What are you going to do when your marriage has to get rid of waste?

Having a healthy outlet is important. Counselors and pastors are always great resources if you are not able to communicate properly with your spouse. But what we should never do is vent and complain to our friends and family about our spouses. They will most likely take your side in each situation but also you will transfer your bitterness and frustration to them as well.

Take some time right now to decide where your safe places are for you and your spouse. Do you have a counselor that you have both decided on? If there are elders or pastors in the church for the both of you to talk to together and separate? Decide now so that WHEN arguments and disagreements happen, you know exactly where you are going to turn.

Take some time right now to pray and ask the Lord these first questions separately.

What are my passions? If money wasn’t an object, what would I do every day?

What do I want to say I’ve accomplished at the end of my life?