Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast

What If Marriage Came Up for Renewal?

What if marriage wasn't a lifetime contract, but a 20-year contract with the option to renew? In this solo episode, Tania Leichliter challenges the one measure we use to judge every marriage — how long it lasted — and offers a different question entirely: would you choose each other again? A conversation about change, renewal, and why a marriage can end and still have been a success.

• Why length is a poor measure of a successful marriage — 50 miserable years gets called a win, 20 good years that end gets called a failure
• The extraordinary promise we make young: that the people we are at 30 will be the people we are forever
• Everything that changes between 30 and 50 — children, careers, money, loss, caregiving, bodies, priorities, friendships, identity
• The thought experiment: a scheduled renewal conversation with no lawyers, no papers, and nothing terrible having happened
• "Would you choose me again?" — and the follow-up question that matters just as much: what does our next marriage need to look like
• Why renewal means consciously choosing the next 20 years, not repeating the first 20 — including learning how to be a couple again after years of being mom and dad
• What it means when one person wants to renew and the other doesn't
• Why judging an entire marriage by its ending erases everything that came before
• Marriage can end without the family ending — the family doesn't break, it gets re-envisioned
• Where amicable isn't possible: safety, abuse, addiction and serious financial misconduct change the situation entirely
• Why becoming enemies after divorce is a choice, not an outcome — even where there's been infidelity
• How the option to renew could make marriages stronger: listening differently, addressing resentment earlier, staying curious about who your spouse is becoming
• The real problem isn't that people change — it's that we don't update the relationship when they do
• The renewal conversation: six questions to ask every five years
• Why going to therapy doesn't mean your marriage is falling apart

00:00 - Intro

01:31 - The provocative idea: a 20-year marriage contract with the option to renew

01:55 - Why is the length of a marriage our only measure of success?

02:24 - Twenty good years that end — do we really call that a failure?

02:40 - The extraordinary promise we make when we're young

03:33 - Age 30 to 50: everything that can change before renewal comes up

04:18 - The thought experiment — would you choose me again?

05:05 - If the answer is yes, ask the second question

05:15 - What the next 20 years could be about: travel, intimacy, independence

05:41 - Renewal isn't repeating the first 20 years

06:09 - What if one person wants to renew and the other doesn't?

06:37 - Judging an entire marriage by its ending

07:04 - Marriage can end without the family ending

07:34 - Birthdays, graduations, weddings — the hundreds of moments ahead

08:00 - When amicable isn't possible: safety, abuse, addiction, financial misconduct

08:26 - Becoming enemies is a choice, even after infidelity

08:51 - How the option to renew could make marriages better

09:20 - Would you listen differently? Take them less for granted?

09:41 - Addressing resentment earlier instead of assuming they'll always be there

10:24 - The problem isn't change — it's not updating the relationship

10:48 - The renewal conversation: six questions every five years

11:15 - Therapy isn't proof your marriage is falling apart

12:14 - The question to sit with tonight — would you renew?

12:32 - And would your spouse? What a pause actually means

13:01 - A marriage can end and still have been a successful marriage

13:30 - Join the conversation in the comments

14:11 - Outro

Don't wait 20 years. Sit down every five and ask:

1. Who are you now?
2. Who am I now?
3. What is working?
4. What is not working?
5. What do you need from me?
6. What do I need from you?

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Remember: your journey through divorce is unique. Whether you're married, divorced, dating, or somewhere in between, the goal isn't to make marriage easier to leave — it's to build the kind of relationship people keep choosing.

Donna Jean Kendrick discovered her husband Greg had passed away suddenly in 2013 and found herself navigating widowhood with three young children. After settling into their new normal she went back to school to become a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ practitioner and made it her mission to support families in transition. She co-hosts the Widow, Wisdom and Wealth Podcast and is the author of the Life Stages Financial Guides series. Donna, along with her blended family of six kids, raise funds for causes such as Safe Harbor, a grief counseling program for children.

Website: Donna's Website

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Discover how Donna Jean Kendrick transformed her life following tragedy into a mission to empower women navigating divorce and widowhood. This episode covers practical financial strategies, emotional resilience, and finding purpose through adversity.

