We have to realize the Holy Spirit is a person that can be grieved, it's the third person of the GodHead. We can grieve or quench the spirit from burning red hot in us. Just as the Laodiceans grew lukewarm, without realizing it was their thinking, attitude, and disposition which had blinded them, to not see as Samson and Saul that the spirit's fire was out, or being quenched.