Breathe Love & Magic

Here’s what I learned about the Faerie Realm when a group of us went into the Akashic Records to gain insights on what they offer humans.

This was an amazing experience that I am still smiling about. Every month I get together with four other spiritually-minded women to talk about out lives and what we are working on. It’s a spiritual mastermind.

We always wrap up our session by going into the Akashic Records at the same time, to help an individual who has something going on or we’re all curious about a particular topic.

One woman had recently visited with the Faerie Realm in a nearby park and was telling us what happened. She had left them an offering and is working to get to know them.

This made us all curious about what purpose the faeries, Fae Folk or Sidhe (sounds like “she”) and regular fairies serve here on earth and what they offer humans.

Good question, right?

They exist in a realm or dimension that is close to ours and sometimes people can see them! There are also little fairies (notice the spelling is different) that are part of the elemental kingdom which are different than the Fae.

We wanted a better understanding of both fairies and the Faerie Realm as to why are they here, what do we need to know, and what do we gain by communicating with them.

I’m going to share what all five of us received in the Akashic Records. We were very respectful and agreed to only look at what they wanted us to see from the records. We didn’t dive into any one particular Fae’s records, so there wasn’t any invasion of their privacy.

The group wanted to know about the bigger perspective of the Faery race to understand how our interacting with them can be helpful and what we can learn from them.

I sought to connect with the little winged fairies, which I encountered at the Blarney Castle in Ireland. There, the people created a fairy garden.

Sitting there for about 3 minutes because we were so rushed, I closed my eyes and the fairies came immediately, flitting around my face and eyes. Just about two inches high, they were so happy I came to visit them.

This was an incredible, exhilarating, and gleeful experience for me and this is what I wanted to know more about in the Akashic Records.

What these tiny fairies said to me (and maybe this was a more personal message) was that they wanted humanity to lighten up!

“Open your heart, sing, and dance. Throw fairy dust and enjoy the sparkles. When you work with fairy dust daily, please sprinkle it liberally, and allow yourself to enjoy those sparkles any time, anywhere.

You are made to feel joyful and here to experience joy rather than being mired down by all the problems and things you want to change with yourself or the world. That’s OK, but mix it up with joy in between or after.”

They said, “Call on the fairies to ask for help to lighten you up, lift your spirit, or lighten your load. We will help you shift your energy and perspective. We love to help and share our joy and love.”

Then they sent me fountains of joy and limitless fairy dust. I was so beyond happy, elated, and blissful with this exchange and the message. Totally amazing.

Listen to another episode about Nature spirits, elementals and plant devas

The next person heard, “Magic is everywhere and you have the need to use the eyes of a child. Go back to your child-like self. That’s how you can more easily see the Faerie Realm.”

They are part of Gaia or mother earth energy, dedicated to creating balance in the eco-system. I thought that was a fabulous message – the faeries are here to help the earth and help us. This is a theme that continues in other messages.

The third woman who is the one that talks to the faeries said that they wish to bridge the span between people and the Faerie Realm to bring unity and healing to the earth. They are here to unearth the knowledge that can heal and assist with preservation of the earth. Also, they work to create greater longevity.

The power of this healing lies within our human hearts!

They asked humans to be like children, be joyful, and go play. Be creative and do creative projects.

The Fae want to be better understood and accepted. The wee ones are open and want you to trust what you see, hear and feel and share with others. They want you to be in communion with Mother Earth.

The fourth woman of our group said the faeries make the world green and their presence is ancient. That’s definitely true of the elemental kingdom. They colorize our world and without them there would be no green.

Their message was to avoid disrespecting Gaia and the spirit of Mother Earth. They asked that we strive to preserve it. Inviting us to have a spiritual connection with Mother Earth and be in communion with the Faerie Realm and elementals.

There have been hundred of years where we have been out of balance with the earth from a human perspective, which has changed the way we grow our food and approach agriculture, build our cities and roads.

Instead, they ask humans to come from a place of being part of Mother Earth and one with her. This will shift how we relate to Mother Earth and our level of respect for her.

The fifth woman heard that the Faeries’ request that we be the best we can be. The best version of yourself. The faeries bring joy, which should be shared, and they enjoy being with humans who are open to them.

These messages opened our hearts and filled us with joy. After our session was completed, there were many follow up texts, which is not our usual process. That’s because there was a tremendous amount of excitement and a lot of love flowed between all of us from this experience.

I have experienced many warm and welcoming conversations with the Faery Realm and elemental world. Today I wanted to share something fun, creative, and joyful with you. I could always use a little more joy – what about you?

Why not connect with the fairies and Fae Folk, and take advantage of what they offer humans?

I hope this lifted your spirits today. As always my blessing is, “May you live in the magic.”

Learn more about elementals, nature spirits, and the plant kingdom.

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Learn about ancient arts, sacred sciences, and laughter with Timothy Stuetz, including a fun visualization to manifest three wishes! We talked about how to quiet the mind, smile more, and find an endless source of laughter.

My guest Timothy made a bold statement. He says that over the last 42 years, practicing and teaching various spiritual practices, it’s almost like the past doesn’t exist for him any more. In other words, it doesn’t drag him down.

His practices have included meditation, Reiki, Tai Chi, Yoga & Qigong, among others.

Every day is so complete, it’s hard for him to imagine anything beyond what is happening right now, even though he has memories of course. But, anything that challenged him in the past, no longer has energy or emotions attached to it. Nice, right?

I told him that seemed like quite an accomplishment, since many people carry a big suitcase filled with all sort of emotional wounds and hardships. I asked him how he managed to let it all go.

Timothy attributes his freedom to God’s grace and daily meditation. Plus, he’s worked with many teachers over the years. Everything has been a mirror for what he needed to learn and see in himself.

He’d ask himself about all the different reflections he faced, “What am I supposed to learn from this relationship?” This questioning has been tremendously helpful.

Timothy’s career has been quite varied including being a Certified Public Accountant (CPA), a reverend, a chocolatier, and a master of several ancient arts and sacred sciences.

Today, he has a Quantum Energy Academy where he trains people to carry on the gifts he’s been given. This 18-month training program includes Quantum Energy Healing, and various forms of meditation, Tai Chi, Qigong, and yoga.

You can take classes just for yourself or get certified to teach others.

One big questions I posed to Timothy is how do we embody more of the magical life he talks about? What are the necessary core elements to make that happen?

Timothy responded, “Practice, practice, practice and choosing something that really resonates with you.”

Also, don’t give up on a practice too quickly, because anything new may feel strange at first. It may trigger reactions that make you want to give up. But stay with your choice long enough to know it’s something you want to continue or move on if it doesn’t resonate.

Timothy is the world’s most prolific writer of children’s book. The stories and exercises in these books will energize the reader’s magical powers of love and create miracles. One exercise teaches how to empower three wishes and send them out into the world, making the reader a powerful magician.

