What does it really cost to chase your dreams? In this episode of Black Dad Unfiltered, host Coach Rod sits down with Loycent Gordon, owner of the historic Neir’s Tavern — one of the oldest taverns in New York City — to explore the hidden cost of entrepreneurship, the sacrifices of fatherhood, and the resilience it takes to build a legacy.
Gordon shares his remarkable journey from humble immigrant beginnings and DJing to pay for college, to rescuing a nearly forgotten tavern, and balancing life as a husband, father, and firefighter. Along the way, he opens up about the emotional toll of fatherhood, the entrepreneurial burnout that comes with late nights and hidden struggles, and the importance of being present as a father while still pursuing professional purpose.
“You don’t always control destiny,” Gordon reflects. “But if you’re ever in doubt, just help someone. That’s how you find your way.” His story reminds us that entrepreneurial resilience, parenting sacrifices, and legacy building for family are deeply intertwined with identity and community.
Join the conversation as we unpack the balance (or lack thereof) between work and family, the mental health challenges entrepreneurs face, and why community accolades matter more than individual ones. This is an unfiltered look at Black fatherhood stories, Black identity in entrepreneurship, and what it truly means to belong.
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