This week, we talk about a viral piano performance that left millions of people emotional—and the surprising ways love finds its way back to us.

First, Arns shares the story of Japanese pianist Yumeka Nakagawa, whose tearful performance of Chopin's "Raindrop" Prelude captivated audiences around the world. Why did watching someone cry while playing piano feel so powerful? What does vulnerability in art teach us about vulnerability in our own lives?

Then, Nins tells a deeply personal story about baking, friendship, and what it means to be chosen by the people you love. From a $30 stand mixer to baking a gender reveal cake for one of her closest friends, this story explores how acts of care become their own language of love.

In this episode, we discuss:
• Yumeka Nakagawa's viral piano performance
• Chopin's "Raindrop" Prelude and emotional music
• Why vulnerability resonates so deeply with people
• Crying, emotional expression, and authenticity
• Baking as a love language
• Friendship, belonging, and being chosen
• Gender reveal cakes and meaningful traditions
• The many ways we say "I love you"

Whether you've cried while listening to music, baked something for someone you love, or simply want permission to feel your feelings a little more openly, this one's for you.

0:00 - Intro
1:50 - Recap: late nights
3:57 - Announcement: merch!
4:40 - Arns: Yumeka Nakagawa's piano performance
27:05 - Nins: baking a special sweet treat
58:23 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• "24-year-old pianist Yumeka Nakagawa was visibly moved to tears while performing Chopin’s ‘Raindrop’ Prelude" (IG: @classicfm)
• Yumeka Nakagawa interview by Shinnosuke Nagai and translated by Midori Tamura and Miho Ebihara for Kawai Australia
• "What made the participants of the 19th Chopin Competition's Preliminary Round become pianists?" (IG: @chopininstitute) 
• "Chopin's 'Raindrop' Prelude" on the Ethan Hein Blog

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This week, Nins dives into "Higher" by Tems, the haunting Afrobeats ballad about toxic relationships, self-worth, healing, and finally choosing yourself. From the song's powerful lyrics to the surprising story behind Future's Grammy-winning sample in "Wait for U," this conversation explores what it means to stop waiting for people who refuse to change.

Then, Arns shares an unexpected story from a family trip through Europe. After a frustrating 6-hour flight delay in Italy, she discovers something beautiful while watching strangers navigate the inconvenience together—and reflects on finding peace, gratitude, and connection in life's unexpected pauses.

This episode is about healing, perspective, emotional growth, and the courage to choose peace over resentment.

In this episode:

• Tems' "Higher" lyric analysis
• The meaning behind "I won't wait for you"
• Toxic relationships and emotional healing
• Future's "Wait for U" sample controversy
• Traveling Europe with a toddler
• A 6-hour flight delay that became a life lesson
• Choosing gratitude during difficult moments
• Finding beauty in everyday life

Topics: Tems, Higher, Afrobeats, emotional healing, self-growth, relationships, travel stories, Europe travel, mindfulness, gratitude, personal development, mental wellness, emotional resilience

0:00 - Intro
2:58 - Recap: Nins watched Queen Charlotte
5:30 - Storytime: our first Vegas trip
7:19 - Nins: "Higher" by Tems
36:37 - Arns: flight delay
58:28 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• Tems "Higher" live performance | Open Mic
• TEMS' (@temsbaby) post on X: "Maybe now it’s time for me to confess..." 
• "Tems Joins Brown Bag Mornings & Clears up the Lyric From her Song Higher": interview with Power 106 Radio in Los Angeles

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This Halloween, we're taking a break from traditional scares and talking about the movie moments that truly haunt us.

Arns dives into the 1990 classic Ghost, starring Demi Moore, Patrick Swayze, and Whoopi Goldberg, exploring grief, love, and what we'd give for one more moment with the people we've lost.

Nins revisits Wicked, the beloved Broadway-musical-turned-blockbuster-film starring Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande, and unpacks the emotional Ozdust Ballroom scene that captures what it means to finally be seen, accepted, and loved.

Along the way, we talk about friendship, vulnerability, loss, belonging, and the powerful ways that actions often communicate more than words ever can.

In this episode:

• Why the pottery scene in Ghost became iconic
• The heartbreaking final goodbye between Sam and Molly
• The Wicked dance scene that left us crying in theaters
• Elphaba, Glinda, and the longing to be accepted
• Grief, friendship, and love that changes us forever
• Why two completely different movies ended up telling the same emotional story

Grab your witch hats and your tissues because it's about to get spooky. 