My guest said we all have magical powers but we need to remember and learn how to use them.  The ancient arts and sacred sciences are a great path to get you there.

Timothy actually leads listeners through a fun exercise to attract three wishes, but you’ll have to listen to the podcast for that. For me, it felt very powerful and got the energy moving all around my body.

Another exercise teaches children how to create a smiling body. If you literally sit and smile, then visualize putting a smile into every organ and part of our body and practice this for a week or two, you will smile a lot more effortlessly.

A barrel of laughter can be found by focusing on the dantian (sacral chakra 2 ” below the navel). This is a great solution for what is happening in the world right now. Find the laughter within to stay happy.

Timothy says he does listen to the news once in a while, so he can consciously choose where to direct his healing energy in the world. It works better than just sending out a general blanket of love and light.

After finishing his training to learn and teach Tai Chi, his first teacher told him he knew the movements and how to instruct students really well. But she asked if he could do this with a smile on his face!

Once she said this, a memory came forward of his father telling him to, “Wipe that smile of his face.” Because of this, Timothy had been on the more serious side. But his teacher’s words hit him like a ton of bricks.

She reawakened his natural smile and why he had stopped allowing himself to smile. Then with God’s grace, he started laughing after a meditation retreat which was a huge release. He laughed for 6.5 hours straight! Can you imagine?

The final piece to this story is, as he awakened one morning, he had a sense that one of his meditation masters was sitting at the top of his pillow.

He felt his teacher’s fingers pull at the corners of his mouth, creating a smile. The more you smile, the easier it gets and the more natural too. When you are not feeling joy, you have lost track of your heart, regardless of what is going on outside. Practice finding the joy.

To me, this is a place for gratitude practice. Notice what is working and appreciate all of it. A grateful heart provides elevated energy and a higher frequency.

Another strategy that helps is from the author, Lynn Grabhorn, or talks about marveling. Look at nature to wonder how it works and knows exactly what to do. Getting in touch with life through the eyes of a child in this fashion changes everything.

This is a mindfulness practice that gets you off the anxiety train and helps you feel more present.

Reverend Yugen Bond, minimalist, talks more about mindfulness in this interview.

When you quiet your mind, your intuition and spirit guides can get through to you more easily. If you are trying to develop your intuitive abilities, this is super important.

Tai Chi and Qigong also help you quiet the mind. You focus on the soles of your feet or below your navel while you are moving, and somehow that manages to erase those deep thinking groves. These practices draw upon the ancient arts and sacred sciences Timothy has studied in-depth.

Click here for an episode on Qigong and Tai Chi.

Timothy’s last piece of advice is to find a practice that you love that gets you to tune back into your inner self. When your mind is churning, thinking over and over about something, give it something else to repeat that is distracting and uplifting.

You could repeat any of these:

Breathe in and feel the love that you are. Let it radiate through your body to constantly reinforce the ongoing experience of who you truly are. This is another of the ancient arts and sacred sciences for sure.

Every cell of your body is capable of vibrating with the energy of 1,000 suns. We’ve all have a good experience in life and those good vibes and feelings are inside you. Tap back into that to relive the experience whenever you want it to raise your frequency.

An astrologer once told Timothy, “You don’t change jobs, you change careers.”  And he was right! He’s been a Certified Public Accountant, an Ordained Minister, a Master of Multiple Ancient Arts and Sacred Sciences (Meditation, Reiki, T’ai Chi, Yoga & Qigong). He’s also the most prolific author of children’s books alive today.

Bliss Beary Bear’s Educational, Entertaining & Inspirational Fairy Tales Of The Heart have more original characters than even Disney has created!

Timothy also the Executive Director and Founder of Transformations, a nonprofit dedicated to assisting people of all ages achieve their maximum personal and professional potential by integrating body, mind, heart and soul.

Holding people at birth and death and empowering them in all ways in between, he has developed expertise in human development, generating and using internal energy to restore health, relaxation, focus, to be successful and connect with and live their Original Magic!

www.timothystuetz.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/timothy-stuetz/

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Why complain about the past, when it won’t get you anywhere? In this short Podcast Snack, I’m talking about why you want to focus on the present to stay positive and create a bright future.

This is my first Podcast Snack which is like a little nibble of information for when you have a moment in between other activities. I want to be a little more open and share what is on my mind from a spiritual perspective.

There won’t be a regular schedule for these Podcast Snacks. They’ll come up when something hits me that I want to talk about. So, this is the first one – yay for me!

I’ve been enjoying LinkedIn and have been on the platform a long time. Lately, I’ve been making more comments, sharing, and posting more often.

It’s a more professional platform, but sometimes I see some of that nastiness you find on Facebook and Twitter. This always surprises me. There’s a lot of negativity that people put into their sharing.

Everybody gets to choose what’s right for them. Personally when I share, I always try to share from a place that could inspire, uplift or show appreciation.

This is because I’m looking for opportunities to lift and expand my own energy. When I share from this place I have the chance to lift or inspire others. That’s how I look at sharing on social media, strange as that might seem.

What inspired me today to create a Podcast Snack was something posted by the Female Lead, a group with 3.3 million followers on LinkedIn. They post comments on women and women’s roles, etc.

Today in the post was a picture of Jane Goodall with a Barbie doll wearing a safari outfit and binoculars with a chimp doll. There’s a quote from Jane that says, “When I was growing up there weren’t any female role models.”

This is related to the new Barbie doll that represents her – its her own doll. I thought this was such a fun thing – how nice! Her focus on the present to improve today.

Of course, there were complainers. One woman said she disagreed because there have always been role models. Just because they weren’t career women didn’t mean they weren’t good role models. She felt the post insulted women like her grandmother.

I find it very hard to believe with who Jane Goodall is, all the work she did, and where she was coming from that she wanted to insult stay-at-homes wives.

The women who cleaned, baked, raised children, did charity work, and all the traditional stuff were not being slighted.

I don’t think Jane’s intention with Barbie and saying there were no role models when she grew up was to put down the house wife. I really doubt it.

But she didn’t want to be a house wife. She had other dreams for she wanted to do and that’s fine. Everybody gets to do their own thing today, right?

All she was saying was there probably weren’t any other women out in the bush in Africa studying chimpanzees. Or doing that kind of scientific research she did in the wild. She didn’t have any female role models doing what she wanted to do.

Yes, there were always women to inspire us. The Suffragettes in the early 1900s picketed and did everything they could to get the women’s vote.

They fought to convince President Woodrow Wilson to get over it and make us equal by signing the bill and giving us the vote. This is a great example of female role models from more than 100 year ago.

The thing that really hit me was, how many people make negative comments and are angry about history.

My point is, let’s not complain about history. It wasn’t perfect but what is perfect? Everything starts somewhere.

So, when you go back and look at history and say, They didn’t do a good enough job!” That doesn’t work.

