets. 

Her approach to matrimonial and family law often includes enlisting an interdisciplinary team, including mental health professionals, financial advisors, career counselors and real estate advisors. 

This enables her to create an integrated approach for clients and their families going through a divorce that doesn’t begin and end with negotiating the settlement agreement. 

She also works with cases that involve mental health issues including narcissism and borderline personality, and she regularly consults with mental health professionals on these matters. 

https://lisazeiderman.com/

Join Paulette and AJ as they share their tips on how to have a better divorce experience!! 

A.J. Grossman graduated from San Jose State University with a degree in business administration and at the top of his Florida law school class. He immediately went on to achieve his Master of Laws degree in Dispute Resolution from The Straus Institute at Pepperdine University Law School in California, which is the #1 ranked Dispute Resolution program in the country.

As the son of a Navy Officer and the founder of several businesses, he learned quickly about service to others. A.J.’s goal is to help people solve problems, plain and simple. Being in the right place, doing the right thing, at the right time, for a person (or couple of people) in need, drives A.J. to continue growing his legal practice. He focuses his efforts on providing solutions that protect the interests of those who seek amicable resolutions in their lives.

Protecting your rights and providing solid legal counsel through one of life’s most difficult and stressful situations.

You can find AJ here: https://www.leapfrogdivorce.com/