• Donna shares her story of sudden widowhood at age 40, raising three young children, and rebuilding life financially and emotionally
• The importance of controlling what you can—organizing finances, creating roadmaps, and leaning into professionals
• How affirmations like "I can and I will" foster resilience during difficult transitions
• Practical steps for managing finances during divorce or widowhood, including pulling credit reports and interviewing financial advisors
• The concept of compartmentalizing emotions to function at high capacity while honoring white space for self-care
• The value of scenario planning with financial advisors to explore future options and reduce fear
• Donna’s book resources: A Guide to Widowhood, A Guide to Blended Families, and The Divorce Money Map
• The significance of community, support, and leaning in to kindness during personal upheavals
• How purpose and passion turn challenges into opportunities for impact

00:00 - Welcome and episode overview

01:00 - Donna’s story of widowhood and detours

02:05 - The emotional and financial impact of sudden loss

03:15 - The mantra "I can and I will" for resilience

07:15 - Practical financial steps for those going through divorce and widowhood

10:08 - Building control through organization and professional support

15:37 - Reframing detours into opportunities with intentional planning

18:41 - Donna’s journey from emotional hardship to financial planning career

22:19 - The importance of purpose and passion in building a new life

26:08 - Living in the present minute and controlling what you can

30:20 - Supporting others with kindness and service

34:39 - Scenario planning and managing fear around financial futures

39:50 - Donna’s resourceful books for navigating grief and transition

43:21 - Connecting with Donna and her practice in 13 states

44:25 - Growing the Better Than Bitter community and moving forward with empowerment

• A Guide to Widowhood by Donna Jean Kendrick
• A Guide to Blended Families by Donna Jean Kendrick
• The Divorce Money Map
• Donna Jean Kendrick - Website
• Certified Financial Planner - CFP
• Certified Divorce Financial Analyst - CDFA
• Dan Sullivan, "Who Not How"
• Better Than Bitter Community

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1. Are you considering dating before your divorce is finalized? This episode dives into essential legal, emotional, and parenting considerations to help you navigate this tricky territory responsibly and with clarity. Key Topics:The legal ramifications of dating during divorce, including asset dissipation, alimony, and custody implications
2. The importance of understanding your personal motivations ("the raw truth of your why") for wanting to start dating early
3. Practical advice on how to date discreetly, avoid legal pitfalls, and protect your children’s emotional well-being
4. The significance of knowing your state laws regarding adultery and how they may impact property and support
5. How to approach new relationships with full transparency, without trauma bonding or rushing into intimacy
6. The child-centered approach: safeguarding your children’s stability, avoiding their perception of favoritism, and respecting their emotional process

Timestamps: 00:00 - Why dating before divorce is final can be risky 00:21 - Introduction to season two and episode overview 01:07 - Why consider dating during divorce? Common reasons and emotional drivers 02:07 - How dating can complicate legal and financial matters 03:02 - The risks of spending marital assets on a new relationship 03:50 - Effects of cohabitation on alimony and custody 04:20 - Impact of introducing new partners on child custody and stability 05:16 - Legal considerations around adultery and fault states 06:12 - The importance of understanding your true motivations for dating 07:07 - Personal reasons for early dating and potential emotional benefits 08:07 - How to date smartly: financial boundaries and social discretion 09:00 - The importance of legal awareness and consulting professionals 10:05 - Strategies for transparent communication and avoiding trauma bonds 11:12 - Recognizing the infatuation phase and its distinction from real love 12:28 - Buffering pain with new relationships while focusing on healing 13:04 - Protecting your children: the child-centered approach 14:12 - How children perceive new partners and the importance of empathy 15:06 - The emotional impact of new partners on children’s perception 16:07 - Practical rules: timing for introducing partners and social media boundaries 17:17 - Continual check-ins with children and maintaining their stability 18:14 - Recap: key takeaways on legal, emotional, and parental considerations 18:43 - Final encouragement: navigating your divorce journey with clarity and care

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Remember: Your journey through divorce is unique. Educate yourself, set clear boundaries, and always prioritize your children's well-being to move forward with confidence and peace.

Discover the exciting new features of the second season of the Better Than Bitter podcast, including live coaching sessions, an active support community, and expert guidance for those navigating divorce.