You can’t go back and look at history through the eyes of today because they weren’t here now. They were living on earth back then, which was a different time with different social mores, etc.

When you expend energy being mad about the past, then you are not in the present and you are not working on the future. To quote Deepak Chopra, “Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way, ask yourself if you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future.”

So, that’s my point and what I said on LinkedIn.

I wrote a post that said, “You can’t go back and make your bed.” I don’t know if you are familiar with that old adage. You can’t make your bed again, it’s in the past. You can’t change that.

So, we can’t go back and edit history. However, we can be here now and focus on the present moment. We can think about what we can do today and who we can inspire for tomorrow.

Be concerned about the roles models we create for the youth of today by being our best selves, and striving for what we want. This is accomplished by being a positive force now.

I guess I’m hoping that I might inspire you to be positive in your comments on social media.

You might be angry sometimes and you might not even like what I’m saying and that’s OK too. I’m just saying it for those people who might inspired to try something different.

My hope is that people will leave their anger about the past in the past, and expend and use their energy for the present to can create the reality you want today.

We can’t change what happened in the past. There’s nothing we can do about it. But we sure can change right now, and we can absolutely change our future.

Words have great power – use them wisely, consciously, and when possible, for the good of all concerned.

If you’re interested in Business or Life Intuitive Coaching, or a one-time intuitive or past life reading, please email me at Ronnie[@]Nevertoolate.biz and let’s schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation. Thanks!

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Working with the Law of Attraction for money? In this week’s episode, my guest Cassie Parks, manifesting coach, talks about how she has helped clients attract $10,000+ for many years.

I asked Cassie how she got started on this wild ride. Her story started in 8th grade, when she was in a fundraiser contest at school that required her to sell five things on the first day to get her name in the $20 drawing.

Before going to sleep, she pictured herself sitting in her seat at school, hearing her name called, walking down the stairs ands getting her $20. The next day, she was the 3rd name called and won $20!

While this was a great start, she still had a lot to learn.

Cassie truly believes you can create whatever you want and the mind is very powerful. She was interested in psychology or being a counselor. Then in her early to mid 20s, she believed in the Law of Attraction (money), but she thought that was all it took.

This meant she was pushing and howling and it was not working at all. Then the clouds cleared and she finally realized what it took to let go, allow, and enjoy life along the way instead of pushing that thing to manifest.

Finally, success came! Cassie manifested her financial freedom with enough passive income to quit her job. That’s when she started to build her coaching practice which she had been longing to do for a while.

She wrote a money manifesting course six months before leaving her job and launched it six months after leaving. Over 200 people took her program and she created a five-figure launch. In the past, Cassie had only made two sales, so this was quite an accomplishment.

This became the basis for what people came to her to learn about. Next she expanded to the next level, working with the future self.

I mentioned how in coaching school we also did work with the future self. I was in. It was such an exciting concept.

What was the magic that turned things around for her, helped her quit her job and launch her coaching practice?

Cassie pointed to two important things:

1. Looking at her money story. – She had to shift and write a new money story. That required thinking about what she really wanted and stepping into it. She focused on how to move into that more every day.

2. Working with scripting. – When she first quit her job, she knew what it felt like to have a little bit of success as a coach, getting to about $1,000 a month, however she hoped for so much more. Cassie also knew what it was like to create products that no one bought. (Me too!)

Lacking the experience of what it felt like to have clients achieving great success or being a coach who was making money was a hinderance. So, before she wrote the money course, she scripted every day about what it felt like to be a successful coach and have successful clients.

Cassie stepped into these roles and created it in her mind first, to give herself the experience. Getting into that future energy was exciting and exhilarating.

I asked Cassie what sets her apart as a manifesting coach from the crowd working with the Law of attraction. She responded her approach is practical, easy, and fun.

When most people come to her, they’ve already listened to a bunch of other Law of Attraction coaches and have this long list of things they think they should be doing which is exhausting.

Instead, Cassie suggests 20-minutes of scripting a day and then pay attention to the stories you tell yourself, what thoughts come to mind, and the choices you make.

She does very practical, easy, fun methods and has created assignments in her program that build trust, help you set intentions, and let them go. Then some days you’ll do nothing, so you can have fun along the way.

Counting the evidence and the signs that what you want to manifest is happening is essential. She has clients keep an “It’s Happening List,” so you can’t discount your progress or success.

On the other hand, when you hate the process because it’s too hard or complicated or you can’t get it all done, you end up having bad feelings about yourself. You start to question the validity of the Law of Attraction (money).

That’s just not productive! With Cassie, she keeps it simple and fun.

I talked about how I used the Law of Attraction most successfully to find my husband, Paul. We’ve been married now for 22 years – yay! My method was to write affirmations, that became poems, that turned into chants or songs which I sang all the time.

I didn’t have to carve time out specifically for this. I sang my songs while driving, taking a walk, doing the dishes or in the shower. I did the manifesting while doing other things.

I found the songs highly uplifting and always felt happy afterwards. This raised my vibration and put me in the energy of matching my heart’s desire to find the right romantic life partner. That’s the Law of Attraction in action!

Cassie actually has a very unusual way to offer her program. She allows you to sign up and pay at the end. Isn’t that cool?

You pay based on your success, with 10% of whatever money you manifested during the time in her program. There’s no excuse this way- you just have to do the work!

One of Cassie’s pet peeves is people who think change should happen instantly. You can see some results quickly. But imagine trying to change the direction of a large cruise ship – it can’t turn on a dime, right?

That is in essence of what some people expect and doesn’t work.

Another problem can be distraction, also called Shiny Object Syndrome. There is always something new to chase. When it comes to personal development, the choices are endless, but you have to pick one and stay the course. Keep going and don’t give up.

After interviewing her clients over a few years, Cassie discovered a number of prevalent money stories. These are the stories people tell themselves about their relationship with money. See if one of these fits.

Sometimes these stories match your parents’ money stories or can be the opposite, as you try to break free of how you grew up around money. To hear more about money stories, listen to the podcast with the player at the top of the page – its wonderful.

Cassie is the fairy godmother for people who struggle to manifest more than parking spaces. Through her positive reality podcast, books, and online coaching program, she shakes up your approach to using the law of attraction (money) while making it all feel easy, practical, and of course fun.

Her insights have been featured on Colorado’s best, in the Huffington Post, and on one of the most downloaded episodes of Primal Blueprint. She could make an episode on any of these, or any other ideas you have that your audience would find interesting.

She’s the author of several books including Manifest $10,000, Double Your Business, and Marketing to Serve. Cassie also wrote a three book series on the Champagne Life, plus a couple of novellas! Here’s her Amazon author page.

When she’s not teaching people how to attract more money, you can find her in the pool, having a dance party with my favorite kiddos, concocting powerful female leads for her novellas, and occasionally sipping on her favorite chocolate cake champagne cocktail.

https://enchantedlifeu.com

Manifesting Success Stories Podcast

Manifest It Now Podcast 

https://www.instagram.com/cassie_parks

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In this episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast, learn how my guest, Tracey Whittet does remote energy healing and Transmosis to help you feel balanced, uplifted, and greater wholeness.

