We can't change our pasts, but we can change our present! Healing starts when we start to recognize that those that hurt us are no longer in control of us. We are the only ones that can control how we feel, how we react and what we allow to destroy us. Pain doesn't have to be our ending story just because it was our beginning story. Our ending is what we choose to do with that start of our story. We can hold on to it and let it run our lives or we can embrace it and use what we learned to help others find peace and healing!