Bitch Got Out Of Line

Bitch Got Out Of Line

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Bitch Got Out Of Line episodes

  • E8: Perimenopause & The Decade Of Rage

    An honest conversation about what 12 years of perimenopause has been like. 

    Episode 8: Perimenopause & The Decade of Rage — a no-holds-barred, deeply personal and trauma-informed look at what really happens when women hit their 30s, 40s, and 50s.

     

    Host Amanda shares her raw, unfiltered experience navigating over a decade of perimenopause, busting medical myths, confronting historical misogyny in women’s healthcare, and spotlighting the overlooked emotional, hormonal, and spiritual impacts of this massive life transition.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    • Why perimenopause often starts way earlier than you think

    • The truth about the “decade of rage” nobody talks about

    • How trauma, undiagnosed neurodivergence, and hormone shifts collide

    • Why gaslighting by medical professionals makes it worse

    • What every woman deserves to know—and why it’s never “just in your head”

      Amanda also shares insights from her training as a trauma-informed coach, how to find a therapist who actually listens, and why it’s okay to scream, shift, change, and reclaim your damn life.

      Trigger Warning: This episode contains adult language, mentions of substance use, and references to trauma, including medical gaslighting. Not medical advice. For mature audiences.

      Topics:

      perimenopause podcast, menopause symptoms, women’s rage, hormone imbalance, trauma-informed therapy, medical gaslighting, midlife awakening, ADHD in women, menopause mental health, neurodivergence and hormones, healing after trauma, dysregulation, nervous system support, therapy journey, aging women podcast, women's health

      27 min
    • Bonus Episode | Bitch Got Out Of Line | Full Song by Midlife Madness

      You thought a fist could make me stay,

      That fear could shape what I would say.
      But I took the hit and kept my spine,
      Now watch me rise, bitch got outta line.

      You slammed the door, thought you were king,

      But only cowards do that kind of thing.
      Your strength was fake, all bark, no bite—
      I packed my rage and lit the night.

      **Chorus**

      I got louder when you tried to hush,
      Stood taller in the silent crush.
      You broke the mirror, but not my mind—
      You lost control when I declined.
      You called me crazy, called me wild,
      But I’m not your pet, not your child.
      I walked away and that was fine—
      Bitch got free, bitch got outta line.

      You threw words like knives to skin,

      But my fire burned too bright to dim.
      You called it love, I saw the trap,
      Danced through the ashes, never looked back.

      **Chorus**

      I got louder when you tried to hush,
      Stood taller in the silent crush.
      You broke the mirror, but not my mind—
      You lost control when I declined.
      You called me crazy, called me wild,
      But I’m not your pet, not your child.
      I walked away and that was fine—
      Bitch got free, bitch got outta line.

      **Bridge**

      So here’s to every scream you feared,
      To every bruise that disappeared.
      I wear my scars like medals now—
      You lost me when you showed me how.

      **Final Chorus**

      I got louder when you tried to hush,
      Stood taller in the silent crush.
      You broke the mirror, but not my mind—
      You lost control when I declined.
      You thought you'd win by breaking me—
      But I was never yours to keep.
      I walked through fire and crossed that line—
      Bitch got brave, bitch got outta line.

      **Outro**

      So next time you raise that hand in pride,
      Just know who ran and who survived.
      I’m not the one who lost their spine—
      You’re the bitch who got outta line.
      Yeah you're the bitch, who got outta line
      (few chords of outro music)

      3 min
    • E7: Weight Gain And Abusive Environments + Chat GPT's Misogynist Jokes

      In this no-filter, no-fluff episode, Amanda and Raven crack open the reality of what it means to survive emotional abuse, weaponized politeness, and the exhaustion of always holding it together.

      Raven shares stories from her marriage, her trauma, and the nervous system breakdown that followed years of trying to be the “good wife” in a toxic dynamic.

      Raven brings the fire, the validation, and the hard-earned insight as the two explore how women are dehumanized by culture, crushed by diet lies, and expected to thank abusers for crumbs of affection.

      This episode hits hard on:

      – Anger as a sacred part of healing
      – Trauma responses disguised as daily life
      – Body shame, eating disorders, and diet culture grief
      – The myth of the perfect parent and what it costs us
      – Emotional immaturity in men and generational cycles of neglect
      – The violence of unsolicited advice
      – Panic attacks in safe spaces and the nervous system aftermath

      If you’ve ever had a panic attack in peace, blamed yourself for abuse, or woke up realizing you’re done being nice—this one’s for you. Amanda and Raven are not here to play nice. They’re here to burn shit down and rebuild something honest.