To start, I asked Tracey to please explain what multi-dimensional body balancing is. She began by quoting Buckminster Fuller who said, “99% of who you are is invisible and untouchable.”

People think they are whole based on what they can see and touch, but there is so much more. You have several energy bodies that surround your physical body.

To get really specific, humans have six invisible bodies that are layered around the actual body. These are part of your aura or energy field:

These additional bodies look like you but are transparent in nature. Now, your wounds cause you to disconnect from these bodies unconsciously. Transmosis is how the energy flows and this hybrid word came to Tracey one day while working on a client.

What does it mean? Well, the prefix “trans” means across or the other side. Combine this with the word “osmosis,” which is how water moves from an area of greater concentration to an area of lessor concentration.

Put the words together and this defines how the healing energy moves through the body during the Transmosis process. The unconscious transfer and assimilation of higher frequencies to raise the recipient’s energy to be equal to Source’s (God) energy.

In other words, Tracey up-levels her client’s frequency to connect with their soul level energy. This can be done in person or with remote energy healing.

Tracey started her spiritual journey at a young age (somewhere between 18 and 20), going to a Sunday gathering in her neighborhood. First she had reflexology done and was hooked! Then she learned Reiki healing and that was the beginning of her healing studies.

She also studied a Course in Miracles with this group, which had a huge impact on her life and how she looked at everything.

Then, in her mid 20s, she took a program by Michelle Lousson called Creative Wellness, which was about holistic stress management. The intensive, week-long program changed her life and she still uses the same methods today.

Tracey went back to college and got an individualized degree in Stress Management. She wanted to learn more about the endocrine system and took anatomy and physiology to better understand the body.

Switching gears, we talked about how channeling is not only with words, but also with energy. Tracey considers her work to be divine flow. We are spiritual, divine beings, so we are the local representatives of the Divine! Tracey and I had a good laugh about this.

Tracey recommends that you always call in 100% pure divine light. You are so powerful, but most people often forget or get disconnected from that wisdom. At the start of a session, Tracey calls in your guides, asking for 100% pure divine light for the highest good to be done for you and all concerned.

She also calls in her own guides of 100% pure divine light and asks to be a pure divine vessel of truth, wisdom, and healing love for her client’s highest good. Then she invites her client and herself to move the ego out of the way.

Next, she calls in the all consuming Violet Flame (St. Germain) to clear, clean, cleanse, heal, harmonize, and balance her client on all levels, layers, timelines, and dimensions.

Tracey said that while doing her work, humorous thoughts often come to mind and she sometimes feels like she’s on Saturday Night Live. This is part of her bringing in the divine and levity is absolutely a type of joy – a super high frequency.

Levity opens doors, changes energy, and offers a transformation in itself. You can release through laughter the same way you do with crying. It’s all the same, moving energy to get the result you desire, whether in person or by remote energy healing.

Tracey has found when she asks spirit what the client needs to work on, she always hears that everyone is working to clear ancestral lines. This is true for both sides of your family. Everyone inherits energy, and even if it feels like it’s yours because it’s in your body, often there are energy patterns that are definitely from an ancestor.

Up to 80% of the time, energies get stuck in the past in our nervous system, endocrine system, and chakras too. So, a client might want to work on something in particular, but Tracey asks spirit what to work on.

That calls up the hologram of your energy, like the movie Minority Report, which is a vast landscape of how you manifest in the world. Then the beings of light do what is for your highest good.

Recently, when I was doing remote energy healing with a client, I was working to clear her system. I noticed that her energy bodies were out of sync. They looked like a Venn diagram with three overlapping circles.

Instead, the energy bodies needed to be aligned and I focused my attention on getting her fully aligned, calling back all the pieces to sync together, like one central core. Tracey was saying that is soul alignment.

Once you have cleared and cleansed the energy bodies and systems and have everything realigned, you’re ready to wrap things up. To do this, you simple heal and seal with liquid golden light.

Allow the light to fill any voids or empty spots that were cleared, and activate upward spirals that are clockwise to reverse any tears or contractions (like fear) of energy. Then you anchor and hold with divine protection of truth, wisdom, and healing love.

Right now, Tracey is creating a course so anyone can do this for themselves. Her vision is to heal the world, support higher consciousness, and help human beings evolve.

This year, Tracey learned that even though she always thought she was in charge, she discovered that if she just gets her ego out of the way, things tend to fall into place easily. That is so true!

She also suggests that you can ask your 100% pure divine light team for help with anything, to help you do what is for your highest good.

Connect with your higher self and your divinity, to tune into your intuition and highest good. Then make sure you clear, clean, cleanse, heal, harmonize, and balance to take care of your spiritual hygiene.

Be in a relationship with yourself first and your divine being – this is what creates flow. Be in your heart and think of this as your own divine GPS. So connect in the morning and go from there. She says its a walk of trust and we are all working on this.

Tracey works with clients in person in New Mexico and also she offers remote energy healing. Regardless of who you choose to work with, taking care of your energy bodies can only serve you. Thanks, Tracey!

Get Tracey’s Free Gift – a pdf copy of her book, The Magi Within at TraceyWhittet.com

Tracey Whittet is an intuitive guide, channeler, and energy healer in Santa Fe, NM sharing her unique gift called Transmosis Healing. The multi-dimensional body balancing sessions clear non-beneficial energies on all levels, layers, timelines, and dimensions by clearing the Energy Bodies. Clients feel better, happier, lighter, and are uplifted by the 100% pure divine light clearing that compassionately elevates you into wholeness.

Website: TraceyWhittet.com

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In this episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast, I’m speaking with Shannon Grissom about her Sock Monkey Oracle Cards. This adorable and highly creative deck is filled with the whimsical wisdom only sock monkeys can provide.

I asked my guest, Shannon Grissom, where this idea came from. She told the story that 20 years ago, she painted the original sock monkey painting as a tribute to her mom after she passed. Shannon had found a sock monkey among her things while cleaning out her home.

From the very first painting, she thought this was a great idea for an oracle deck. But she didn’t do anything with them, even though she continued painting the inspiring monkeys. The paintings piled up but they would have to wait to be born as an oracle.

Then came the pandemic and shut down hit, and her two one-woman shows were closed. Shannon saw this as a sign from the Universe – it was time to shift gears. She asked herself what’s on my list that I never had time to do – the Sock Monkey Oracle Deck!

Once she made the decision, the flood gates of creativity opened. She finished the paintings and then sat down to write the book that accompanies the deck. But Shannon doubted herself wondering who am I to write the text for this oracle.

Then she realized it wasn’t coming directly from her but to her through channeling and the Sock Monkey Oracle Deck was born. It was an amazing experience! I thought this was such a beautiful story.

