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When the unexpected unfolds during childbirth, how do we navigate the twists and turns with grace and strength? Taylor Nosakhere, birth coach and doula, joins me to share her profound insight into the world of birth and motherhood. This episode peels back the layers of birthing plans gone awry, from aspirations of a serene birth center experience to the stark realities of a hospital transfer, and the sheer resilience it takes to reclaim one's birth journey.

Our conversation ventures into the heart of childbirth, where the best-laid plans often give way to the unforeseen. Taylor recounts her own labor stories, revealing the emotional rollercoaster of stalled contractions, the pivotal decisions like opting for an epidural, and the surprising effects of solitude on labor progression. With openness and vulnerability, we discuss the importance of a strong support system, self-advocacy, and the empowerment that comes from having a clear understanding of the myriad choices in birth care.

This exchange serves as an empowering beacon for mothers and mothers-to-be, emphasizing the significance of aligning with healthcare providers who respect your birthing preferences. We close our dialogue with reflections on the continuous learning journey of parenthood, balancing energies within expanding families, and the importance of confronting our deepest fears. Taylor's stories and wisdom encourage all listening to embrace their strengths and forge their unique paths through the transformative experience of childbirth.

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This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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Feel the warmth and wisdom as Amy Frost, the inspiring co-founder of Baby Cito and a peri-natal yoga teacher, unfolds the tapestry of her motherhood journey with us. With the intimate details of her first child's winter solstice birth, Amy captures the essence of labor's uncertainty and the profound joy found in an unmedicated delivery. Her candid narrative not only sheds light on the physical sensations of childbirth but also navigates through the induction process with a clarity that's as refreshing as it is educational. Amy's story is a testament to the unpredictable dance of entering motherhood.

Venture further into the delicate postpartum period where Amy bravely addresses the challenges that often remain whispered. Our conversation delves into the critical need for preparation and understanding to create a buffer against postpartum anxiety. Amy's personal recount of the support she received, from her partner's hands-on techniques during labor to acknowledging and treating perinatal mood disorders, is a powerful reminder of the strength found in vulnerability. Listeners are invited to absorb these invaluable lessons, recognizing the common yet often overlooked aspects of the postpartum experience.

As our dialogue evolves, we celebrate the redemptive power of community and foresight in Amy's subsequent childbirth experience. Learn how a proactive approach, encompassing postpartum doulas to lactation consultants, transformed Amy's second journey into one of empowerment. Baby Cito, her brainchild, emerges as a beacon of support for mothers seeking assistance, demonstrating its tremendous potential for growth. Amy's reflections on her tale's retelling are imbued with gratitude, inviting us to witness the impact of support systems that extend beyond one family and ripple throughout communities nationwide.

Connect with Amy at babycito.co

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Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

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This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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When Mary Adkins, accomplished author and writing coach, graced us with her presence on the podcast, we uncovered the tangled web of motherhood fused with professional life. Her journey, marked by the birth of her son Finn, is filled with the kind of transformative experiences only parenthood can bestow. From the financial complexities to the surprises of postpartum hospital policies, Mary's storytelling reveals the candid essence of a life reshaped by the arrival of a child. As we exchanged our own labor stories, laughter mingled with the raw emotion of shared experiences, emphasizing the boundless nature of this universal rite of passage.

Breastfeeding, a subject often glossed over with rosy expectations, was dissected in its messy reality. Mary and I delved into the challenges and societal pressures that accompany nursing, from tongue ties to the emotional weight of supplementing with formula. This segment of the conversation is a testament to the resilience required for new mothers to find balance, underscoring the importance of informed choices that prioritize both mother and baby's well-being.

The episode rounded out with an intimate look at Mary's process of penning a novel amidst the chaos of new parenthood, the trials of infertility, and the decision to embrace her family as it is. Through her experiences with miscarriages and IVF, listeners are offered a poignant reflection on resilience and acceptance. Mary's upcoming projects tease the promise of future discussions that will undoubtedly resonate with many. Join us for an episode that traverses the peaks and valleys of parenting, creativity, and the enduring human spirit.

To connect with Mary, go to maryadkinswriter.com

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Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

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This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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When Trishia Plett stepped into the world of motherhood, it wasn't just a birth story she was crafting—it was a testament to resilience, advocacy, and the intimate dance between autonomy and wellness. As a health and wellness ambassador, Tricia opens the doors to her deeply personal journey through the challenges and triumphs of pregnancy, especially under the shadow of PCOS and a health scare. Gripping from start to finish, her narrative is a vibrant tapestry of emotional revelations, the push for unmedicated childbirth, and the pursuit of balance in her newfound role as a parent.

Navigating the healthcare system is no small feat, and Trishia’s experience is a masterclass in standing your ground and voicing your birth preferences. She pulls back the curtain on the complexities of high-risk pregnancies and the significance of aligning her birth plan with her values. Through this episode, listeners will witness the evolution of a mother's determination, the importance of prenatal preparation, and the influence of family history on birthing expectations. Trishia’s story resonates with power and encouragement, underlining her commitment to maintaining autonomy during childbirth and the tender moments that define the transition into parenthood.

