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You’ve heard Luba’s perspective on dating.

Now it’s time for the male perspective. 😈🎙️

She doesn’t chase.
She doesn’t do pen pals.
She doesn’t entertain “wyd?”
She rarely gives out her number.
And if a man wants to see her, he better make a fucking plan.

But what do MEN actually think about the way Luba dates?

@SKARxTALK sits down with Luba for an unfiltered conversation about her dating rules, boundaries, expectations, and what they look like from the other side.

Are her standards too high?

Or has she simply stopped accepting the bare minimum?

The male perspective on how Luba dates.

This should be interesting. 🍿

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What does it actually cost to tell the truth about your own life?

In this deeply personal episode, Luba sits down with her book editor, Charlie, for a raw conversation about the making of *Cracked Perfection* and what happens when you decide to turn the parts of your life you barely survived into pages other people will eventually read.

They talk about how the book started, how it evolved, and the unexpected weight of reopening wounds you thought had already healed. Because writing your story means going back. Back to the relationships. Back to the betrayals. Back to the versions of yourself you barely recognize anymore.

But this isn't just a conversation about trauma.

It's about everything that came after.

The freedom. The dating stories. The laughter. The wildly unexpected experiences that reminded Luba she was still very much alive. The friendships that became stronger when life got ugly, and the ones that quietly disappeared when things stopped being easy.

Charlie shares what it's been like to edit a story this personal, while Luba talks about the chapters that were hardest to write, the moments that made them laugh, and what it feels like to hand someone your memories and say, "Help me tell the truth."

No pretending everything happens for a reason. No perfectly packaged healing journey.

Just two women talking about what it really looks like to crack your life open, put it on the page, and discover who you became on the other side.

Raw. Funny. Uncomfortable. Vulnerable.

And very, very real.

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What does it actually cost to tell the truth about your own life?

In this deeply personal episode, Luba sits down with her book editor, Charlie, for a raw conversation about the making of *Cracked Perfection* and what happens when you decide to turn the parts of your life you barely survived into pages other people will eventually read.

They talk about how the book started, how it evolved, and the unexpected weight of reopening wounds you thought had already healed. Because writing your story means going back. Back to the relationships. Back to the betrayals. Back to the versions of yourself you barely recognize anymore.

But this isn't just a conversation about trauma.

It's about everything that came after.

The freedom. The dating stories. The laughter. The wildly unexpected experiences that reminded Luba she was still very much alive. The friendships that became stronger when life got ugly, and the ones that quietly disappeared when things stopped being easy.

Charlie shares what it's been like to edit a story this personal, while Luba talks about the chapters that were hardest to write, the moments that made them laugh, and what it feels like to hand someone your memories and say, "Help me tell the truth."

No pretending everything happens for a reason. No perfectly packaged healing journey.

Just two women talking about what it really looks like to crack your life open, put it on the page, and discover who you became on the other side.

Raw. Funny. Uncomfortable. Vulnerable.

And very, very real.

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EP#08 // SE:2026

Sunshine joins Delia and Luba for a conversation about what happened behind the scenes of her incredible win. From the work, dedication, nerves, and everything it took to earn that title, to what happens after you hear your name called, Sunshine gets real about the journey.

But winning is only the beginning. Now that she’s officially Sugarist of the Year, what is she doing with the title? How is she using the recognition, the opportunity, and the platform to take her career to the next level?

This is a conversation about hard work, competition, confidence, and what happens when you bet on yourself.

She won the title. Now let’s talk about what she’s going to do with it.

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Follow Delia & Sugarloft Dallas: @deliasugars @sugarloftdallas 

Follow Luba & Bryght: @lubasasowski @bryghtenuppro

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Who is our boss? The Bryght Babes want answers—and today, they’re getting the real story. 

Featuring special guest: KATRINA - the OG Black Cat and Luba's bestie!!

In this raw and unfiltered episode, Bryght CEO Luba Sasowski gets personal about the plot twist that changed everything: becoming single. From engagement rings to red flags, she opens up about walking away from what looked like “perfect” on paper to reclaim her power, her peace, and her glow. 

💥 Why being single was the smartest business move she’s ever made💥 How heartbreak became a catalyst for global expansion (and tighter glutes)💥 Dating as a CEO: the high standards, the low tolerance, and the best sex of her damn life💥 The truth about feminine energy, self-worth, and not needing a plus-one to feel whole This isn’t a breakup story. It’s a level-up story.

Because when the woman behind the brand chooses herself… the whole world gets bryghter.

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Ep:6 SE:2026

This week Luba is joined by fellow business and former employee Kendra.

Two women. Two businesses. One shared trauma;  the employees they kept way too long. The ones they trained, protected and the red flags they ignored. The moment they both stopped asking "can I fix this person" and started asking "why am I still protecting someone who isn't protecting me?"

If you've ever lost sleep over an employee who was sleeping just fine  this episode is for you.

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Ep:5 SE:2026

In this episode of Between Both Cheeks, Luba sits down with estate planning lawyer Elizabeth Mah to unpack the quiet, gradual ways women lose themselves in relationships.

From over-giving and over-functioning to shrinking, silencing, and accepting less than they deserve—this conversation dives into the patterns so many women normalize.

If you’ve ever felt like you disappeared while trying to make something work… this episode will hit home.

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Luba is joined by Taylor Morgan McPherson to talk about the internet’s newest dating phenomenon: Boyfriend Maxing.

Translation? Women are no longer settling for bare-minimum energy.
They’re dating for the experience — the effort, the adventures, the lifestyle, and the standards that should have been there all along.

Is this empowerment?
Is it emotional detachment?
Or are women simply playing the same game men have played for decades?

Grab a glass of wine and join the conversation. Follow Taylor on instagram, tiktok and YouTube @sparklequeenla

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Every year, Luba takes what she calls her annual Eat Pray Love trip one month away from home, traveling solo, with no expectations except to reset, reflect, and see what the world brings her.

Last year, the trip was to Thailand.
This year, it was Paris and Spain, and the experience turned out to be completely different in ways she never expected.

After posting a video that went viral with over 1.4 million views, followers flooded her DMs asking about the mystery man seen in the clip and what really happened on the trip.
In this episode, she finally gives the update everyone has been asking for.

But the story goes deeper than one moment.

This episode follows Luba’s journey returning to Paris as a completely different woman than the one who traveled to Thailand the year before, more confident, more grounded, and no longer searching for healing the same way she once was.

She talks about:
 • why she takes a solo Eat Pray Love trip every year
 • how travel alone after heartbreak changes you
 • the truth behind the viral video and the mystery man
 • the unexpected moments in Spain and Paris that shifted the entire trip
 • and why this time, instead of trying to find herself, she realized she already had

What started as another reset turned into something else entirely 
a trip that felt less like recovery, and more like stepping fully into the life she built on her own.

This is the real story behind the posts, the reels, the viral clip, and the question everyone keeps asking:

Did Paris love her back this time?

In this episode, she finally answers.

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Episode #02 // Season 2026

Let’s get real (and maybe a little too real) about faking it in the bedroom. Should you ever fake an orgasm? Does it really spare feelings—or is it just giving out gold stars for participation? 👀 In this episode, we’re breaking down the lies, the laughs, and the awkward truths of bedroom theatrics. From keeping the spark alive to owning your pleasure like the boss you are, we’re diving into the good, the bad, and the totally cringe-worthy.

So, grab your wine, put the kids to bed (or not, we don’t judge), and tune in for a spicy, sassy chat that’ll leave you questioning, “Why fake it when you can just... make it?” 💋

Press play and let’s get louder about what really matters! 🎧🔥

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