The thing about sock monkeys to me, is that they are so outrageously lovable! Soft, comfy, cozy little dolls that you just want to hug and squeeze.

I asked Shannon what was the history of sock monkeys dolls. She said that dolls have been made from socks for hundreds of years.

But during the depression here in the US, the Nelson Knitting Company from Rockford, Illinois, changed the yarn for the heels of their socks to red. This is how the sock monkeys of today came into being with their bright red lips.

Curious, I asked Shannon what lessons she learned while working on the guidebook. She replied that the deck seems to call her on her own stuff and then laughed deeply.

There’s a lesson in each card that she has worked on or is still working on.

The deck has helped her the most by shifting from being focused and driven, to lightening up. How can you not when you look at those cards with their little faces? They just put you in a state of joy.

Shannon’s process for tuning in is to move into a state of joy. To do this, she pictures herself with all the dogs that have ever loved her (and vice versa) which puts her into a cosmic state of flow. Isn’t that so sweet?

This allows her to connect with spirit and helped her channel the lightness and wisdom of the Sock Monkey Oracle.

Her regular practice is to get into alignment with spirit and speak with her guides. Then she pulls one card from the deck, asking what she needs to focus on for the day. The very first one she pulled from the finished deck was “Unwind” which was spot on.

This card also made her laugh, since she had gotten very wound up towards the end of the production process.

Of course I had to pick a card myself from the deck Shannon had graciously sent me. The card was “Education” which I took to mean I was learning something new.

Shannon’s take was a little different on the message seeing that I am teaching something by sharing this with the listeners. Very true!

I wanted to know if any of the cards stood out for her and she responded immediately with the “Love” card. Shannon says the Love card hits her soul on a deep level. We also talked about the cover of the deck which is dance.

She talked about posing the sock monkey and was reminded that she has no control because they didn’t always want to pose they way she wanted them too. Then she let out a big laugh!

The other card that hit her strongly was the “Withdraw” card, which is the last one in the deck. Shannon doesn’t necessarily like getting that card, but she knows and has learned to heed the message and stop pushing.

Next I asked how she got her spiritual practice started. Shannon said her sister-in-law got her into oracle and Tarot cards in her mid 20’s, opening her to the idea of something bigger than herself.

She also started doing Julia Cameron’s “Morning Pages” from her book, The Artist’s Way. This began her phase working with automatic writing which Shannon is still doing today.

Then, she actively tunes in to speak with her guides every day and records this by using Otter.ai. She used to start her day with painting, but now she tunes into spirit first.

I always find such a disciplined approach so impressive since that’s not my strong point. Shannon talked about how she has learned to pay attention and listen to spirit, so she can live her best life. When she blocks out the advice, problems tend to crop up.

We also talked about her gratitude practice and I asked how this got started. It seems her husband had a bad accident and this was a tough time in her life.

Then coincidently, her niece had started a month-long gratitude challenge for November that year, suggesting people think of something they were grateful for every day for 30 days.

This was super hard for Shannon, but she took on the challenge to move in the right direction. When the month ended, she didn’t stop! What happened was she started looking for things to be grateful for!

Doing this since 2009, the process has morphed. Now on her daily walk, she looks for something cool to take a picture of. She says it’s like hunting for gratitude. Shannon didn’t realize she was negative until she started seriously looking for the the positive side of life.

I added that the human brain wants to be right, so people look for evidence that supports their viewpoints. If you are negative,  you’ll find that evidence.

On the other hand, when you push yourself to be more positive, you’ll start to see more wonderful things in your life!

What Shannon did in essence, was reset her internal radar for gratitude and positivity and that completely shifted her life experience.

In my practice, I also ask for synchronicities and help to see and notice the signs that my guides share with me so I can walk my highest spiritual path.

Shannon also adds the word and emotion LOVE to her affirmations to help her buy into them more deeply. This struck me, as putting the love vibe into your affirmations adds a powerful emotion and really, what frequency is higher that love?

If you want more whimsy, more magic, and more love in your daily practice, get the Sock Monkey Oracle for yourself and enjoy!

Shannon was a late bloomer and didn’t discover painting until 33! Upon realizing she wanted to be a professional artist, she was hooked and driven. She’d get up early each day to paint for a few hours before the start of her day job. This demanding schedule was worth the effort because she left that job in 1999 to create art full-time.

At 44, she began production of her television series, Give Your Walls Some Soul. The inspirational how-to painting show grew from an audience of just one station to over 50 across the country, winning numerous awards and still airing today.

Next, at 46, she published her children’s book Monkey Made of Sockies, and a line of licensed merchandise, including a coloring book, and  golf club headcovers carried on tour by several LPGA pros.

Today Shannon is an award-winning artist, television producer/host, author, and songwriter. Her artwork is licensed and sold globally, and she just launched an online art school called “Painterly.”

Shannon’s  latest project, the Sock Monkey Oracle is a joyful marriage of her metaphysical interests and her creative life. No matter what she creates, Shannon’s mission is to radiate love and help folks pollinate their own creativity.

Get your own deck https://sockmonkeyoracle.com/ or visit her website to learn more about Shannon Grissom https://shannongrissom.com/

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In this episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast, find out how to be confident in your body in this interview with Vicki Dello Joio, Qi Gong Master Teacher and Public Speaking Coach.

Vicki started her long relationship with martial arts growing up in New York City. She wanted to kick through obstacles, get where she wanted to go, and learn self-defense.

After years of practice and dedication, she got a strong inner message that it was time to focus on the energy of what she was doing vs. breaking a board or do harm to someone else. She started to explore the other aspects of Qi Gong.

I shared that I have a client who is a lawyer and being at court sort of makes her a warrior. I got a message for her that it was time to put her proverbial sword and shield down and learn to use her feminine energy instead to deflect attacks and court room antics.

Turns out Vicki also has an attorney client who was going to present to the Canadian Supreme Court and she needed to learn how to present an important case at this top level.

Using what she knows about moving energy and how to be confident in your body, Vicki helped her client with her case. We come back to this later in the blog post.

WaQi is a powerful, scientifically-validated practice for making positive changes in mind, body, and spirit. Harnessing the power within and your confidence, you can walk into a presentation (or anything really) saying to yourself, “I am,” which is always a bold positive statement.

Think how much more presence you would have with “I am” vs. thinking either, “I can’t do this,” or “I hope it goes well.” Vicki explains that the energy you bring to any interaction is the one ingredient that matters most.

The shift for Vicki came at the end of training and sparring with her partner one day. They’d come home and end up fighting a lot and she was done with this pattern. So, it came to her that she wanted to stop hurting people and being hurt. She didn’t want to fight anymore.

Coincidently, she got a phone call that same day from a friend who was a Qi Gong master. Her friend said she’d been thinking about her and had a feeling it was time to stop fighting and learn more about the inner plane. This is why Vicki shifted to Qi Gong.

