Better Leaders League

We get so wrapped up in our day-to-day coupled with the speed and intensity of work that days and weeks often go by without the time or space to think about our leadership.

Picture a tug-of-war. Your confident self has one end of the rope and your self-doubt has the other. Any time you’d like to step into something that requires confidence, you have to first battle it out with the doubts and inner critics that show up.

For managers, my guess is confidence fluctuates at different times for different people. You are unique in the types of things that you struggle with and where you might need more confidence in your leadership.

In this episode, I share an idea to help with confidence-boosting, especially when your self-doubt kicks in.

How full is your cup?

All of us understand the importance of being able to cope with the stressors and challenges at hand. Managers especially have a responsibility to up their capacity to cope for themselves, of course, but also for the people they lead. Coming out of a year like 2020, our ability to monitor our stress levels and maintain a healthy capacity to cope with everything at hand is even more critical.  

In this episode, I ask managers 2 questions to help bring the intention back to how they are resting, recovering, and rejuvenating in order to bring their best to their team. 

The world has a love/hate relationship with New Year’s resolutions.

We love them because making a fresh start always sounds like a good idea. What better time than when we flip the calendar page into a blank white new year? We hate them because - right out of the gate - we're fairly certain we're going to fail. 

In this episode, I share an easy and failure-proof way of making short burst resolutions focused on you, your team, and how you operate at work. 

The start of a new year is a great time to initiate a refresh when it comes to managing your team. A refresh might be a simple shift or a tiny change, something not too daunting or complicated that it never gets done. A refresh might be just what you need to inject some new fuel into how you are showing up for your team and the environment you're curating for the folks that report to you.

In this episode, I share a 3-part audit you can take to think about how a refresh might serve you and your team. 

Coming out of a coaching call with an entry-level employee - one who was struggling with a toxic work environment -  I realized that every one of us has learned lessons from the tough work situations we've been in.  In this episode, I share my thoughts on the timeline of our careers and how, at various points, we're taking away lessons that end up serving us our entire careers. 

We all know 2020 was a year that never stopped dealing us the hard cards. It seemed like one thing after another as each month went by. It's also true that we NEED the hard cards (especially as managers) to learn how to handle whatever else is coming our way in the future.

Managers everywhere were forced to take a few backsteps this year just to deal with all the chaos, change and challenge that occurred. In this lesson, I talk about how backsteps are just as important as the forward ones - teaching managers nimbleness, flexibility, resilience, and more. 

David Marquet's book, Leadership is Language: The Hidden Power of What You Say and What You Don't really struck a chord with me on how managers communicate and what outcomes result. Marquet uses the sinking of the El Faro cargo ship as his case study and shares fascinating details about how people of authority speak and how that influences the people on their team. 

In this episode, I give insight into ways managers can leave space in conversations to allow for a less-directive atmosphere, one that is inclusive and gives space for healthy debate and team contribution. 

There's power in your words, so much so it affects the outcomes in your life (positive and negative). Rooted in the Law of Attraction, negative words attract other negative forces toward you. 

In this episode, I share why managers should be more aware of how their words impact their team, starting with a story about my son and his declaration to the world about "the worst movie ever!" 

Where do you have strong opinions about things that never get audited? Where is there no regular check-in or rethinking to make sure this opinion of yours is still valid?

In this episode, I share the idea of checking on our convictions on a regular basis to make sure they still hold true for us.