Building Wise Families

#010 - Do you crave routine? Hate routines? Peggy Osborne joins us to talk about why routines matter, routines you probably already have (whether you know it or not), and how to create intentional routines that build skills in our children.   

Links

Visit the You Are My Treasure Shop to purchase the New Beginnings book and don't forget to send Peggy an email to let her know we sent you!

What to Do Now?

Visit the Treasured Facebook group to connect with Peggy!

#009 - Do you often wonder, "Why does it seem like my child melts down more easily than others? What I'm doing isn't helping, but I don't know what else to do!" Listen in as Lynne Jackson and Lydia Rex join us to talk about their new "Sensitive and Intense Kids" online course and how it can help our family (and yours) move from the Stress Cycle to the Healing Cycle. 

Links

Sensitive and Intense Kids Online Course
Connected Families Framework

What to Do Now?

Register for the Sensitive and Intense Kids online course HERE and use the coupon code 20SKids for 20% off!

#008 - You’re embarrassed because of the kids’ behavior in church, or they are being rambunctious and unmannerly at the supper table with friends over. You want to declare, “This is not the way we’ve raised them!” or rush in and make sure those kids know who is in charge (and make sure onlookers know too). Do these controlling behaviors sound familiar? What’s really going on under the surface of these behaviors in us as parents? Listen in as Alan and Corrie share a quick overview of what’s going on in us when we face insecurity and controlling behaviors as parents. 

Verses mentioned:

Colossians 3:3
Psalm 103:8

Links:

Taylor Irby Coaching
Taylor's Instagram
Taylor's Facebook
Connected Families Framework 

What to Do Now?

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#007 - “Just do it like I told you!” Sound familiar? How do we help our strong-willed kids learn responsibility AND get out of the constant power struggles? We are excited to release today’s episode, part 2 of our interview with Kirk Martin, where we ask him our questions about strong-willed kids. Make sure you check out last week’s episode for part 1!

Links

Send Kirk an Email at [email protected]
Calm Parenting Podcast
CelebrateCalm.com

What to Do Now?

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#006 - Have you ever said to yourself, “Why does this child have to be so difficult?!” In today’s episode, we are sharing part 1 of an interview about strong-willed kids with Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the Calm Parenting Podcast. He shares his no-nonsense approach to discipline and practical tips on how to control yourself while also giving your strong-willed child ownership of their choices.

Links

Calm Parenting Podcast
CelebrateCalm.com

What to Do Now?

Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you don't miss Part 2 of our interview with Kirk!

#005 - Heather MacFadyen, Author of Don't Mom Alone  joins Alan & Corrie to talk about the importance of community for parents and how to overcome isolating ideas with connecting truths.

Episode Notes

[3:53] - How our own beliefs about parenting influence our desire for community
[5:41] - Common barriers to community
[12:09] - Does the Bible talk about community?
[20:06] - Modeling community for our kids
[21:13] - Community for introverts
[27:01] - Willing to be uncomfortable for the sake of community
[29:50] - The futility of bubble-wrapping our kids
[31:55] - How do we find families we like to be around?
[35:32] - The value of mentors for our children

Links

• Click here to order Don't Mom Alone!

What to Do Now?

Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review to let others know where to find us!

#004 - Peggy Osborne of You Are My Treasure joins Alan & Corrie to talk about how to help our kids identify and know what to do with their emotions (when we usually just tell them what not to do..."STOP SLAMMING THE DOOR!")

Episode Notes

[1:39] - Why are we talking about emotions?
[5:23] - What does the Bible say about our emotions?
[8:40] - The Big 5 emotions
[12:45] - Are we missing a part of Deuteronomy 6:31?
[14:10] - If you wouldn't...I wouldn't have to yell!
[15:13] - Teach what TO do instead of what NOT to do
[16:36] - Jasmine's story
[23:17] - Safety in the moment
[26:26] - Coaching outside the moment
[28:17] - What to do when you are feeling...
[32:03] - HOW to teach these skills?
[46:32] - Help for emotionally illiterate parents

Links

• Click here to visit the You Are My Treasure website
• Visit the You Are My Treasure Shop to purchase your ROCK cards and don't forget to send Peggy an email to let her know we sent you!

What to Do Now?

Visit the Treasured Facebook group to connect with Peggy!

#003 - Lydia Rex of Connected Families joins Alan & Corrie to share about how parents can trust in God's grace when they struggle and communicate that same grace to their struggling children.

Episode Notes

[1:42] - Lydia's Story
[17:50] - An example of strong connection even in misbehavior
[29:24] - God is with us in difficult parenting situations
[37:38] - Are challenges a gift from God?
[40:30] - How Occupational Therapy can help
[41:44] - Over-active threat detector
[42:43] - Signs of sensory issues
[49:53] - When to go see an Occupational Therapist
[52:35] - What to expect when coaching with Lydia

Links

• Click here for the Connected Families Sensory Activity List
• Interested in Parent Coaching with Lydia? Visit the Connected Families Coaching Page to sign up!

What to Do Now?

Sign up for the Discipline that Connects Online Course now! Click "Register Today" and use the coupon code BWF20 at checkout to receive 20% off.

#002 - Katie Wetsell of Parent With Hope joins Alan & Corrie to help us understand why our children experience anxiety and how to help them without becoming anxious parents. 

Episode Notes

[1:16] - Katie's story of learning about anxiety and OCD in two different sons
[9:07] - Professional help is great, but what do PARENTS do about their child's anxiety?
[11:06] - How does anxiety show up in your child (control, negativity, aggression, etc.)?
[15:30] - 3 signs your child might have anxiety beyond normal levels and may need professional help
[18:35] - How is OCD different than anxiety?
[24:22] - How can parents navigate anxiety in their children with wisdom?
[25:36] - Two typical parenting responses to anxiety
[28:42] - Empathizing AND Coaching your child through anxiety
[29:45] - Validating feelings without validating a false reality
[31:30] - Externalizing your child's anxiety
[35:07] - The importance of moving beyond empathy to coach your child
[37:57] - Role Play: Separation Anxiety

Links

• Click here to see Katie's Resources page.

What to Do Now?

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#001 - Chad Hayenga of Connected Families joins Alan & Corrie to walk through what it means to discipline our children using a four-step framework: Foundation, Connection, Coaching, & Correction.

Episode Notes

[1:15] - What is discipline?
[3:53] - Chad's Story
[9:50] - Our typical response in a behavior challenge
[24:13] - What is the Connected Families Framework?
[29:25] - Role-play (using the Framework)
[47:29] - The Discipline That Connects Online Course

Links

• Click here to see an overview of the Connected Families Framework
• Interested in Parent Coaching? Visit our Coaching Page to get started!

What to Do Now?

Sign up for the Discipline that Connects Online Course now! Click "Register Today" and use the coupon code BWF20 at checkout to receive 20% off.