Vicki became more familiar with what it means to exude power from within. She gained a sense of internal power and become a lot more resilient, rather than having to fight. This is about how to be confident in your body.

People who learn this skill to come from within as they straighten their spine and emit that energy. I asked what that means to the average person. Vicki says its a way to tap into your inner guidance and know what is best for yourself.

Believe it or not, standing tall in your body is a way to unite heaven and earth in Qi Gong. To understand and know what steps to take to get to your goal, what serves you best, and how to be discerning all at the same time. It’s about realms of consciousness.

When you’re not straight, then the energy gets stuck and doesn’t flow as freely. Allow for flow in your body with this type of posture to shift or eliminate pain or even how you feel or perceive something.

Vicki works with private clients to help them move into a good place physiologically, for the best possible presentation. With her attorney client going to the supreme court, they worked on how to respond to difficult questions and hold herself strong.

The client had a huge win, because the case was expected to be shot down. Yet, the court was split and agreed to review again in six months. This was surprising and a reflection of how well she used her energy during the presentation.

She demonstrated how to be confident in your body.

What is the difference between Tai Chi and Qi Gong? Qi Gong is actually a word that references a broad array of practices with many subcategories and styles. Some martial arts and others meditative, etc.

Qi Gong was a word created in China in the 1950s to represent the whole category of movement exercises. Tai Chi is a branch of Qi Gong. It’s about techniques that work with the breath, move energy intentionally (like acupuncture), and visualization.

There are over 6,000 exercises that fall under this umbrella, so in any class you attend, you might encounter a new series of movements. Qi Gong is more solitary vs. working with a partner, to build yourself, improve your health, and walk your talk.

Next I asked Vicki what she means when she talks about a “joy-fueled life.” She sees joy as a fuel and in Qi Gong it lives in the heart. It can be a fuel for life. Many people see their joy as dependent on outside things like having enough money, the right job, or house.

She thinks joy is a birthright and a life force that you can tap into any time you want. She also clarified that joy is not the same as happiness. This is not about everything being nice all the time.

Vicki sees joy as a container for all other emotions. For example, at a funeral or memorial, people are sad about the loss, but might also laugh during the eulogy, remembering the joy of the person who passed.

Laughter is like tears, allowing emotion and energy to move through you. When you think about how to be more confident in your body, you know joy follows close behind.

Her name Victoria Dello Joio means “Victory of Joy” in Italian. Realizing this made her ask herself what it meant and what that looks like. The way of joy is her own hybrid system she created over many years that combines heaven, human, and earth.

What are some embodied tools that people can use to amplify the power of our presence while honoring our shy self?

If you want to push past the shyness, speak your truth, and come forward with what matters to you, start by putting your hand over your heart chakra. Your thymus gland is behind your sternum where the heart center is, which supports your immune system.

Then ask yourself why you care, what matters to you most, and what your message is. The heart center is where the WaQi energy and field emanates from.

At the same time, lift your crown and lengthen your neck, so your chin drops a bit. This move opens a channel between your wisdom in your head and your heart, the source of love and joy.

Then feel your sits bones connected to your heels, so you have a sense of vertical alignment and move into neutral compassion. This is how to be confident in your body.

Now when you express yourself, you honor your shy self, but come from a place of inner power. Doing this connects your heaven realm or wisdom and your earth realm which is your power.

Ready to awaken to the voice of your soul?

I brought up the Donna Eden’s Thymus Thump, which is tapping on your sternum to calm your nervous system and reduce that fight or flight feeling. This brings you back into alignment. Cool right?

So, when you feel nervous or have to make a good impression, or get your point across, lift your crown, activate your thymus, ground through your feet, then you will be in  your power. This connects the heaven and earth, helps you be strong, and is a great example of how to be confident in your body.

This reminded me of the Wonder Woman  stance (from Amy Covey’s work) with your hands on hips and feet apart of shoulder wide which helps you remember you are in charge. You summon up energy in this stance, and feel in your power.

Stand tall, feel into your heart, and remember to breathe. In addition, seven long, deep breaths can bring you back to center, helping you feel a lot more resourceful. Give yourself this gift!

You can find lots of videos on Vicki’s website to learn more and enjoy!

Drawing on decades of theater performance, directing experience, and life-long study of martial arts, Vicki stands apart from other trainers (public speaking coaches). By focusing on crafting the stories her clients tell AND the energy behind how they deliver their message, their audiences can feel and remember them forever.  The Energy You Bring is the Ingredient that Matters Most.

Learn more about Vicki at https://VickiDelloJoio.com

Listen to talks and interviews about Qi here https://www.nqa.org/qi-talks-archive

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Discover your own inner wisdom with Ulrika Sullivan. Having left her corporate job as a scientist and chemical engineer, she’s now a spiritual life coach and energy healer.

Ulrika is passionate about helping women connect with their intuition, energy and true self to find greater life balance and self- love. She believes in living from the heart with more ease and flow. Sounds good doesn’t it?

The idea that the harder you work, the more you will receive has defined success for many decades. Often, there is a specific career path to follow. But this old paradigm has become outdated and doesn’t hold true any more.

People are tired of the struggle this creates. Ulrika challenges the concept by asking, “What if that’s not true?” She knows there’s another way and this is the center of her life coaching practice. You can discover other ways to experience success.

Wow, wouldn’t that be freeing? The shift is to define what success is for you. That’s how you get into the flow. You can step away from being completely driven, following your focused career path, and all those usual check boxes.

Ulrika suggests shifting this typical pattern by going inwards to find your true talents and gifts. Connecting with your inner wisdom is a better way to discover your own individual path to success.

The old way would be to get promoted, publish a book, become a thought leader, have a big stock portfolio, drive a status car, own a big home, win awards, etc.

If you redefine success based on your inner knowing, what does success look like then?

It’s important to identify those patterns in your life that may no longer serve you. They keep you on the treadmill, feeling unsatisfied. Raise your awareness to notice these patterns and open to new possibilities.

Go within and figure out what ignites your creativity. When do you feel the most life force? What lights you up? This takes some digging but is so worthwhile because you get in touch with your true self. Start by asking yourself these questions.

Here’s a concrete example of the new kind of success Ulrika enjoys. In the past, she started her morning with her phone and a big to-do list. She’d wake up, take her phone into the bathroom, shower, rush around, and commute 1.5 hours to work.

In contrast today, Ulrika doesn’t set an alarm. She wakes up when her body is done sleeping. Then, she lies in bed for a while reviewing her dreams and connecting with her body. Next, she makes coffee and goes back to bed to meditate, talk with her spirit guides, do intuitive journaling, and pull cards.

After this, she gets up, moves her body, and starts the day. Her morning is about self-care and self-reflection. This massive difference in pace and flexibility from Ulrika’s previous way of life has totally shifted and greatly improved her well-being.