       

      #emotionalabusesurvivor, #traumahealingjourney, #nervoussystemregulation, #donebeingnice, #rageisvalid, #breakinggenerationaltrauma, #bodyneutralitymovement, #healingoutloud

      53 min
    • The Aftermath of Business As A Spiritual Path - A Little Bit Salty, Bonus Episode

      A former insider exposes five years inside a toxic spiritual company using cult tactics, gaslighting, dark psychology, and claims of fake energy healing machines.

      From love bombing and manipulation to misogyny and the discard, this raw personal account reveals how trauma bonding, fake angels, and placebo-based services were marketed as salvation.

      This episode dives deep into spiritual abuse, narcissistic leadership, and the emotional toll of working inside a narcissistic organization disguised as healing. Perfect for listeners recovering from cults, MLMs, religious trauma, and New Age manipulation.

      ******

      spiritual abuse, cult recovery, fake healing, gaslighting, narcissistic boss, trauma coach, energy scam, New Age cult, spiritual manipulation, workplace trauma, narcissistic abuse, emotional healing, toxic positivity, spiritual gaslighting, dark psychology, placebo effect, invisible energy, false gurus, healing podcast, survivor story

       

      16 min
    • E6: Pink Hair & Choosing to Not Be Men's Property

      In this episode the conversation continues as Raven & Amanda discuss how difficult relationships affect women's physical health, and the weight changes often associated with marriage and love/limerence. 

      00:00:00 Content warning 

      00:00:10 Intro clip
      00:01:09 Weight gain/weight loss and the correlation between health and happiness. 
      00:6:30 Partner rejection, and the transactional nature of how men often participate in relationships.
      00:8:25 Codependency, and learning how to give and receive in a healthy way.
      00:9:35 Marriage: The long con with negative ROI. 
      00:11:45 Women as property: Why do our fathers need to "give us away"? 
      00:15:00 The magical power of the beauty of women. The exhaustion of pleasing men with our appearance. 
      00:16:28 An awkward dolphin tangent. 
      00:20:45 Raven calls out middle aged white men. 
      00:21:40 What we do with our hair... is none of your business. 
      00:24:21  More on pink hair (from intro) The religious Republican right whining about pink hair/how to deter creeps from hitting on you. 

      28 min
    • E5: The Terrifying, Demonic Sexually Empowered Woman

      In this episode, the conversation continues, as Raven and Amanda discuss the toxic culture we live in, women as agents of the patriarch, and how religious cultural expectations are leading to violence toward women. 

      00:00 Intro clip + explicit content warning. 

      00:44 Being controlled with the threat of losing your children and a message from Raven to those who resort to this type of control. 

      02:00 Codependents and addicts, "I believed I could change anyone."
      04:00 Can we please talk about alcohol and our alcoholic society?  
      07:40 Losing friends when you heal and the challenge of setting new boundaries with old friends. 
      09:30 Who's bringing home the bacon? 
      12:25 Are you the narcissist's litmus test? Empowered women triggering men.
      14:30 Women in entertainment, Women of Hip Hop Documentary
      16:00 They stay closeted, we get beaten. The systems of oppression that lead to women being impoverished. 
      24:00 PTA moms and playground politics.
      26:30 The gaslighting of Christian values. Who really benefits, and why are we so afraid of women who enjoy their bodies? 
      37:00 The big D flow state.
      41:00 The conditions that lead to choosing a second violent partner. 

      To request #traumacoaching by Amanda, please visit https://linktr.ee/bitchgotoutofline, or find the link on our various social media channels. Amanda's books can be found on Amazon, and several chapters of her books are available FREE on YouTube. Amanda has also published a nervous system management app, Somatics Workshop, available exclusively on iTunes. 

      Please support our work by following, giving us a like or subscribe, where ever you listen, or, simply by tuning in. 

      If you are experiencing domestic violence and need support, please call 800.799.SAFE (7233). This hotline is available 24/7 and provided by the National Domestic Violence Support Hotline. 

      #domesticviolence #love #marriage #relationships #traumacoach #misogyny #feminisim #podcast #violenceagainstwomen #metoo #womensupportingwomen #truthaboutmarriage #womenssexuality #sexuality #humansexuality #stillstraightbook #bithgotoutofline #explicitcontent #explicit

      Bitch Got Out Of Line, copyright 2024. All rights reserved. 

