We always need to be on the lookout for that regretful mentality. I hear the “could've should've would've” or hear the “bumbai you going to learn", right?

When you think about regret as a feeling or a moment of time it is more of a sadness in looking back. It is something that we should have done and are now regretting the consequences of our actions or failure to act. 

We are not happy about the results that we get from that decision. This is a perfect example of “bumbye we learn.”

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On Today’s podcast, I talk about hidden or opportunity cost to some of our decisions.

Join me, your humble host, Harlan Mattos, as we get together and share stories of our success, our failures, and just overall lessons in life so that Bumbye We Learn 

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Having my name mispronounced often, I reflect a bit in what is in a name and if it really all maters in this episode of Bumbye We Learn. 

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We all have good and bad experiences when we interact with people. Most of them are good and they become part of our experiences that helps us grow. Both good and bad, we can learn from those experiences  and learn from those around us.  Even those people that we have not seen in a long time and know we're not always going to be 100% in agreement with - understand that these experiences are there - so that Bumby We Learn.

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On today's podcast: Part 2 of my interview with my oldest brother, Derwin, as he continues to share his lessons learned from his life as he moved from the lovely islands to start his career, and family in California. So, sit back and enjoy this week's edition of Bumbye We Learn with special guest Derwin Mattos.

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On today's podcast: Part 1 of my interview with my oldest brother, Derwin, as he shares his lessons learned from his life as he moved from the lovely islands to start his career, and family in California. So, sit back and enjoy this week's edition of Bumbye We Learn with special guest Derwin Mattos.

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We are currently in hurricane season here in the pacific. While this year they are predicting a low number of storms, the weather team almost always end their predictions with the statement, ‘but it only takes one.”

So, my question for today is what are we doing to prepare, and not only for the emergencies that may come but for the opportunities in our lives as well.  Hopefully it’s not too late or else it might be, Bumbye We Learn.

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Today I'm actually asking the question of when is Bumbye? A lot of times we hear, I'll do it later, I’ll wait until tomorrow, or I’ll catch up with you some other time, but sometimes, this Bumbye never comes. 

Today I like to talk to you about some of the dangers of waiting till Bumbye. Because I know we don't want to wait too long for Bumbye We Learn.

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Why don’t we try, sometimes or for my childhood buddies, why no try.

One of the lessons we need to learn is to try.  Failure or loss is part of a process in learning.  

What we can do and what we shouldn't be doing is important information in helping us move forward (I mua). If we try to decide with no information, we are guessing. 

Depending on our luck, we may make a good decision or a bad one. But when we don't have any information to go on, we tend to make mistakes or bad decisions. But there is information on what we can do to move forward. 

Today on Bumbye we learn I talk about lessons learned from overcoming that fear of making mistakes. 

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