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  • BMM Indie 103: Thinking of Oluwatoyin Salau

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    Randie planned to do a relationship check-in with herself, but decided instead to talk about Oluwatoyin Salau (2000-2020).

    Oluwatoyin, a Nigerian-American activist was killed in June 2020 by a Black man. She died over a month ago, and right before the Chapmans took their break, and yet Randie has been unable to stop thinking about her. So, instead of carrying on as usual, Randie thought it best to finally share her thoughts about the affect Oluwatoyin’s death had on her.

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    • Homoeroticism in the Biblical World: A Historical Perspective
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    • Sexuality and the Black Church: A Womanist Perspective
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      Related Readings Randie read over break

      • WE ALL FAILED OLUWATOYIN SALAU. ALL OF US.
      • https://wearyourvoicemag.com/we-all-failed-oluwatoyin-salau/

      • Becoming an Ally and Practicing Allyship
      • https://bit.ly/3jGZpkJ

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          30 min
        • BMM 102: We’re Rich

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          When you really think about it, you’re rich. At least, that’s what Mikey and Randie discovered while on their mid-season pod break. That’s why in this episode the couple discuss six things about their relationship that makes them feel rich and makes them want to show gratitude. From Randie holding herself accountable, to Mikey proving that he’s willing and ready to act in allyship, the couple welcome you to participate in their sap fest. Later, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions how vocal Randie has gotten in the bedroom. It’s always love though, when in the end they show each other some well-deserved PDA.

          True to Chapman fashion, this episode is equal parts loving and hilarious and they hope you enjoy.

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          • What is an Ally?
          • https://www.nasco.coop/files/ally_packet.pdf

          • There’s More to Allyship Than Pride and Rainbows
          • https://bit.ly/3jGZpkJ

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              46 min
            • BMM Indie 101: Big Stick

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              Mikey is back with his latest Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses a topic dear to him, the protection of black women. He shares his history with guns, discusses why he feels it’s important for black women to be armed and educated about firearms, interviews a special guest, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end.

              After a much needed break the handsome half of BMM shares something he’s really passionate about, Mikey hopes his ramblings in this episode actually get you interested in learning about guns and hitting a range.

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              • My Sister’s Keeper
              • https://mysisterskeeperdefense.com/

              • National Black Self Defense Directory
              • https://bit.ly/2WOT9NZ

              • State Gun Permit Fees
              • https://bit.ly/2BvCtUw

              • NAAGA – National African American Gun Association
              • https://naaga.co/

              • Gun Violence Stats
              • https://bit.ly/2EjGa0J

              • Big Stick Ideology
              • https://bit.ly/2OTv4kQ

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                    52 min
                  • BMM 100: OUR 100TH EPISODE!

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                    If you’ve never listened to an episode or are trying to catch up. Stop whatever you are doing and listen to this one! How come? It’s the Black Millennial Marriage podcast’s 100TH EPISODE!! Mikey and Randie did it! They reached a monumental number in their show, and they want to share all the feels with you. That’s why in this episode, the couple play listener voicemails, read listener emails, and play snippets from their personal favorite episodes. Later, they discuss what the podcast has taught them, and then Randie brings a fight or flight–but plot twist! The Chapmans switch places and act like the other as they duel it out.

                    Still, as usual, it’s all love when they show each other some special PDA. Randie and Mikey will be back on July 22nd, but that’s not sad news! While they’re on break, they hope you take some time to catch up and re-listen to your favorite episodes. And if you’re interested in an additional show to check out, NATAL is the one they recommend. This podcast docuseries discusses having a baby while Black and highlights the birthworkers, researchers, policymakers, and activists. It’s a perfect show for the age we’re all in as we reconcile what it is like living while Black in the United States.

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                    • NATAL Podcast Docuseries on IG
                    • www.instagram.com/natalstories

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                    • www.natalstories.com/listen

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                        1 hr 14 min
                      • BMM Indie 099: Go Back to Africa

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                        Racist white people want Black people to go back to Africa, and Black people want to go back to Africa, and Randie weighs in with her thoughts.