1. Launch of live coaching sessions on the podcast
2. How listeners can apply to be coached and share their stories
3. Creation of the Better Than Bitter Community for ongoing support
4. Resources, virtual events, and expert Q&A sections
5. Emphasis on hope, healing, and positive forward movement after divorce

1. Introduction to live coaching opportunities and how to apply
2. Overview of the new Better Than Bitter Community and its purpose
3. Details on community features such as support circles, resource library, and live groups
4. Membership options and the importance of small, intentional investments
5. How the community aims to foster hope, courage, and amicable divorce journeys

00:00 - Welcome to season two and the new focus on live coaching

00:28 - How to apply for live coaching sessions on the podcast

00:56 - Introducing the Better Than Bitter Community and its purpose

01:23 - Community features: support circles, resources, and events

02:15 - Membership options and community goals for hope and healing

02:45 - Joining instructions and URL overview

03:14 - Closing remarks and encouraging ongoing support

1. Apply for Live Coaching
2. Better Than Bitter Community
3. Better Than Bitter Website

1. Website
2. Instagram

Jeff Wright is a performance coach, speaker, and someone I’m grateful to call a friend and mentor. He runs a global insurance firm and has built tremendous success professionally — but what really defines Jeff is his commitment to helping people change their lives. He’s the ultimate change-maker, and he genuinely does this work because it matters to him.

Website: Jeff's Website

Connect with Jeff Wright Here:

@therealjeffwright on Instagram

Jeff on YouTube

For $1, get a month's access to our Divorce Companion Community. This includes tools tailored to your divorce stage, a self-paced course, and a supportive community of relatable individuals.

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In this episode, Jeff and Tania explore narcissistic traits, their impact on relationships, especially during divorce, and practical strategies for managing interactions with narcissists. They discuss passive-aggressive behaviors, active listening, and maintaining emotional control to protect oneself.

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Narcissistic traits and behaviors

Impact of narcissism on relationships and divorce

Strategies for effective communication and emotional control

• Most people have some narcissistic traits, but only a small percentage have narcissistic personality disorder.
• Passive-aggressive behavior often overlaps with narcissistic traits and can be used to manipulate or criticize subtly.
• Active listening and staying neutral, brief, and factual can disarm narcissistic attacks and reduce conflict.
• Controlling your emotional reactions is crucial; emotional reactions feed narcissistic behavior.
• Consistently applying the same communication strategies is necessary to prevent narcissists from reverting to old behaviors.
• Avoiding conflict and not speaking badly about your ex to children helps protect their emotional well-being.
• Modeling healthy behavior and maintaining high-road communication influences children positively.

• Understanding Narcissistic Traits in Divorce: Practical Strategies
• How to Manage Narcissistic Behaviors During Co-Parenting

"Everybody has a little bit of narcissism in them."

"Model healthy behavior to influence children positively."

"Avoid avoiding conflict; it only makes problems worse."

00:00 Understanding Narcissism in Today's Society

02:39 Traits of Narcissistic Behavior

04:45 Identifying Narcissistic Responses

07:44 The Importance of Active Listening

10:29 Managing Emotions in Conversations

13:33 Effective Communication Strategies

16:08 Conflict Avoidance vs. Conflict Efficiency

22:31 The Burden of Unspoken Words

24:38 Choosing Your Battles in Relationships

27:06 The Ripple Effect of Family Dynamics

31:27 Recognizing Narcissistic Behaviors

31:57 The Role of Parents in Shaping Narcissism

32:56 Navigating Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

34:49 The Importance of Taking the High Road

36:01 Modeling Behavior for Future Generations

44:15 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

45:37 Resources for Support and Growth

On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.

At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.

Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

If you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

For $1, get a month's access to our Divorce Companion Community. This includes tools tailored to your divorce stage, a self-paced course, and a supportive community of relatable individuals.

Coupon code: BTBCOMPANION2026

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In this episode, Tania Leichliter discusses how to move beyond dwelling on the past in divorce by 'throwing away the why.' She offers practical strategies to release emotional baggage, reframe thoughts, and focus on creating a brighter future, emphasizing emotional accountability and self-care.

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The importance of releasing the 'why' in divorce

Strategies to reframe negative thoughts

Focusing on future goals and emotional accountability

Throw Away the Why: Moving Forward in Divorce

Reframe Your Past: A Guide to Child-Centered Divorce

"Throw away the why to stop living in the past."