In the dynamic interplay of career and motherhood, Trishia’s return to her profession adds a new dimension to her story. We unpack the nuances of integrating work and family life, the influence of understanding one's body, and the unexpected joys of natural postpartum recovery. The conversation culminates in a heartwarming expression of gratitude and a candid reflection on societal pressures and family planning. Each chapter of this episode is a mosaic of support and insight, offering a guiding light to parents and parents-to-be on similar voyages. Join us as we celebrate personal victories and navigate the tides of family life with Trishia Plett, whose story is nothing short of inspiring.

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Kelly Hof: Labor Nurse + Birth Coach
Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

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Medical Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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Ever wondered how the stress you're feeling could actually pause the miraculous process of childbirth? I’m peeling back the layers to reveal the unseen effects of stress on labor. This episode takes you through the science of stress and its ability to disrupt the delicate dance of hormones necessary for labor to progress. It's a discussion that promises not just insights but transformational tools for an empowering entrance into parenthood.

Transitioning smoothly, we then spotlight the immense value of emotional preparedness as you step onto the threshold of birth. It’s not just about the physical readiness, but arming yourself with the emotional resilience to claim a birth experience that is as serene as it is powerful. Listen as I explore the intersection of mind, body, and the birthing journey.

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Kelly Hof: Labor Nurse + Birth Coach
Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

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Join the Bump & Beyond Online Community!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/bumpnbeyond

Grab The Book of Hormones on Amazon!

Medical Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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Discover the intricate dance of midwifery care and the empowering role of patients in healthcare through the expert eyes of Jodilyn Owen, LM, CPM, and Arya Pretlow, MSN, CNM, IBCLC, C-IYAT. For those curious about the meticulous qualifications behind safe home or birth center deliveries and the scenarios that necessitate a hospital transfer, this episode is a treasure trove of insights. We cut through the common myths surrounding non-hospital births, celebrating the proactive, data-driven approaches that characterize midwifery, and the vital collaboration with obstetricians. Meanwhile, the conversation also turns to the dedication of labor and delivery nurses who, despite the challenges of being understaffed and the emotional toll of the job, tirelessly prioritize the wellbeing of mothers and babies.

Step into the world of maternity care, where patient autonomy is nurtured and the resilience of healthcare providers shines bright. We examine the pressures new nurses face and the wisdom of experienced professionals in creating a personalized birth experience. This episode underscores the importance of encouraging patients to voice their needs, further highlighting the role of healthcare professionals in facilitating a birth experience that honors the physiological processes of labor. It's a heartfelt homage to those who navigate the high-stakes environment of hospitals, striving to maintain patient-centered care amidst a myriad of challenges.

Wrapping up, we delve into the transformative impact of collaborative care models, which bridge the gap between midwives and healthcare systems. Whether you're a healthcare professional or a first-time parent seeking guidance, join us on this exploration of birth environments and the profound respect for life that midwives bring to every delivery. Our conversation aims to connect you to a community that values every aspect of the birthing process and inspire collective efforts to improve maternity care for all.

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Kelly Hof: Labor Nurse + Birth Coach
Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

Support the show

Connect with Kelly at kellyhof.com

Join the Bump & Beyond Online Community!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/bumpnbeyond

Grab The Book of Hormones on Amazon!

Medical Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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Ever wonder how drastically different two births can be? Imagine one which is calm and another being a chaotic rush - that's the compelling narrative of our guest Lindsay Bermudez, co-founder of Babycito. Lindsay takes us on a journey through her two unique childbirth experiences, the support she received, and the subsequent inspiration to create a platform connecting new parents with resources in Northern Virginia (and one day beyond1!)

As we delve deeper, we unravel the unspoken physical and emotional challenges of natural childbirth, highlighting the significance of equipping oneself adequately. Sharing our personal struggles, we bring up the topic of breastfeeding, including challenges faced with milk protein intolerance and the quest to find the perfect formula. We explore the necessity of having a strong mindset and support system, whether it's through childbirth classes or a comprehensive platform for new parents.

To wrap up our conversation, we delve into Babycito and the critical role it plays in bridging the gap between families and crucial services like doulas and lactation consultants. One thing is clear - the need for support extends beyond childbirth and evolves as the child grows. Tune in to learn how Babycito aims to support families and connect them with the resources they need throughout this incredible journey called parenthood.

Connect with Lindsay at babycito.co

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Kelly Hof: Labor Nurse + Birth Coach
Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

Support the show

Connect with Kelly at kellyhof.com

Join the Bump & Beyond Online Community!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/bumpnbeyond

Grab The Book of Hormones on Amazon!