Content warning: grief, death

00:00:00 - Intro
00:04:13 - Nins surprises Arns with a birthday gift (!!)
00:08:44 - Why Arns cried about Ghost
00:31:34 - Why Nins cried about Wicked
01:00:57 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• 1990 film Ghost
• "Cinemas Greatest Scenes: The Pottery Scene From Ghost (1990)" by Robert Horvat for Rearview Mirror
• "Demi Moore dances with her dead lover" (Molly & Sam dance scene)
• 2024 film Wicked
• "Elphaba and Glinda's Emotional Dance (Ozdust Ballroom Scene)"

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What do Klay Thompson leaving the Golden State Warriors and a viral TikTok about a grandfather visiting his wife's grave have in common? Apparently everything. :')

This week, Nins explores why Klay Thompson's departure from the Golden State Warriors became a surprisingly emotional lesson about endings, identity, and honoring the past.  Arns follows with a viral TikTok about a grandfather visiting his late wife's grave that beautifully captures enduring love and grief. Together, they discuss what it means to treasure the people, experiences, and seasons of life that shape us—even after they're gone.

In this episode:

• Klay Thompson's emotional departure from the Golden State Warriors
• The psychology of sports fandom and attachment
• The viral TikTok that made millions cry
• Love, grief, memory, and what survives change
• Why endings don't erase what came before

If you've ever struggled to let go of a relationship, a chapter of life, a dream, or a version of yourself, give this one a listen.

Content warning: grief, loss

0:00 - Intro
3:37 - Nins: Klay Thomspon
41:21 - Arns: grieving grandparent TikTok
58:34 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• "Klay Thompson Gets Special Welcome Back Tribute in Golden State" by House of Highlights on YouTube
• "Klay Thompson wants to stay with Warriors but feels ‘blessed’ regardless of future" by Anthony Slater for The Athletic
• "Five observations: Warriors beat Magic; Klay Thompson gets introspective" by Anthony Slater for The Athletic
• "Klay Thompson bids farewell to Warriors with emotional post: 'Thank you so much for the best times of my life'" by Jordan Pagkalinawan for CBS Sports
• "What happened to Klay Thompson? How Warriors star rebounded from knee, Achilles injuries for 2022 NBA playoffs run" by Edward Sutelan for The Sporting News Sportsnew 
• "Klay Thompson: NBA Star's Unique Background and Interests" TikTok by @footballfangirl123 
• "How life coach Robbins loudly motivated Klay after injury" by Jarrod Castillo for NBC Sports Bay Area
• "Klay has oddly subdued view on returning to face Warriors" by Ali Thanawalla for Yahoo Sports 
• "Emotional Klay Thompson gets cheers, heartfelt tribute in Bay Area return" by James Macauley for the Associated Press
• "We lost my grandma 6 years ago..." TikTok by @paige.0516

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This week, we explore two surprisingly connected stories: a powerful moment from Sarah J. Maas's A Court of Thorns and Roses (ACOTAR) series and the real-life story of Shanidar 1, a Neanderthal whose survival became one of the earliest known examples of human compassion.

Arns reflects on a difficult season of anxiety, self-doubt, and healing through the lens of ACOTAR's unforgettable Mirror of Ouroboros scene—a moment that asks whether we can truly love ourselves when confronted with every flaw, fear, and shadow we carry.

Meanwhile, Nins shares the remarkable story of Shanidar 1, a disabled Neanderthal who lived more than 40,000 years ago and survived against impossible odds because his community chose to care for him. His story offers compelling evidence that empathy, kindness, and mutual care have always been part of what makes us human.

From fantasy literature and self-forgiveness to anthropology, evolution, and the history of compassion, this episode explores what it means to hold ourselves—and each other—through life's hardest moments.

Topics discussed: Sarah J. Maas, ACOTAR, A Court of Thorns and Roses, A Court of Wings and Ruin, Mirror of Ouroboros, self-love, self-forgiveness, anxiety, mental health, healing, Shanidar 1, Neanderthals, anthropology, human evolution, compassion, empathy, friendship, personal growth, and emotional resilience.

0:00 - Intro
5:14 - Arns: ACOTAR
36:06 - Nins: Shanidar 1
56:00 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas
• A Court of Wings and Ruin (ACOTAR #3) by Sarah J. Maas
• @oddpride on TikTok: "Neanderthal Shanidar 1: Love Without Reason" 
• @oddpride on TikTok: "Shanidar 1 Fossil Mystery: Why Is It Gone?"
• oddpride website
• Smithsonian Institute’s website on human origins
• Lietava, Ján (1988). "A Differential Diagnostics of the Right Shoulder Girdle Deformity in the Shanidar I Neanderthal". Anthropologie. 26 (3): 183–196. JSTOR 44602496

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This episode dives into two unexpected tearjerkers: Richard Curtis's beloved time-travel romance About Time (2013) and Netflix's food and travel series Somebody Feed Phil.

