Ladies stop saying you are the Father too!

There is no less than. Any person needs to see your 100% transparent self! You owe you to be yourself all the time. I believe that in relationships and work related things we are robots to what society wants, however we are here to be the kinda bad that’s good. And the only bad that’s good, is the kinda good that’s bad; that reality is revealed in giving your 100% all the time every time

Men have taken the time to listen and do better. Then are gaining support through thier actions. More and more men everywhere are stepping up to the plate a achieving the results they want and in visioned for thier lives and homes to be.

Our children are scared, our teachers are frightened and we the parents are helpless. We have to do more than pray. We have got to assume the responsibility for our children's protection. They deserve to learn in peace. Our voices united should speak one voice, with one demand; BRING OUR STUDENTS, TEACHERS AND FACULTY HOME SAFELY EVERYDAY!!!! ON EVERYTHING!

So often, we get caught in the habit of being the victim, that we forget to someone else, we are villains too! There is a time when one looks at themselves for the problems they face. It is fair and appropriate to take the blame, to accept accountability is the way to stop being the villainous victim.

Fellas, its time to stop looking like you’re healthy and get healthy! I think we have all discovered that the it’s the person that always says yes or agrees with you, is the person that you most often have the biggest problems with later. There is something magical about healthy discourse. Yet there is nothing healthy about extreme discontent! It’s high time we (both genders, ethnic groups, religious communities, socialist. Etc.) listen to the other side. The major difference between immature and mature, is the ability to handle the consequences that come this the decisions and actions one is willing to take!

In the second monolog of the series, we continue to dissect the importance of men communicating, it's importance and why they ceased. Some of the reasons men stopped talking are they were mislead, abused, ignored and dismissed. If you were supposed to be the "prophet, president, priest and protector" for your family and no one was listening would you talk until you go mute? For men the answer was yes. To understand the impact of men's voices we have to understand the root causes! This episode gives us some insight into being heard vs being listened to. In the end we understand we must listen to learn, and learn to listen!

There are so many ways it happens. There are so many people it happens to. However, we rarely hear men tell the stories. Yet 1 in 6 men have faced. Sexual abuse happens more often to men then they talk about it. Here’s a more in-depth look at the trauma that happened to me! If you know someone who’s fighting through the trauma of Sexual Abuse please share this and share this number with them The National Sexual Abuse Hotline 1-800-656-4673. This kind of pain often leads to hopelessness which may cause suicidal language, actions or thoughts. There people that are here for you! The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 1-800-273-8255 You are not alone, are survivors and we here to help you survive, heal and recover!

For decades the males have turned the volume down, unhooked the mics and put the speakers away! Now, in these moments we hear the window shaking, bass thumping and disheartening sound of wisdom, freedom and controversial noises; what ever could it be? It's the voices of men returning to the platform and testing the world with thier clever and creative ideas for how to respond and recognize what communication is! The men are back and many women aren't ready to "put on thier listening ears". Sorry, not Sorry ladies, pull up a chair and get comfortable, it's gonna sting just a bit; yet if you are wise you know you know this is necessary. Root check!, these fruit aren't looking good!

There is an object in our house that helps us see what we look like before we leave the house. It’s the mirror. So where is the mirror for what’s going on inside of you? Introspection is the hardest tool to use. This technique takes honesty, bravery and transparency. When it’s time to grow, one can’t give into comfort. We have to push past the surface and dig down to the monster that keeps us stagnant. By journaling, counseling and true discovery, we are able to over come the monster deep within out being. When we confront this part of ourselves and deal with it accordingly we experience the growth necessary to reach our full potential. Let’s listen to some tips and tricks that will help us strengthen our ability to grow through the pain we once couldn’t bare!