Beyond I Do

Beyond I Do

By Byron and Margaret McKieSociety & CultureRelationships
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Beyond I Do episodes

  • What We Get Wrong About Marriage (and What to Do Instead) with guest Hanna Basel

    In this raw and insightful episode, couples therapist and sex therapist Hanna Basel joins us to unpack the real reasons love gets hard—and why that doesn’t mean it’s wrong. We dive into common relationship myths, the effects of trauma and attachment styles, how to navigate mismatched libidos, and what truly changes when a couple shows up to do the work. Whether you're healing from infidelity, wrestling with disconnection, or just trying to love better, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, challenged, and supported.

    50 min
  • Unlocking Lasting Love: Communication Secrets with Michael Moore & Robin Temple

    Join us on this episode as we welcome Michael Moore and Robin Temple, co-founders of Couples.solutions. With over 70 years of combined experience, they share invaluable insights on building lasting, loving relationships.


    Discover their unique approach to communication, overcoming challenges, and reigniting the spark, drawing from their own journey and expertise in helping couples thrive. Learn practical tools for a healthier, happier marriage.

    1 hr 11 min
  • Opening Bedroom Doors: Real Talk with a Sex Therapist

    In this NSFW episode, we’re joined by licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist Angela Skurtu. Angela breaks down how shame, silence, and purity culture have shaped our ideas about sex—and how couples can heal, reconnect, and reignite their intimacy.

    We talk about:

    • The damage done by purity culture

    • How to teach kids about consent and healthy sexuality

    • What leads to sexless marriages

    • Why many women have never experienced real pleasure

    • The importance of communication, trust, and exploration in a healthy sex life

    Angela shares real insights, helpful tools, and even a few laughs as we get honest about intimacy and relationships.

    🎧 You’re going to want to send this one to your partner.

    55 min
  • How We Divorce-Proof Our Marriage: A Real Conversation with the Thorells

    On this episode, we welcome back Tracy and Tabatha Thorell—high school sweethearts, parents of five, business partners, and all-around real ones. They get candid about what it really takes to stay connected through parenting, big pivots, and building a life together.

    We talk about:

    • What it means to truly support your spouse

    • Why it’s okay to pivot (even when it feels like failure)

    • How to keep your relationship strong while raising kids

    • Teaching kids about dreams, money, and responsibility

    • Creating space for connection—even when life is full
  • Whether you’re newly married or 17 years in like they are, this one will hit home.


    1 hr 6 min
  • Before You Say "I Do": Real Talk About Marriage Prep with Verlyn Tarlton

    In this episode, we sit down with Verlyn Tarlton—author, podcaster, premarital coach, wife, mother of five, and grandmother of four—to have an honest conversation about marriage preparation.

    Verlyn shares why understanding your "why" before marriage matters, how to shift from wedding day fantasy to real-life partnership, and the critical role of reflective listening. If you want a marriage that’s happy and sustainable (not just picture-perfect), this episode will open your eyes.

    Connect with Verlyn: verlyntarlton.com

    YouTube: The Before You Do Podcast with Premarital Coach Verlyn

    43 min
  • Wedding Vows and Speeches: The Art of Saying 'I Do' with Brian Franklin

    In this episode, we chat with Brian Franklin, the co-founder and CEO of Vows and Speeches, a company dedicated to helping couples craft personalized wedding vows, speeches, and ceremony scripts. Brian shares his unique journey—from working in politics to helping couples create meaningful moments on their wedding day. He dives into the process of writing vows, common mistakes people make, and why your wedding speech should be as unique as your love story. Plus, he tells some hilarious and heartwarming stories from his work in the wedding industry.

    53 min
  • Relationships, Self-Growth, and the Truth About Expectations - with Francine Tirrell

    Ever feel like you’re stuck in the “busyness trap,” constantly moving but never really getting anywhere? In this episode, we sit down with Francine Tirrell, a mindset coach and energy healer, to talk about the importance of slowing down, tuning in, and trusting the journey.

    Francine shares how a life-changing loss pushed her to leave corporate life behind and step into coaching. We also dive into:

    1. The addiction to being busy and how to break free
    2. Aging, societal expectations, and learning to embrace every stage of life
    3. The mind-body connection and why your body holds more wisdom than you think
    4. The power of self-reflection in relationships
    5. Inner child work and how healing past wounds transforms your present


    If you’ve ever struggled with negative self-talk, unrealistic expectations in relationships, or simply feeling like you have to be productive 24/7, this episode is for you.


    44 min
  • The Love Prescription: Navigating Relationships with Confidence

    Breaking up is hard—but what if heartbreak could be a stepping stone to something greater? In this episode, we sit down with Holly McCusker, founder of Love Prescriptions, to explore the emotional journey of breakup grief, mastering dating skills, and navigating relationship dynamics with confidence. With nearly a decade in the matchmaking and relationship industry, Holly shares powerful insights on healing, self-awareness, and building meaningful connections. Whether you're fresh out of a breakup or looking to level up your dating game, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you create the love life you deserve.

    33 min

About Beyond I Do

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The Beyond I Do Podcast is where married couples come to stay connected, communicate better, and build lasting friendship. Hosted by Byron and Margaret—married 28 years and still best friends—we share real conversations about love, marriage, conflict, intimacy, parenting, and everything in between.