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But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
By Carmen BartonComedy
But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton episodes
- Episode 1: Rest in Peace...NIck Carthan
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Welcome to the very first episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow. I’m your host, Carmen Barton — comedian, TV personality, and now your podcast guide through a mix of humor, real-life stories, and heartfelt reflections.
In this debut episode, I honor my late husband, Anthony Nicholas “Nick” Carthan, on the 4-year anniversary of his passing. Recorded in the very space he used for his own creative work, I share stories, laughs, and a glimpse into what’s ahead for this show. From my journey as a widow to hilarious moments from our life together, you’ll hear how grief and comedy can coexist — and why we’re just getting started.
🗒️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
- The Story Behind the Mic — My background in stand-up comedy, TV appearances, and why this podcast exists.
- Remembering Nick Carthan — The man behind the name, his creative spirit, and the memories that keep me going.
- A Sneak Peek at the Truth — Why I’m saving the full story of his passing for a special multi-part series later in the season.
- Report Card Session - 4Cs & 2Fs: Cooking — From St. Louis-style fried rice in a pineapple bowl to tacos (and a little Chipotle finesse).
- Comical Confession — The time I accidentally (on purpose) set off two fire alarms at work… and blamed it on Barbara.
- How You Can Join the DYD Crew — Submit your own comical confession or grief story for a chance to win prizes from my closet, DYD merch, and more.
📨 Participate & Win:
- Send your Comical Confession or grief story to: [email protected]
- Follow me on Instagram: @CarmenBarton
- Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy https://www.youtube.com/@CarmenBartonComedy
📌 Mentioned in This Episode:
- BET’s “Ms. Pat Settles It” – Watch on BET
- Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up – Bounce TV
- Byron Allen’s Comics Unleashed
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality whose quick wit and relatable storytelling have taken her from the stages of Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up to her current role as a resident juror on BET’s hit courtroom comedy Ms. Pat Settles It. A widow and mother of three, Carmen turns life’s toughest moments into laugh-out-loud stories — including in her Amazon best-selling book And Then She Bounced Back.
She’s performed for audiences worldwide — from U.S. comedy clubs to military bases in Kuwait, Iraq, and Afghanistan — and her work can be seen on Tubi, Peacock, Amazon, and AppleTV. With But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow, Carmen brings her humor, honesty, and heart to the mic, inviting listeners to laugh, reflect, and ride along on her one-of-a-kind journey.
Closing Note:
You’ve officially been Carmonized — welcome to the DYD Crew! Stick around for next week’s episode where we dive into my dating life post-loss (spoiler: it’s a wild ride).Closing Note: You’ve officially been Carmonized! Tune in next week for more laughter, lessons, and real-life conversations on love, loss, and living out loud. Follow; Like and Subscribe @CarmenComedy in IG
- Follow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedy
- Subscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy
- Connect via Linktree: @carmenbarton
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic.
🎬 Production Credits:
- Executive Producer: Carmen Barton
- Senior Producer: Coach Dagne Barton
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About But Did YOU Die Tho? Confessions of a Widow by Carmen Barton
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But Did You Die Tho... Confessions of a Widow is the unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply human podcast from comedian Carmen Barton, marking the four-year anniversary of the sudden loss…
of her husband, podcaster Anthony Carthan. Broadcasting from the very LA home where Anthony built his podcast dreams, Carmen steps up to the mic to share her own journey—this time, blending gut-busting comedy with raw confessions, unexpected hope, and unapologetic truth.
Through laughter, tears, and a little bit of side-eye, Carmen invites listeners into her world as she navigates widowhood, healing, and the wild road back to truly living. Whether she’s dropping punchlines or peeling back the layers of grief, she’s doing it with heart, humor, and a dash of shenanigans.
This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a resurrection. And trust, you’ll laugh, cry, and ask yourself: But did you die tho?
Full Bio
🎤 About Carmen Barton
Carmen Barton sizzles as one of the most captivating female comics to grace the stage! With a natural flair for entertainment, she effortlessly juggles the roles of a new widow and mother to three adult children. Even amid her personal struggles, Carmen's relatability, adaptability, and refreshing take on life never fail to win over audiences.
In the midst of her grief, Carmen bravely shared snippets of her journey in an anthology, propelling her book, And Then She Bounced Back, to the top of Amazon's best sellers list!
Armed with an uncanny ability to find humor in life's trials, Carmen fearlessly transforms her most painful and awkward moments into uproarious comedy.
Hailing from Ferguson, a quaint suburb near St. Louis, Missouri, Carmen's knack for entertaining was evident from a young age as she regaled friends, family, and colleagues with her wit and charm.
Now ascending in Hollywood, Carmen's trajectory is set as she embarks on a global mission: to spread laughter far and wide.
In addition to gracing stages at clubs, colleges, and military bases nationwide, Carmen has brought her comedic talents to Kuwait, Iraq, and Afghanistan, lifting the spirits of troops stationed abroad.
Carmen's television debut on Starz Networks' Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up marked just the beginning of her small screen success. From Nickelodeon's popular comedy series NickMom Night Out to Bounce TV's Off The Chain and Starz's Staan Dup!, Carmen's comedic prowess knows no bounds. Her stand-up routines, featured on Comedy In Color season 3, are now available for streaming on Tubi, Peacock, Amazon, and AppleTV. Recently, Carmen dazzled audiences as the star and Associate Producer of her debut film, This is Life, also streaming on Tubi and Amazon.
Catch Carmen's uproarious antics as a resident juror on BET Networks' Ms. Pat Settles It, a side-splitting, unscripted courtroom show where her courtroom theatrics keep the laughter flowing.
Blessed with both beauty and brains, Carmen's act is a breath of fresh air, seamlessly blending timely humor with her signature flair. With cutting-edge performances and captivating storytelling, Carmen Barton leaves audiences clamoring for more.