Having time to herself and honoring her needs gives her a whole new measure of success. The path of connecting with your inner wisdom is a game changer.

I could relate to part of this because I’d been my own boss for most of my career. I worked freelance, so I could set my schedule and say no to jobs that didn’t fit.

Then, as a coach, I had freedom over my schedule too. But in the end, I still defined my success with traditional metrics – number of clients, income, social media followers, etc. I guess I’m still working on this new idea, LOL.

The next step is to stop tracking and detach from these metrics which creates an opening to trust that you will be given all that you need. This is heart-centered living according to Ulrika Sullivan.

By working with the energy, signs, and synchronicities, you allow your own inner wisdom to guide you. The awareness of energy helps you align with the Universal flow to attract what you need and release the fear of not having enough. Wow, that’s huge!

When you allow yourself to work through the heart, tap into that, and let it lead, there is no more wondering. This helps you trust and be even more of your true self.

Synchronicities happen when you are present in your life right now. In the past, Ulrika lived only in the future, planning and stressing. This happens when you want to control or expect something in a certain way which is normal for most people.

Signs and synchronicities work in the complete opposite way. What comes to you is right for you at that time because you are open to it and aligned with the energy. That’s why there is less stress and more ease.

The key to it all is self-love. When self-love is low, you may attract things that you don’t want. You must turn this around, so that you are your highest priority. That is the core of self-love – listening to and taking care of yourself so you have access to your inner knowing.

This is also the fundamental of heart-centered living. When Ulrika let go of her logical mind, the right situations just started to show up for her. Now this happens all the time. In the past she was way too busy and so was her mind.

Slowing down and tuning in, helps you see the signs that are meant for you.

Ulrika’s company was restructured which eliminated her job and she was laid off. Her identity had been totally wrapped up in her career, which caused her to hit rock bottom. However, this also gave her the opportunity to reconnect with herself and start the awakening process.

Ulrika says signs are always present but it’s too easy to be all in your head and miss them. You have to commit to yourself to take time to notice the signs, build inner wisdom, and stop the go-go-go.

For me, when it comes to big decisions, I write the pro and con list and ask my close friends what they think. Tuning into the energy of each option is also a step. If I still can’t decide, I leave it up to the Universe to show me a sign.

Some people are great at noticing signs like hearing a song on the radio, seeing a shape in the clouds or noticing an animal that let’s them know they are on the right track.

But I prefer more control, which is why I request something specific, and set a time limit. This works for me every time! I’ve made three of my biggest life decisions this way and it’s been wonderful.

Learn more about asking the Universe for a sign in this episode.

Connecting to your inner wisdom and following the advice you get requires trust. Then you have to be willing to follow through based on the signs you see. Allow yourself to be receptive. Receiving is the epitome of working with Divine feminine energy, which is on the rise today.

Being receptive feels much easier and that’s what people want now, an easier life. Going within and trusting yourself are two proven ways to get there.

To make space for yourself and your own life is different for each person. You need that “inner me” time and to make yourself a priority. Also to make time for a daily spiritual practice to go within so it’s as natural as brushing your teeth.

Be sure to get Ulrika’s Free Gift – a meditation on how to listen to yourself  Listen to Yourself

Ulrika supports mindful working women to find calm and return to balance in all areas of their lives. She’s a mom, wife, National Bestselling Author, intuitive spiritual life coach, podcaster, energy healer, yoga teacher, and a fiercely calm professional.

Ulrika is passionate about helping you see your life in a new light and get you to where you want to be professionally, personally, mentally, physically and spiritually.

https://ulrikasullivan.com

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https://www.linkedin.com/company/ulrika-sullivan-coaching/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvNGRU3ms6Q6FBI6BdyIHUA

Get her book Wisdom Beyond What You Know

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On this episode of the Breathe Love & Magic, I’m speaking Dating Coach Debbie Rivers about sex on the first date and more dating questions.

When you are dating and looking for love, deciding when to get intimate with a new man can be difficult. Does it matter when you have sex, and which set of rules should you follow?

Dating after 40 is so different because your body has changed, and your mindset may have shifted. Are there any clear answers about how to handle intimacy?

What I recommend is to decide what you want first. If you want to date around, have fun, and know you won’t be heartbroken if a guy never calls again after sleeping with him, you’re free to do as you please.

Of course, take steps to be safe, that’s obvious. But you must be in a strong place emotionally to hold up in the face of rejection. Thankfully, the stigma of first date sex has diminished significantly.

However, if you are going to feel attached right away after sex on the first date and will feel completely destroyed if the guy disappears, then wait longer.

For myself, I waited at least 5-6 dates because I figured if the guy was consistent enough for that many dates, then he was a good risk. Certainly, no guarantee but it helped.

Whatever you do, don’t tell a man what your magic number is because he might see this as a challenge. Men have been known to hang in there just to get you into bed to meet the challenge and then walk away.

There is a lot of pressure and the “3 Date Rule” does still pop up. Some men actually think that three dates entitles them to sleeping with you.

This is nonsense and you don’t need to think twice about it. There is no such rule except in his own mind. Even if you say society sets this expectation, you don’t need to follow it.

Never have sex on the first date or any time because you feel pressured by someone’s expectations. Or that you owe a person anything just because he bought you dinner. No way! You get to decide when you feel safe and comfortable and that’s the end of it.

You want a man to desire you, of course, but you want him to want YOU, not just having sex with any woman.

Spotting instant sexual chemistry is easy. But knowing if you have emotional chemistry takes a heck of a lot longer.

So, if you decide to go for it and sleep with a man right away, that clouds your ability to stay objective about the emotional connection. Oxytocin gets released, and most women start feeling attached and loving.

How do you get around this? Debbie has had clients say it’s embarrassing to have “the conversation” and talk about what you are looking for. Yet, if you can get naked with someone, why can’t you have this conversation first? Think about it.

Here’s how to bring it up. The best time is on the very first meeting. Just ask, “What are you looking for? Something casual or serious?” This timing offers the least amount of pressure and has been shown to be when a man will be the most honest.

If his response is delayed, he laughs, looks away, or says, “casual,” then he’s the wrong guy. Keep this as a strict rule with yourself and you won’t waste time on men who don’t want what you want.

If you have already been on a few dates, and he lets you know he’d like to go to bed,  say something like, “That sounds nice, but my preference is to be in an exclusive relationship where we aren’t sleeping with anyone else. I’m not ready for that yet.” This gives you more time if you are facing down the “3 Date Rule.”

This is why it’s essential to be very clear about what you want, what your boundaries are, and what works for you. The decision is very individual, but once you have your own set of rules, your choices become much easier. You simply follow your own rules! This took a lot of pressure off me when dating.

Debbie says she knows a lot of women have sex for the wrong reason. They worry if they don’t fool around, he won’t like them or stick around.  Some women think if they don’t sleep with a guy, another woman will.