                        In this episode she details things that were challenging and great about living in Cape Coast Ghana, when she studied abroad. Later, she shares tips of what to do if you travel to an African country, and finally Randie shares two book recommendations. One book by Janet Mock, in honor of Pride month and the other, if you’re into fairy tales and need to get away from the craziness of the world.

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                        • Redefining Realness, Janet Mock
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                        • The Fairy Godmother, Mercedes Lackey
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                        • Never Before Podcast, with Janet Mock
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                            29 min
                          • BMM 098: Joy is an Act of Resistance Ft. Drew

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                            Writer and activist Audre Lorde said it best, caring for oneself is a form of political warfare. That’s why, in this episode Mikey and Randie are taking a break from the heartache and instead reflecting on the joys of Blackness. Why? Because while the revolution is in progress and the pandemic is still real, they needed a reminder that Black people do more than die. Black people are masters of joy and happiness. They are compassionate, strong, and magical, so together the Chapmans reveal their favorite thing about being black and detail their favorite memories as children and adults.

                            From college week in elementary school to attending a Bayard Rustin breakfast, the couple take a trip down memory lane for some much needed smiles. Later, Randie and Mikey discuss a time they had to choose joy and peace over fear of being harmed while Black, and then they talk about what they hope to teach Drew. Before the episode ends, the Mr. brings a fight or flight that questions his wife’s eye-health, but in the end it’s all love when the Chapmans show each other some PDA.

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                                56 min
                              • BMM 097: BMM X Cheat Code

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                                PWHEW. Talk about a time for tough and revolutionary conversations! They are happening everywhere, including on BMM’s podcast. To begin, in this episode, Randie and Mikey sit down with Andrea and Jason–the couple that brought everyone the Cheat Code podcast and the story of an affair between one woman and one man. Together they all discuss the Chapman’s criticism of their show and reveal their first encounters with infidelity. Later, the four hosts engage in a question and answer segment with each other and the results are as moving as they are hilarious. What started off as fuckery may just end up as reconciliation, and that’s the point right? Finally, Randie and Mikey show each other some PDA and as always, they hope you enjoy.

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                                • Listen to “The Cheat Code”
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                                    1 hr 9 min
                                  • BMM 096: Marriage Counseling

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                                    Mikey and Randie are in therapy . . . together! And in this episode, they discuss their experience with counseling and their latest homework assignment. Randie must consider what a fearless life looks like and show proof that Mikey supports her, and Mikey must reflect on their relationship history and reveal what he finds most valuable. The results are interesting and transformative, and they can’t wait for you to hear all about it. Never did they expect to engage in virtual therapy but it’s working and they want to spread the good word about their experience. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that confronts Mikey about making unnecessary jokes. But, in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA.

                                    Now, more than ever, access to quality mental health services is important. That’s why the Chapmans offer you 20% off of your membership with BetterHelp therapy in hopes that you take a chance on individual or couple’s counseling. Mikey and Randie hope you can utilize the resource and that you enjoy this episode.

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                                        1 hr 9 min
                                      • BMM 095: Radical Acceptance

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                                        Oh the irony! This episode was supposed to be the first one of season 2, but Mikey and Randie changed their plans. Now, the couple share this episode because of another plot twist and a surprise that’s not quite ready yet–but it’s all good. Recorded back in February, when they were on break, Randie and Mikey talk about some of the things they have to radically accept. From the come up not being as linear as they hoped, to understanding that they have to live with their choices and more, the Chapmans get deep, vulnerable, and silly per usual. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that ends up making him look cray cray, but it’s all love when the couple show each other some PDA.

                                        While this episode is an oldie for them, they hope you find some gems and that you enjoy.

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                                            50 min
                                          • BMM Indie 094: When In Doubt

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                                            Mikey is back with his fourth Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses Fathers Day. He shares gift ideas for any kind of father out there, shouts out a basketball player you might have heard of, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the end.

                                            You may have fallen short with your Fathers Day gifts in the past, but Mikey hopes his ramblings in this episode actually help you to put a smile on someone’s face.

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                                                30 min

                                              About Black Millennial Marriage

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                                              We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could…

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