"Healing comes from direction, not explanations."

"Separate others' choices from your self-worth."

00:00 Introduction to Child-Centered Divorce

01:28 The Importance of Emotional Accountability

02:19 Letting Go of the Why

03:50 Creating Space for the Future

04:35 Exercises to Evict the Why

07:19 Healing Through Future Focus

08:20 Conclusion and Next Steps

08:55 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

10:18 Resources for Support and Growth

On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.

At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.

Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

If you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

For $1, get a month's access to our Divorce Companion Community. This includes tools tailored to your divorce stage, a self-paced course, and a supportive community of relatable individuals.

Coupon code: BTBCOMPANION2026

Click here to JOIN

In this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of a child-centered divorce, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation and personal responsibility. She introduces the Four Rs method (retract, regroup, re-script, respond) to help individuals navigate their emotions during divorce. The conversation highlights the impact of one's actions on children and the importance of modeling positive behavior. Tania encourages listeners to align their actions with their values and to choose resilience and self-compassion throughout the divorce process.

1. A child-centered divorce begins with personal responsibility.
2. Emotional regulation is key to navigating divorce.
3. The Four Rs method helps manage emotional responses.
4. Your actions impact not just you, but your children.
5. Self-compassion is crucial during difficult times.
6. You have the power to choose how you feel.
7. Align your actions with your core values.
8. Evaluate the impact of your behaviors on others.
9. Resilience is essential in overcoming challenges.
10. Join supportive communities for guidance and resources.

Navigating Divorce with a Child-Centered Approach

Emotional Regulation in Divorce: The Four Rs

"It begins with you."

"Who is watching you?"

"You get to choose."

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On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.

At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.

Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

If you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Johana Jimenez

Johana Jimenez, LPC, is a Dallas‑based therapist who helps high‑achieving adults and couples navigate anxiety, depression, identity shifts, and relationship struggles with compassion and evidence‑informed care. Using EMDR, somatic, and Gottman‑aligned approaches, she helps clients move from survival mode into emotional safety, authentic connection, and meaningful living.

Johana's Website

Johana's Facebook page

@thephoenixineveryhumanbeing on Instagram

Johana on YouTube

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In this conversation, Tania Leichliter and Johana Jimenez explore the emotional complexities of divorce, particularly for high-achieving individuals. They discuss the feelings of failure and shame that often accompany divorce, the importance of acceptance, and the need to focus on personal growth and resilience. The conversation emphasizes the significance of a child-centered approach to divorce, ensuring that children's well-being is prioritized. They also highlight the importance of emotional awareness, naming feelings, and recognizing one's self-worth. Ultimately, the discussion encourages listeners to take control of their narratives and strive for a better future post-divorce.

1. Divorce often brings feelings of failure and shame.
2. Acceptance is crucial in navigating divorce.
3. High achievers may struggle with emotional expression.
4. Modeling resilience can help children cope with divorce.
5. A child-centered approach is essential for amicable divorces.
6. Naming emotions is the first step to healing.
7. You are lovable regardless of relationship outcomes.
8. Focus on personal growth and self-worth post-divorce.
9. Understanding past relationship patterns can prevent future mistakes.
10. You have the power to control your reactions and choices.

"Divorce is a loss."

"You need to throw away the why."

"You can only control yourself."

00:00 Introduction to Healing Post-Divorce

01:13 Navigating Feelings of Failure and Shame

03:15 Acceptance and Moving Forward

04:58 Exploring Patterns in Relationships

07:05 Understanding Lovability and Self-Worth

09:01 Compartmentalizing Emotions vs. Processing Them

10:52 Modeling Resilience for Children

14:09 Breaking Negative Mindsets in Children

16:51 Creating a Child-Centered Divorce

19:21 The Circle of Control

22:24 Rethinking Emotions and Responses

26:08 Tools for High Achievers in Therapy

37:17 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

38:46 Resources for Support and Growth

On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.

At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.

Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

If you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Our guest for this episode:

Founder, Konenki Menopause Solutions

Paula Brown holds a Bachelor’s in Human Resources Management and a Master’s in Industrial and Organizational Psychology, blending nonprofit and corporate expertise. A learning and development leader, she excels in designing impactful training programs and fostering inclusivity through strong communication and facilitation skills. Resilient and committed to helping others overcome challenges, Paula drives organizational growth with a focus on continuous learning.

Paula is the creator of Rita’s Labyrinth in Holliston, MA, offering mindfulness and spiritual practices inspired by diverse traditions, especially the divine feminine. She is also a facilitator of The Artist’s Way, creating spaces for exploration and growth, integrating her professional and spiritual passions to inspire lasting positive change.

Paula Brown's Website

Konenki Menopause Facebook Page

Konenki Menopause Instagram

In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter and Paula Brown discuss the intersection of divorce and menopause, exploring the challenges women face during this transitional period. They share personal stories of struggle, resilience, and the importance of support networks. The conversation highlights the impact of hormonal changes on mental health, relationships, and personal reinvention, emphasizing that menopause is a natural life transition rather than a crisis. Listeners are encouraged to seek help and find hope in their journeys.

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• Divorce can be navigated amicably with the right support.
• Menopause brings significant physiological changes that can affect mental health.
• Personal stories of struggle can inspire resilience in others.
• Hormonal changes during menopause can lead to brain fog and other symptoms.
• Support networks are crucial for women going through divorce and menopause.
• Reinventing oneself post-divorce is possible and empowering.
• Menopause is a natural life transition, not a crisis.
• Open communication with partners about menopause is essential.
• There are professionals available to help women navigate menopause.
• Hope exists for maintaining intimacy and connection in relationships.

Navigating Divorce and Menopause: A Journey of Resilience

Personal Stories of Struggle: Finding Strength in Transition

"It's life-changing."

"I thought I had a brain tumor."

"I was fired from two jobs."

00:00 Navigating Menopause and Divorce

02:28 Personal Journeys Through Menopause

09:11 The Role of Support Networks

16:37 Coping with Stress and Brain Fog

18:17 Impact of Menopause on Relationships

28:45 Rekindling Passion and Libido

33:38 Finding Hope and Support

38:36 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

40:05 Resources for Support and Growth

On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.

At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.

Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

If you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Our guest for this episode:

About our guest:

He has written a book called "The Co-Parenting Secret: It's not about you”.  Jon is actually a consultant.

Link to book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/6gR0ucX

He heads up operations for startups and nonprofits, but he has written this book based on his own personal story. His friends, his family, and people were amazed by him and his wife and how well they were able to co-parent. And they were like, you should write a book. And John's like, huh, maybe I should write a book. 

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In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter speaks with Jon Bassford about his book, 'The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About You.' They discuss the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of intentionality, and how to navigate new relationships while keeping the children's best interests at heart. John shares his personal experiences and insights on creating a supportive environment for children post-divorce, emphasizing the need for effective communication and emotional well-being.

• Co-parenting requires intentionality and focus on the children.
• It's essential to communicate effectively for the sake of the kids.
• Divorce doesn't have to be a negative experience for children.
• Maintaining relationships with extended family is crucial.
• Emotional well-being of parents directly affects the children.
• Letting go of animosity can improve co-parenting dynamics.
• Children benefit from having multiple loving adults in their lives.
• Being open to new relationships can be healthy for everyone involved.
• Self-reflection is key to personal growth post-divorce.
• Creating a supportive environment helps children thrive.

Navigating the Co-Parenting Journey

Intentional Co-Parenting Strategies

"It's not about you."

"You have to be very intentional."

"Let go of the animosity."

00:00 Introduction to Co-Parenting Dynamics

03:17 The Journey of Writing a Co-Parenting Book

05:42 Navigating Co-Parenting with Young Children

08:09 Intentionality in Co-Parenting Relationships

11:07 Humanizing Divorce and Co-Parenting

13:32 Building a Supportive Co-Parenting Village

16:19 Handling New Relationships and Dating

18:51 Communication as a Pillar of Co-Parenting

21:45 Teaching Children About Relationships

24:22 Focusing on Self-Improvement

26:53 Letting Go of Control and Embracing Flexibility

29:44 Creating a Loving Environment for Children

36:02 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

37:31 Resources for Support and Growth

On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.

At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.

Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

If you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!