Nins revisits About Time and reflects on its powerful message about grief, parent-child relationships, time, mortality, and learning to appreciate ordinary moments before they're gone. From Bill Nighy and Domhnall Gleeson's unforgettable father-son scenes to the film's moving lesson on happiness, this conversation explores why About Time remains one of the most emotional movies ever made.

Meanwhile, Arns heads to Manila through an episode of Somebody Feed Phil, exploring Filipino food, culture, family traditions, music, resilience, and the idea that food is one of the purest expressions of love. From childhood folk songs like "Bahay Kubo" to unforgettable meals, this discussion celebrates the joy of gathering around a table with the people who matter most.

If you've ever wished you could relive a memory, hold onto a loved one a little longer, or share one more meal with family, this one's for you.

Topics discussed: About Time movie analysis, Richard Curtis films, Bill Nighy, Rachel McAdams, Somebody Feed Phil, Filipino culture, Filipino food, Manila travel, grief, nostalgia, family relationships, food as love, happiness, mindfulness, emotional movies, travel shows, crying, healing, and finding joy in everyday life.

Content warning: grief

0:00 - Intro
2:37 - Announcement: new format!
7:38 - Nins: About Time
29:38 - Arns: Somebody Feed Phil
53:09 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• About Time
• About Time clip: The Secret Formula for Happiness
• About Time clip: The Last Time With Dad
• "Somebody Feed Phil" season 8, episode 7: Manila
• "‘Somebody Feed Phil’ Star Phil Rosenthal on the Perils of Filming a Food Show: ‘If You Saw My Cholesterol Levels Right Now…’" by Brent Lang for Variety

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Nins shares the heartwarming story of Jerry & Tally Leonard, the viral figure skating couple whose decades-long love story has moved millions online. From public skating performances to 58 years on the ice together, their partnership is a beautiful reminder of lasting love, shared passions, and growing old side by side.

Meanwhile, Arns dives into The Law of Attraction by Esther and Jerry Hicks, exploring manifestation, abundance, spirituality, emotional alignment, and the idea that we're here to enjoy life rather than simply endure it.

From wholesome internet discoveries to Abraham Hicks, manifestation practices, and reflections on love, joy, purpose, and personal growth, this season finale is a celebration of the things that make life meaningful...all preceded, of course, by a jarring April Fool's intro.

Topics discussed: Jerry & Tally Leonard, figure skating, viral TikTok stories, wholesome internet content, long-term relationships, The Law of Attraction, Esther Hicks, Jerry Hicks, Abraham Hicks, manifestation, abundance mindset, spirituality, personal growth, emotional healing, joy, purpose, and living in alignment.

0:00 - Introducing: our new hosts!
5:25 - Our *actual* intro
7:52 - Nins: Jerry & Tally
22:01 - Arns: The Law of Attraction
43:32 - Outro: see you next season!

Referenced in this episode:

• TikTok of Jerry & Tally ice skating by @oni.torres1
• "Portland couple celebrates 54 years of skating together at Lloyd Center" by Drew Carney for KGW8
• "Elderly Couple Steps Out Onto Ice Skating Rink & Gives Mall-Goers The Sweetest Show" by Kelsey Bjork for InspireMore
• "Skating sweethearts: Portland couple gliding together for nearly 60 years" by Bonnie Silkman for KPTV 
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• The Law of Attraction by Esther & Jerry Hicks
  
  

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This week, Arns dives into one of the most devastating hours of television ever made: The Last of Us Episode 3, "Long, Long Time." We revisit Bill and Frank's unforgettable love story, explore why the episode resonated so deeply with audiences, and reflect on how love gives life meaning even in the darkest circumstances.

Then we shift from post-apocalyptic heartbreak to the soaring music of legendary Disney composer Alan Menken. After discovering a live symphonic performance of "Colors of the Wind" from Pocahontas, Nins shares the emotional power of music, the experience of being fully present, and those rare moments when art reminds us what it feels like to be alive.

From queer love stories and grief to Disney nostalgia and emotional overwhelm, this episode is about the beauty of feeling deeply.

