Saying that should cease – Grass is Greener on the Other Side

Often, we believe that that others have it made, but in reality, we can appreciate our current surroundings.

Psych Central analysis - https://psychcentral.com/blog/relationships-balance/2013/03/16/the-grass-is-greener-syndrome#5

Beyond the Minimum podcast episode - https://beyondtheminimum.podbean.com/e/saying-that-shoud-cease-go-along-to-get-along/

Simon Sinek’s YouTube (11:54 – 12:10) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPcgEBbNQvw&list=PLgCOAz4cqZMROPAsFBt_IWgOmMax6Y24y&index=6

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

Update on some events

It has been some time since I recorded a podcast, and I thought I should give an update. Listen to hear the three large events that took place in my life from April – May 2023.

Resources:

Bill Cain’s book - https://www.amazon.ca/Diary-Jesus-Christ-Bill-Cain/dp/1626984077

Rick Beato’s analysis of If You Could Read my Mind https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X33YyowZZxQ&list=PLW0NGgv1qnfzb1klL6Vw9B0aiM7ryfXV_&index=15

Rick Beato’s tribute upon Gordon Lightfoot’s Death - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Iw7Jei8XOo

Documentary on Gordon Lightfoot https://gem.cbc.ca/gordon-lightfoot-if-you-could-read-my-mind

Glenda Bartlett’s obituary - https://www.wardfuneralhomes.com/memorials/glenda--bartlett/5196703/index.php

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

What Good Looks Like – Interview with Greg Hollander

Listen to Greg’s description of how they hire, support one another, hold meetings, have committees and so much more.  Lots of hidden treasures in practices that others can (and have been) adopt(ing)!

Greg’s bio:

Greg Hollander is a Realtor® with Keller Williams Integrity. As well as helping a variety of clients with their real estate needs, he is also a Realtor® who specializes in helping seniors and empty nesters downsize with his Next Stage Method.

Greg’s contact info:

Email: [email protected]

Greg’s free downloads:

Next Stage Method Guide:

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

Expanding our Vocabulary – Extrinsic incentives bias

We often believe that people can be motivated by incentives – just up the incentives, and they will be more motivated.  This is actually a bias, and when employed, can be counterproductive.

MADTv Safety at Work episode - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zVB5lQpPYow

Dan Ariely’s videos - https://danariely.com/resources/#gallery

Hidden Brain episode - https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/what-do-you-want-to-be/

Humankind – a hopeful history – (where I learned of this term) https://www.amazon.ca/Humankind-Hopeful-History-Rutger-Bregman/dp/0316418536

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

Saying that should cease – Getting away with it

Rules are out there – speed limits, paying for things, etc. – and there are times when they are not enforced.  We often feel a brush of excitement in getting away with something, but is this helpful?

The Agenda episode on Has the Government Mishandled Pandemic Spending? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IyDtRF-oQlk&t=1205s

The Inquiry on American Road Fatalities https://www.podbean.com/media/share/dir-pthb6-173c1277

The Agenda episode on Is Everyone Robbing Everyone in the Underground Economy? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XEfe9Bqia2o

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

Expanding our Vocabulary – Radical responsibility

Our world has many complainers who bemoan their circumstances, but we all can be empowered to change things with radical responsibility.

Matt Gurney’s commentary https://theline.substack.com/p/experimental-the-line-podcast-episode-e9e 1:19-4:37

Conscious Leadership group https://conscious.is/

Episode on the Fundamental Attribution Error https://beyondtheminimum.podbean.com/e/expanding-our-vocabulary-%e2%80%93-fundamental-attribution-error/

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

Saying that should cease – Time heals all wounds

While a common saying, time is not the healer.  Healing includes everything from medical attention for physical wounds, attentional focus for psychological wounds, and internal work and forgiveness.

Merriam Webster dictionary https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/grudge

Peter Herrndorf’s memorial - https://www.tvo.org/article/remembering-peter-herrndorf

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

Expanding our Vocabulary – Pluralistic Ignorance

When we are in a group, we may be influenced by how others behave, believing that their thoughts influence their behaviour, and allow this to override what we are thinking, and then behaving.

Humankind: A hope for humanity (Rutger Bregman) https://www.amazon.ca/Humankind-Hopeful-History-Rutger-Bregman/dp/0316418536

Asch experiment analysis https://www.simplypsychology.org/asch-conformity.html

Lemmings and their behaviour https://www.britannica.com/story/do-lemmings-really-commit-mass-suicide

How Disney influenced our understanding of lemmings https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Wilderness_(film)

Beyond the Minimum Go Along to Get Along https://beyondtheminimum.podbean.com/?s=Go%20Along%20to%20get%20along

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

Saying that should cease – If You Build It, They Will Come

While often quoted in many circles, it takes far more than building to get them to come.

Origin of the phrase Field of Dreams movie - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Field_of_Dreams

Ginny Whitelaw’s Article - https://www.forbes.com/sites/ginnywhitelaw/2021/08/01/if-you-build-it-will-they-come/?sh=70a043846b6a

Previous episode on One Size Fits All - https://beyondtheminimum.podbean.com/e/saying-that-should-cease-one-size-fits-all/

Christian Harris’ LinkedIn profile https://www.linkedin.com/in/christian-harris-slip-safety/

Christian Harris’ event https://www.linkedin.com/events/getconsistentgrowthininterest-l7020020071863316480/about/

The working genius website: https://www.workinggenius.com/

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/

What Good Looks Like – An Interview with Mike Zelek

An interview with the head of HR of Wellington Group of Companies, where he explains the ins and outs of a healthy trucking company.  Listen to the many practices that he discusses helps makes drivers feel valued, with a high retention rate, and far more good days than bad ones.

(Taken from Truck News : Mike Zelek has been working in transportation for more than 10 years. He has worked in logistics, dispatch and recruiting before settling into his role as vice-president of human resources at Wellington Group of Companies. Mike was named the National Recruiter of the Year at the National Recruiting and Retention Symposium in 2021 and has led Wellington to three straight years of being named one of the Truckload Carriers Association's Best Fleets to Drive For. He has presented at many industry events and currently volunteers on several transportation related committees.)

Mike Zelek’s email: [email protected]

Mike Zelek’s LinkedIn account : https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelzelek/

Mike Zelek’s articles in Truck News https://www.trucknews.com/author/michael-zelek/

Connect with Tanya Hewitt on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hewitt-55804529/

Buy her a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/tanyah

Credits:

Adam Johns – voiceover - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjohns730/

Beverley McKiver – composer and player of the music Tell Me About Love - https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverleymckiver/