What happens when you question the faith you were raised in? In this deeply personal conversation, Tamara sits down with Gibran Malik, host of The Muslim Philosopher podcast, to explore the role of doubt in deepening faith, the difference between blind belief and trust, and how to navigate spiritual teachings with discernment.

Both Tamara and Gibran share their journeys of wrestling with—and ultimately returning to or reimagining—their faith traditions. From leaving a cult-like church to deliberately "rebooting" religious belief, they discuss what it means to hold faith with intellectual honesty, the dangers of spiritual abuse, and why questioning might be the most faithful thing you can do.

This episode is for anyone navigating uncertainty in their beliefs, seeking truth across traditions, or trying to distinguish between authentic spirituality and manipulative teaching.

Gibran Malik is the host of The Muslim Philosopher podcast, where he explores Islam through the lens of philosophy, critical thinking, and lived experience. As an audio engineer and spiritual thinker, Gibran brings a unique perspective to interfaith dialogue—having deliberately questioned and "rebooted" his faith to ensure intellectual honesty. His work bridges traditional Islamic teaching with contemporary questions about truth, meaning, and human nature.

Connect with Gibran:

• 🎙️Podcast: The Muslim Philosopher: https://youtube.com/@themuslimphilosopher
• IG: instagram.com/the_muslim_philosopher_

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📧 Email: [email protected] 🔗

IG: @tamrenee_speaks

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In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond the Box ™, Tamara Kellam tackles the complex topic of gender differences in emotional intelligence with nuance and care. Drawing on her expertise as a certified emotional intelligence practitioner and organizational development consultant, Tamara clarifies common misconceptions about EQ while exploring how socialization shapes the emotional skills men and women typically develop. She breaks down the difference between ability EI (raw capacity) and trait EI (behavioral tendencies), revealing fascinating patterns: women tend to score higher in skills that facilitate connection while men's strengths are more distributed across areas that enhance personal advocacy, decision making and stress management. But these differences aren't innate; they reflect what we've been culturally conditioned to prioritize, often at the expense of balance and wholeness.

Tamara's ultimate message is one of integration rather than division. Using her framework, she emphasizes that true emotional intelligence isn't about excelling in connection OR autonomy—it's about developing balance across all skills regardless of gender. Whether you're a leader, parent, or educator trying to understand how these differences impact your team or family, this episode offers a refreshing lens for navigating gender dynamics with more empathy and less combat. Ready to explore how emotional intelligence can transform your leadership or relationships? Visit insightseqsolutions.com to learn more about Tamara's integration, resilience, and emotional intelligence consulting services, or reach out directly at [email protected] to continue the conversation.

We often think of power and connection as opposing forces—that we must choose between being powerful or being loved. But this false binary keeps us trapped in patterns of exploitation or self-abandonment. In this episode, Tamara explores what happens when we understand our fundamental interdependence: that differentiation is not the same as separation, and that real power isn't something we acquire and wield over others, but something we express through aligned action while honoring our connection to life itself.

Drawing from her workplace resilience research, she examines how the three innate drives of worth, empowerment, and connection interact in our lives. When fragmented or out of balance, these drives create patterns of dysfunction: some people seek worth through exploiting power, while others abandon power entirely in pursuit of connection. Using the P. Diddy documentary as a case study, she breaks down how worthiness wounds drive the accumulation of external power, why what you attempt to control ultimately controls you, and the crucial difference between externalized power (fragile, contingent, requiring domination) and internally generated power (expressed through values and agency while respecting others' autonomy). Martin Luther King Jr. taught us that power without love is abusive, but love without power is anemic—the path forward isn't choosing one over the other, it's integration.

In this authentic, off-script episode of Beyond the Box, Tamara Kellam reimagines resilience as a shared resource that emerges through relationships and collective experience—not a trait one either has or lacks. Drawing from both research and lived experience, she introduces four sequential practices of emotional intelligence—awareness, filtering, regulation, and facilitation—as pathways to greater emotional clarity and adaptability. Tamara explains how emotional filtering helps us distill real-time emotional signals from the noise of projection and story, creating the foundation for authentic emotional regulation and constructive expression. Through accessible examples and personal reflection, she demonstrates how cultivating these practices can transform how we respond to challenges—strengthening not only individual resilience but our collective capacity to thrive and co-create in times of change.

What if problems aren’t obstacles to fix, but teachers that transform us? In this episode of Beyond the Box, Tamara Kellam shares the story of “Little Joe,” a five-year-old boy whose childhood injury could have ended his future, but instead opened the door to an unexpected possibility. Along the way, Tamara explores the limits of positive thinking, the wisdom of radical acceptance, and how moving from sense-making to meaning-making expands our resilience.

The TEDx Talk that Tamara references can be found here: Donald Davis' TEDx Talk Link.

Why do some groups thrive under pressure while others fall apart? In this episode, Tamara Kellam explores how collective emotional intelligence strengthens resilience—helping teams, families, and communities adapt and grow through challenges. You’ll learn why group EQ is more than the sum of individual skills, and why culture and context matter so much. Tamara also shares three key practices that build awareness, trust, and shared agreements, giving groups the tools to move from disempowerment to possibility. Crossing the bridge together, we discover what it means to co-create even in the face of setbacks.

What if rejection isn’t just personal—but a reflection of how we define power, love, and identity in our relationships? In this episode of Beyond the Box, Tamara Kellam explores how our fears of rejection often stem from transactional ways of relating, and how shifting toward transformational relationships can build resilience. Through personal reflections, psychological insights, and practical experiments, Tamara invites listeners to reimagine belonging—not as performance, but as presence.

When the future feels unclear, it’s easy to doubt your vision—or abandon it altogether. In this episode of Beyond the Box, Tamara Kellam explores how leaders can hold onto their vision in the face of uncertainty, drawing on the metaphor of the mirage to reveal how our perceptions can distort both challenges and opportunities. Discover why resilience requires not just grit, but the courage to be wrong—and how embracing that courage opens the door to radical possibility.

In this premiere episode, Tamara Kellam introduces the vision behind Beyond the Box and explores why radical possibility begins with how rather than what we think. What if the systems we long to change aren’t just “out there,” but also within us? From systems theory to self-transformation, this episode is an invitation to deconstruct the mental, cultural, and structural boxes we’ve inherited, and imagine entirely new ways of seeing, leading, and living.