      Ad from the 80s song: Enjoli (Fragrance commercial)

      Documentary: Women of Hip Hop

      total duration 43:17

      44 min
    • E4 The Angry Daddy Religions

      In this episode Raven & Amanda continue discussing the wildly unrealistic expectations women are held to, the emotional load misalignment in relationships, and the origins of our codependency.

      00: Intro clip

      1:00 All he needs is a beer, a sandwich and a piece of ass, so DO NOT feed him.  
      4:20 Cheating and intimidation: they can't please the woman they have so they go find others to disappoint. 
      7:30 Training the dog (me). How men can lead in a relationship. 
      9:30 Women supporting women and the culturally shared experience of carrying the emotional load of the family. 
      10:20 The angry daddy religions and their unrealistic expectations of women. 
      12:00 Why aren't you eating? The origins of our eating disorders and the value in our physical appearance.
      16:30 Bitch gets out of line, at work. (funny)
      19:10 Making ourselves smaller. 
      21:00 Witches, demons, and femicide. 
      28:00 Marriage changed us, but not the way we expected. 
      29:00 How codependency is embedded in our religions, culture, and belief systems. 


      Thank you for listening to Bitch got out of line. You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Youtube, and your favorite podcast stations. If you like this content, please like subscribe, and share. To request Raven & Amanda as guests on your podcast, please contact us on any of our various social media channels, or through the contact email on your favorite podcast station. 


      #domesticviolence #love #marriage #relationships #traumacoach #misogyny #feminisim #podcast #violenceagainstwomen #metoo #womensupportingwomen #truthaboutmarriage

      34 min
    • E3 Unromanticizing Men & Marriage

      In this episode Raven & Amanda discuss early marriage, and what it was like waking up inside of the biggest tale ever told. 

      00:45 Waking up to the oppression of the institution of marriage, we're done putting up with your sh*t.

      2:05 Unromanticizing men. Film "This Changes Everything"
      5:25 Raven discusses big D energy
      7:45 Two sexless marriages
      15:45 They don't know what they have until it's gone.
      19:45 The foul temptresses failing at marriage
      27:15 Video games & relationships
      40:45 Where's my pizza (piece of...)?

      Media mentioned in this episode:

      Bunnie & Jelly Roll, podcast
      Lemonade, Beyonce, album
      This Changes Everything, film


      Thank you for listening to Bitch got out of line. You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Youtube, and your favorite podcast stations. If you like this content, please like subscribe, and share.

       

      To request Raven & Amanda as guests on your podcast, please contact us on any of our various social media channels, or through the contact email on your favorite podcast station. 

      Correction: Tom Cruise is 5' 9" not 5' 7" :) 

      #domesticviolence #love #marriage #relationships #traumacoach #misogyny #feminisim #podcast

      44 min
    • E2 Codependence, Limerence & Smart Cookies

      In this episode, Amanda and Raven continue discussing modern dating, domestic violence and the state of relationships in 2024.

      :00 Disclaimer   

       :09 Preview clip  
      1:02 Where are the good guys? Dating in 2024.
      3:25 Learning about limerence. 
      5:50 The art of pursuit. 
      11:55 The journey to liking myself. 
      15:15 Gray hairs, distinguished men, and smart cookies. 
      22:50 The danger of getting out of an abusive relationship.
      26:50 The abuse and how it escalates over time.
      33:50 The history of the hysterectomy. 
      35:50 Needing vs. wanting men.

       

      #domesticviolence #love #marriage #relationships #traumacoach #misogyny #feminisim #podcast

      37 min
    • Episode 1, May The Bridges We Burn Light Our Way

      Welcome to the premiere episode of Bitch Got Out of Line, hosts Amanda Bobbitt and Raven Lunatic share how Bitch Got Out Of Line was born, and some of their personal experiences with love, life, men and relationships. 

      #domesticviolence #love #marriage #relationships #traumacoach #misogyny #feminisim #podcast  

      Shownotes: 

      :00 Content Warning

      :35 May the bridges we burn light our way.
      3:10 Living outside the lines & the inspiration for "Bitch Got Out Of Line" 
      9:00 Relationship expectations, emotional labor, and the dynamics of domestic violence.  
      22:00 Is *orn making men better in bed? 
      34:00 Raven describes big-d energy. 

       

       

      37 min

    About Bitch Got Out Of Line

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    Bitch Got Out Of Line is a sometimes serious, often hilarious discussion about the reality of being a woman in man’s world.