Why our Christianity doesn’t work:
Three very important reasons why our Christian life doesn’t work; (Need you to have a receptive heart to HS right now - what I am about to say you will want to reject, immediately)
The first reason most of us cannot live in our hearts is that we are religious people.
Very hard for us to hear; you are a religious person, I promise! A lot of talk about a religious spirit - I am not talking about a religious demon - I am talking about you and me; I’m talking about the fact that we are so religious that we cannot live in our hearts, because our hearts are too damaged to live in them, and we will talk about that much more.
We have learned a style of relationship with other people that is compulsive, predictable, rigid and self-defeating. We need to learn about this style and how we can move from it.
Deep down we are unwilling to be an ordinary person. There is something in us that craves extraordinariness - It is impossible to live in our hearts if we are determined to be “Special” or “better” than everybody else! (We will talk about 2 and 3 later)
Religiosity:
The church in America, in the west, is destructively religious. Now I didn’t know this 10 years ago, I was as religious as the best of them! RTN/The Call/Church plants - raised in dispensationalism, etc.
I was so religious that it damaged the ministries and Churches I was a part of, and it damaged my family. And, I did not know that I was religious and I did not know I was damaging them.