Medical Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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How does trauma from sexual abuse affect pregnancy and postpartum experiences? This pressing question forms the crux of our conversation with Jennifer Byrnes, LPC a seasoned therapist certified in perinatal mental health and EMDR. Unveiling some profound insights, Jennifer helps us dissect the complexities of consent, the way trauma imprints itself on our bodies, and how these elements can affect a woman's journey through pregnancy and beyond.

We journey further into the shadows of trauma, exploring its impacts on pregnancy, labor, and postpartum experiences. Jennifer guides us through the nuances of how trauma can manifest as dissociation and a sense of lost control during childbirth, and the essential role that trust and consent play in this process. Through a frank discussion, we tackle the realities of PTSD and postpartum depression, underscoring the need for a trusted support person, mindfulness techniques, and the importance of patient involvement in decision-making.

Finally, we turn our attention to the empowering process of delivery decision-making. Jennifer carves out a path for survivors, highlighting the importance of communication with providers and exploring various delivery options. We delve into the treatability of perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, a condition affecting one in five individuals. Jennifer strongly encourages seeking help and finding a supportive provider, emphas

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This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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Prepare to challenge your preconceptions about pregnancy and childbirth as we tap into the expertise of our featured guest, Dr. Betel Aklilu, a chiropractor who passionately champions for chiropractic care during pregnancy. She spotlights how chiropractic adjustments can realign the pelvis and sacrum, creating a more conducive environment for the baby to descend during the birth process. Join us as we unveil the transformative potential of chiropractic care, debunking common myths, and serving as a valuable educational tool for expecting individuals.

We delve into the how chiropractic care leads to better outcomes in labor and delivery. We also explore the rising trend of midwives and OB/GYNs endorsing chiropractic care for malpositioned babies and stress the importance of embracing all forms of assistance during this pivotal journey. Sharing heartfelt testimonials and experiences, we aim to influence a paradigm shift, highlighting the positive impacts of chiropractic care during pregnancy.

As we wrap up this informative episode, we underscore the importance of thorough preparation and awareness around the entire birthing process. A standout story is shared of a mother diagnosed with preeclampsia who experienced a successful natural birth at the hospital, thanks to a thorough education and a supportive team including a doula and a chiropractor. We share the importance of  advocating for more awareness and available options for pregnant women. Dr. Aklilu's staunch belief in the advantages of staying active during pregnancy and the role of chiropractic care in facilitating this, shines through. We aim to spark a productive dialogue among providers, with the goal of allaying fear-based decisions, focusing solely on the ultimate prize: a healthy mom and a healthy baby.

To connect with Dr. Aklilu, please visit https://kelayi.org/

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Kelly Hof: Labor Nurse + Birth Coach
Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

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Medical Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.

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Ever asked yourself, how does one juggle the demands of raising four daughters within five years and still maintain sanity? Our special guest, Mary Willcox Smith, not only tackles this question but also uncovers her personal journey to becoming a successful parenting coach. With a childhood marked by trauma, Mary’s story is a testament to resilience and the power of transformation. Follow her intriguing journey from her first pregnancy and birth experience in Argentina, through her subsequent births, to her decision to contribute to the world of parenting through her book.

The conversation gets even more riveting as we explore the unique challenges Mary faced with infant health and the diverse experiences shaped by her different births. Hear about her experiences with the Argentine medical system as we delve into the contrasting level of care her first and second daughters received. As we navigate through the intricate aspects of motherhood, you'll discover the invaluable importance of adequate medical care during childbirth. 

Our discussion isn't just about birthing stories and experiences; it's also about breaking the cycle of negative communication and creating a more empathetic environment for children. Find out how Mary adjusted to the new normal with her virtual presentations during the pandemic and the lessons she's taken away from it. We also brainstorm on her upcoming presentations on resilience and delve into the microstep method. Whether you're a new parent, an experienced one, or someone preparing for the journey, prepare to be inspired, enlightened, and empowered.

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https://www.marysmithparentcoach.com

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Kelly Hof: Labor Nurse + Birth Coach
Basically, I'm your birth bestie! With me as your coach, you will tell fear to take a hike!

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Connect with Kelly at kellyhof.com

Join the Bump & Beyond Online Community!
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Grab The Book of Hormones on Amazon!

Medical Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended as a safe space for women to share their birth experiences. It is not intended to provide medical advice. Each woman’s medical course of action is individual and may not appropriately transfer to another similar situation. Please speak to your medical provider before making any medical decisions. Additionally, it is important to keep in mind that evidence based practice evolves as our knowledge of science improves. To the best of my ability I will attempt to present the most current ACOG and AWHONN recommendations at the time the podcast is recorded, but that may not necessarily reflect the best practices at the time the podcast is heard. Additionally, guests sharing their stories have the right to autonomy in their medical decisions, and may share their choice to go against current practice recommendations. I intend to hold space for people to share their decisions. I will attempt to share the current recommendations so that my audience is informed, but it is up to each individual to choose what is best for them.