So what? That’s no reason to have sex, and it doesn’t mean it’s right for you. If that guy is only interested in you is one thing, let him find satisfaction with someone else!

What if he’s just lonely or needy?

In addition, Debbie and I both have seen women who place meaning on sex. When a man sleeps with you or spends the night, some women believe that indicates he really likes you. Sadly, this is no benchmark for genuine interest.

There’s also this idea that you want to know early on if the two of you are sexually compatible. Okay, fair enough. But waiting a bit longer will still be plenty early. You don’t need to wait three months, just a few more dates will do it.

Another common misconception women have is that having great sex will ensure a man chooses you over other women. That’s not a guarantee either. It takes more than a good roll in the hay to establish a solid long-term relationship.

Today, sex doesn’t mean anything. It doesn’t suggest there is a commitment or genuine interest beyond the physical. Attraction and genuine interest are NOT the same.

Unfortunately, sizzling hot physical chemistry is not an indication of long-term potential or compatibility beyond the bedroom. That intense attraction is nature’s way of ensuring survival of the species. It doesn’t mean anything more than that.

If you want a relationship, your odds of finding a good one or lasting love improve when you don’t have sex on the first date.

Debbie brought out a really good point. When she’s worked with men, they complain that women don’t listen. The men say they tell women they don’t want a relationship, yet the women choose to get involved anyway, then get mad when it doesn’t become serious.

Women tend to think a guy will change his mind about his dating agenda and go for the relationship when he sees how great it can be.

How to tell if he just wants sex.

Nothing could be further from the truth. When a man says he’s doesn’t want anything serious, HE MEANS IT and won’t change his mind.

Another issue with early intimacy is that it leads women to feel prematurely invested in building the relationship. Even if they discover the guy isn’t quite what they hoped for, or they aren’t the best match, they feel invested and decide to stick with him.

This mentality is exactly why women end up in unhappy relationships because they didn’t take their time to vet a man thoroughly before committing to being exclusive.

On the other hand, when you slow things down and date multiple men at the same time, it stops you from obsessing about any particular guy. This can also prevent the needy behavior that sabotages your chances, turns a man off, and pushes him away.

When you don’t rush into a relationship, you can learn more about a man to discover more areas of compatibility or places where you don’t jive.

The longer you hold off for sex or exclusivity, the more you can remain objective about his true potential as your long-term romantic partner. This is how you can see past a guy’s “best behavior” that dissipates with time.

Debbie and I went on to talk about:

Listen to this episode and you’ll learn so much about dating, intimacy, and sex on a first date.

Always learning the latest advances in how the brain works, especially when it comes to love, Debbie shares cutting edge tools with her clients. Her unique approach applies behavioral science, neuroscience, and attraction strategies to give you the everything you need. She’s a Certified Practitioner in Coaching in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, a Master Neuro-Linguistic Programming Coach, a Certified Master mBIT Coach (Europe) and a Certified Matchmaker with the Matchmakers Institute in New York. Visit her at  https://DebbieRivers.com.au

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If you’re looking for web design for spiritual business, this episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast provides some amazing insights! Kelly McElroy is the dreamer behind the positive, pastel world of Star Castle Studio.

We had a surprising conversation about a highly unique and very spiritual way to work with a graphic designer. Traditionally, her job is to solve problems or find solutions using art to make sure you are communicating your offerings clearly to your target audience.

She paved her own path because typical marketing and branding seemed so black and white and frankly icky to her.

That’s why she created Star Castle Studio as a safe space for people who are trying to build a brand that feels aligned with their principles. It’s easy to get mired down and trapped by all the “shoulds” business owners encounter during the process.

What most advice online offers dragged her spirit down and left her feeling low. So, she was her own first client with this process. Now her goal is to help you make an unforgettable impression online in the same way.

What called me to interview Kelly on the podcast was this idea of connecting with your brand as an energy or entity separate from yourself. This is how you discover what is in the best interest of your brand.

First, you have to imagine that your business has it’s very own energy pattern. Then you tune into that energy intuitively to see what it has to say! So much more powerful than what experts say you should do.

What an amazing concept, that your business can help you design your brand or website which will have the most appeal to your audience. Give it a name and pay attention to the personality.

Kelly’s process of web design for spiritual business is super innovative and very effective.

There are several ways to connect with the energy of your business, even if it’s still forming. Trust that the energy already has come together and reach out using any of these options below.

Remember, you’re not asking your inner self or higher self. You are asking YOUR BUSINESS.

Sit down, get quiet and ask to connect with the energy of your business. Spend about 15-minutes with this focus. It might take you several attempts, but don’t give up. Once you do connect, ask if your business entity has a different name or give it one so you can address it directly.

Ask your business what it needs or wants. This can be about graphic design, logos, web design or design of any other marketing materials. You can also ask about the content and if there is a style that would work best to appeal to the right clientele.

Yup, you can simply pick a card from a tarot or oracle deck! Ask what you can do to best support your business today or what do you need from me today? You can also ask a more specific question.

If you have a concern about your business or a decision to make, break out the pendulum. That’s how you can get a yes, no or maybe answer.

In case you get a “No” as your answer, then you want to break the questions down and go deeper.

For example, if you ask, “Should I offer a new program called Intuition Rocks?” getting no response won’t give you enough information.

To get the most guidance, you’ll want to think about a list of questions and really break it all down to get the information you need. Start at the foundation of your idea and work up to the smaller details.

Tapping into your business energetically is a huge way to honor your business as a separate entity from you. There is a lot of power in doing this. When you treat your company with respect, you’ll also pay yourself that same respect.

Kelly has created a color palette for each astrology sign. Think about when your business is born, which could be when the idea came to you or the day your website went live. Then you know it’s astrology sign.

If it’s a new business that you are creating branding for, you can use the colors that go with it’s sign. Also the elements could be included.

Once you know the colors, then you can create a “Mood Board” which helps you formulate the feeling you want to bring out through color and visuals.

Kelly connects with the energy of each client’s business intuitively and also uses a crystal for it’s branding. Revolutionary!

Her best tip is to drop the baggage about how other successful businesses like yours look and what their brands are about. Forget all the “shoulds” and honor your business by listening to what it wants to be. That’s how to ensure everything resonates with your target audience.

Get inspired and connected to your business and brand and see how much easier it is to create your image and appeal to your ideal clients.

Kelly McElroy calls herself the dreamer behind the positive, pastel world of Star Castle Studio. She’s a designer and illustrator, mom, bunny lover, type enthusiast, and a coffee addict.

She isn’t afraid of breaking the rules of graphic design. Kelly specializes in creating beautiful custom brands that sing the praises of individuals and their dreams while helping them get noticed for their skills and talents.

She’s interested in your unique story, inspiration and ideas because everyone has a story to tell and a gift to share. Learn more at https://www.starcastlestudio.com 

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