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There seems to be a strange correlation between people who think they are manifesting things and the extent to which they lie about how happy they are. First off, let me expose myself for the new age skeptic I am. I cringe whenever I hear someone use the word “manifest” unless they are talking about […]

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Life purpose. What a pain in the ass. Part of me hates this term even exists, yet another part feels it’s an undeniable part of the human experience. And why do we have to write about it so much? It seems like there is a new article on life purpose that gets published every minute, and […]

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In 2010 a college student paid me $400 to help him pick up women. I know, it surprised me too. I’m the kind of person who enjoys digging into other people’s problems to avoid my own, so the idea of getting paid to do this was really exciting. It turned out to be the beginning of […]

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I’d love to see a woman elected president. I don’t think we can really understand the significance of what that would mean for a country that less than 100 years ago didn’t even allow women the right to vote. It would be a win for women everywhere, and it would set a precedent for the […]

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I have a lot of friends. I have so many friends I can’t even keep track of all the people I would love to spend time with. I have a community of warm, open-hearted people who throw lots of parties, give long hugs and are always happy to see me. My life is as good […]

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“Yeah, but you don’t understand what I’ve been through”.“The men I’ve dated never met my needs.”“I’ll never find a woman like that.” These are the battle cries of the cynic.These are the lamentations of the victim.These are the stubborn beliefs of people who have given up. They’ve given up because they had expectations of how […]

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Hi. My name is Dave, and I’m addicted to video games. Marvel Contest of Champions. Clash of Clans. Heard of these? I’ve spent hundreds of hours in the last couple years building up virtual cities, invading evil clans and battling against the world’s most powerful superheroes, all from the palm of my iPhone. Before you get […]

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Sometimes relationship experts can be so full of shit. I got an email today from a friend who heard John Gray (Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus) on a podcast talking about how monogamy is the only healthy choice for couples. There’s also Gay Hendricks (best selling author) talking about “Why Polyamory Just Doesn’t Work”. […]

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Pretend for a moment that I invented a time machine, and we are able to go into the future, all the way to the end of your life. You close your eyes, the machine makes some funny noises and then bam, you wake up in the body of yourself as an old man or woman. […]

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Right now, Paula is on her way to San Francisco to spend five days with her best friend. I just talked to her, she’s on the road and everything is fine, yet I can’t escape this lingering thought… What if she gets in a car accident and I never see her again? I could rationalize […]

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