Content warning: discussion of death, terminal illness, homophobia, grief, and loss.

0:00 - Intro
4:58 - Sob story
10:52 - Arns: The Last of Us
33:04 - Nins: Alan Menken & "Colors of the Wind"
52:20 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• The Last of Us on HBO
• The Last of Us Season 1, Episode 3: "Long, Long Time"
• Nick Offerman wins the Emmy for The Last Of Us
• "The Last Of Us Episode 3 Review Bombed Because Gays Exist" by James Troughton for The Gamer
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• Hollywood in Vienna 2022 - A Celebration Of Disney Classics - Featuring Alan Menken (full video; Pocahontas Suite begins at 43:58)
• Suite & Colors Of The Wind (Pocahontas) - Christine Allado | Hollywood in Vienna 2022 (Pocahontas suite only)
• Alan Menken biography on Brittanica
• Alan Menken profile on Songwriters Hall of Fame
• "A Life, A Spirit, A Name: 'Pocahontas' Songwriters Reflect On The Disney Animated Classic 25 Years After Its Release" by Lior Phillips for GRAMMY.com
• Hollywood in Vienna 2022 program
  
  

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This week, we dive into Greta Gerwig's acclaimed adaptation of Little Women (2019) and the timeless themes that have made Louisa May Alcott's novel resonate for over 150 years.

Nins explores the emotional power of Little Women, from Jo March's fierce independence and rejection of societal expectations to the unforgettable monologue about womanhood, ambition, love, and loneliness. We discuss why the story remains deeply relevant today and what it reveals about the complexities of the female experience.

Then, Arns shares a moving reader essay from The Good Trade  titled "Special Mission to the Moon" by Maria T. D'hyver. The prose speaks of grief, imagination, and a beloved dog sent on a "secret mission to the moon." The conversation expands into childhood wonder, spirituality, hope, loss, and why growing up doesn't have to mean abandoning magic.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Greta Gerwig's Little Women (2019)
• Louisa May Alcott and the legacy of Jo March
• Women, ambition, marriage, and identity
• The Jo March and Laurie proposal scene
• Loneliness, love, and the female experience
• Grief after losing a pet
• Imagination as a tool for healing
• Spirituality, reincarnation, and wonder
• Why adults still need magic

Content warning: pet loss, grief

0:00 - Intro
6:07 - Nins: Little Women
36:36 - Arns: The Good Trade reader essay
56:01 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• Little Women by Louisa May Alcott
• Little Women film directed by Greta Gerwig
• "Little Women" episode of Next Best Picture Podcast
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• "Special Mission to the Moon" by Maria T. D'hyver on The Good Trade
• The Good Trade newsletter: The Daily Good
• AmyAnn Cadwell's website
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This week, Nins & Arns explore two powerful stories about growing up, being misunderstood, and the transformative power of love.

Arns revisits Dìdi (弟弟), Sean Wang's award-winning coming-of-age film set in Fremont, California during the early days of MySpace, AIM, and YouTube. Through the eyes of a Taiwanese American teenager desperately trying to fit in, Dìdi captures the awkwardness of adolescence, immigrant family dynamics, parental sacrifice, and the realization that our parents may have been loving us all along in ways we didn't recognize.

Nins shares the story of Bruno, a shelter cat labeled "aggressive" and at risk of euthanasia, whose life is transformed by the patience, compassion, and unwavering care of Grace Choi and The Happy Kitty Rescue. As Bruno slowly learns to trust and accept love, his journey becomes a moving reminder that healing is rarely linear—and that sometimes all we need is someone willing to stay.

Together, these stories spark a conversation about Asian American identity, childhood embarrassment, family relationships, emotional healing, trust, rescue animals, compassion, and the people who love us through our hardest moments.

Content warning: family conflict, emotional neglect, animal euthanasia discussions, trauma, abandonment, and difficult parent-child relationships.

0:00 - Intro
2:53 - Arns: Dìdi (弟弟)
24:54 - Nins: cat rescue Bruno
52:24 - Outro

Referenced in this episode:

• Dìdi (弟弟)
• "Filmmaker Interview: Sean Wang, writer/director of DÌDI (弟弟)" by Colin McCormack for SAGIndie
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• The Happy Kitty Rescue’s main website 
• Grace Choi’s instagram & tiktok @kittyboyandfriends
• Day 1 with Bruno
• Day 8 with Bruno
• Day 19 with Bruno
• Day 20 with Bruno
• Grace Choi's interview with cat brand Smalls
  
  

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