Boy, Guess What

This week we sit down with Lamb, CEO of Frolic Weekend, and get into what the experience is really about.

We talk about the intention behind Frolic, what it means to create space for Black gay and queer people, and why representation and experience matter.

From the vibe of the weekend to what first-timers can expect, this conversation goes beyond the surface and gets into the why behind it all.

Tap in.

We’re back with Part 2—because the conversation didn’t end there.

In this episode of Boy Guess What, we continue unpacking safe spaces for gay men of color and take it deeper into representation—what it really means to feel seen, understood, and accepted in the spaces we move through.

From code switching to identity, we’re getting honest about the experiences that don’t always get said out loud.

Some conversations need more than one episode… this is one of them.

This week on Boy Guess What, we’re asking a question that might hit a little too close to home…

From the viral “Pop The Balloon” dating show to the bigger picture of modern dating, we’re unpacking whether reality TV is just entertainment… or a full-blown social experiment. 🎈

Are shows like this shaping how we judge people?
Are we becoming more comfortable with instant rejection, unrealistic standards, and performative dating?
Or is this just a reflection of what’s already happening in real life?

Bronson, Marcus, and Davon get into the influence of reality TV, dating culture, and how media may be quietly shifting our expectations of love, connection, and relationships—especially within the Black and queer community.

This is Part 1 of the conversation.

In this episode of Boy Guess What, we’re talking about safe spaces for gay men of color—and what happens when those spaces don’t always feel safe.

From the barbershop to everyday social settings, we explore code-switching, identity, and the quiet ways we adjust just to exist comfortably.

Because everyone deserves a space where they can show up fully as themselves—no filter, no pressure.

Season 2 starts with a question we don’t talk about enough—
why are so many of us lonely?

We’re diving into the reality of connection, dating, and what it actually feels like to navigate the gay community today.

It’s real, it’s honest… and it might hit a little close to home.

This week, we’re debating whether you should take a partner back after cheating — and what that choice says about love, boundaries, trust, and self-respect. Should you fight to rebuild… or walk away to protect your peace?

From nightlife hierarchy to “you can’t sit with us” friend groups, the boys give their take as Black gay voices navigating identity, self-esteem, and connection in a vibrant (and sometimes vicious) community.

We unpack real experiences, queer community pressures, abandonment trauma, chosen family, and how to heal without closing your heart off to new connections.

We’re unpacking identity pressure, stereotypes, performance of self, respectability politics, internalized racism, internalized homophobia, community gatekeeping, and the exhaustion of trying to be “enough” for everyone but yourself.

On Episode 4 of Boy Guess What, Bronson, Marcus, and Davon dive into the real talk behind open relationships, dead bedrooms, and how queer couples actually navigate intimacy when the spark flickers or routines take over. We explore communication, boundaries, mismatched desire, relationship pressure, and what it takes to keep connection alive in queer relationships today.