Raised to be precious, sweet, and never ugly, Megan Pettus spent decades performing and observing to be the perfect Southern little girl and woman.
In this episode, Megan Pettus, a wedding filmmaker, social media strategist, former Miss Alabama contestant, mom, and bunny foster mom, joins Alex for a funny, honest, and deeply relatable conversation.
Megan grew up hyperactive, voraciously reading, and constantly studying other people to learn how to be liked. She built her personality from books, praise, and the Southern rulebook of "keep it sweet" — all the way through pageantry, college, and building her own business. It wasn't until 2020, when the pandemic stripped away all structure and left her cycling through burnout and shutdown, that she finally got her ADHD diagnosis and started meeting her real self.
In this episode, they talk about the grief of late diagnosis and mourning who you could've been, losing your sense of self to masking and people-pleasing, watching her daughter go through the same struggles and fighting to get her the support Megan never had, and why accommodations aren't shortcuts or being lazy... they're options to give you an equal playing field to neurotypicals.
In this episode:
- Getting diagnosed with ADHD in 2020 when pandemic burnout made masking impossible
- Late diagnosis grief - who she could've been with support
- Building a personality from books, "precious" praise, and the pressure to keep it sweet
- Competing for Miss Alabama without knowing who she actually was
- Seeing her own brain in her daughter and getting her the support she needs
- Outsourcing, AI, and why accommodations aren't cheating
- Burnout, rest, and learning to ask for what you need
- Suspecting Autism... sensory issues, stimming, meltdowns, and black and white thinking
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