We’re back and in our second episode, we’re following the travels of Emily “Mickey” Hahn in 1930s China. Mickey Hahn was a writer, an adventurer, and a professional rule breaker whose wanderlust took her from the American Midwest to Europe and Africa and finally to China, all before she turned 30.
By the time she got to China, she had already established herself as an up-and-coming literary voice and one of the New Yorker’s earliest star writers. In her career, she published 54 books and over 200 articles, but her most famous book is China to Me, a memoir of the years that we’re going to talk about in this episode.
She partied with poets (and her pet gibbon) at Shanghai soirees. Wrote biographies while dodging bombs in wartime Chongqing, and did her best to keep herself and her family alive in Japanese-occupied Hong Kong. Along the way, she became famous (some might add “notorious”) for her affairs, including with Chinese writer Sinmay Zau (Shao Xunmei 邵洵美) and the head of British intelligence in Hong Kong, Charles Boxer.
Mickey lived through some of China’s most tumultuous moments. While many foreigners experienced these events, Mickey gave her readers an unvarnished look at what was happening, with a style all her own.
We’ll explore Mickey’s life, travels, and adventures, and we’ll also discuss how to follow in her footsteps today through the modern cities of Chongqing, Hong Kong, and especially Shanghai.
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Links:
Books referenced in the episode
* China to Me by Emily Hahn
* Nobody Said Not To Go by Ken Cuthbertson (biography of Emily Hahn)
* I Wonder as I Wander: An Autobiographical Journey by Langston Hughes
* The Soong Sisters by Emily Hahn
Tours & Resources:
* Historic Shanghai - walking tours (Patrick Cranley and Tina Kanagarathnam)
Further Reading:
* Her Lotus Year: China, the Roaring Twenties, and the Making of Wallis Simpson by Paul French
* Hong Kong Holiday by Emily Hahn
* No Hurry to Get Home: A Memoir by Emily Hahn
* Mr Pan by Emily Hahn
If you know somebody who took a short trip to China and came back eight years later with a book deal, a baby, and an on-again-off-again opium habit, send them a link to this episode. We think they’ll enjoy it.
Transcript
By Their Own Compass: Emily “Mickey” Hahn in 1930s China
Hosts: Sarah Keenlyside and Jeremiah Jenne
Introduction
Sarah (00:07) Welcome to By Their Own Compass. Each week we explore history’s most fascinating travelers and their journeys. I’m Sarah Keenlyside, journalist and lifelong traveler.
Jeremiah (00:17) And I’m historian and writer Jeremiah Jenne. Together we dive into the remarkable lives of those who crossed borders, bridged cultures, and made the connections that built our world. It’s about the journey and the destination. After all, one person’s frontier is another person’s front door.
Sarah (00:42) In today’s episode, we’re exploring the travels of Emily Hahn—she was better known as Mickey Hahn—in 1930s China. She’s a writer, an adventurer, and a professional rule breaker whose wanderlust took her from the American Midwest to Europe, Africa, and finally China, all before she turned 30.
Jeremiah (01:01) That’s right, and you could call Mickey Hahn something of a patron saint of this podcast, even though she’d probably hate the idea of being made a candidate for sainthood. By the time she even got to China, she’d already established herself as a literary voice, as one of the New Yorker’s earliest star writers. She took an unconventional approach, both to her life and to her writing. Her most famous book is probably China to Me, a memoir of the years that we’re going to talk about in this episode.
Sarah (01:30) Yeah, after reading China to Me, she’s just ballsy and moreover she’s funny and who doesn’t want to engage with a writer like that, right? Also at the end of the episode, we’ll dive into the ways that you can follow in Mickey’s footsteps and we’ll talk a bit about what the destinations she visited are like today. But before we get to where she went—and in this episode we’re going to cover her adventures in three Chinese cities in particular: Shanghai, Chongqing and Hong Kong—let’s put her in a bit of context and talk a little about who she was, where she came from and why she’s so fascinating.
Early Life and Background
Jeremiah (02:07) Born in St. Louis in 1905, Emily “Mickey” Hahn grows up in a large, bustling, competitive family. Her father, Isaac Newton Hahn, is a dry goods salesman with a knack for storytelling. He’s a born raconteur. Her mother, Hannah, a strong-willed former suffragette, gives Emily her nickname Mickey after a popular comic character of the day. And no, not the mouse. It’s a name she will use throughout her life.
Later, at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, when she tries to enroll in a geology class, she’s told it’s only open to mining engineering majors, a program no woman has ever entered at that university. In 1926, Mickey becomes the first woman to graduate with a mining engineering degree from the University of Wisconsin, Madison.
After graduation, her career as a mining engineer proves disappointing. Hired as a secretary with no chance of advancement unless she becomes her boss’s girlfriend, she quits and heads west to New Mexico. There, she works as a tour guide, spending her nights partying in bars and her days writing amusing letters home to her family, including a brother-in-law who sends some of them to his friends in publishing.
By the late 1920s, she’s in Manhattan, drinking with Dorothy Parker and writing for the New Yorker, emerging as a rising star among the bright young things. But Mickey’s wanderlust won’t let her settle. She sets off to explore Europe and then two years in Africa, traveling hundreds of miles on foot to the Congo and living in a remote camp where she adopts a baboon. Granted, not the best house pet, but it marks the start of her lifelong love of primates.
Back in New York, a cocktail-fueled affair with a married screenwriter flames out. Mickey decides it’s time for another adventure. Her sister Helen, who’s recently divorced, proposes a trip with a quick detour to Shanghai. But this brief stop will turn into an eight-year sojourn that will come to define her literary career.
Jeremiah (04:16) So I think before we get to China, it’s worth talking about where she comes from because she doesn’t exactly spring fully formed from the Missouri sod, but it does seem like there were the ingredients from the start. She’s headstrong, she’s whip smart. She had an absolute unwillingness to take even the littlest bit of crap from anyone. She had this very highly sensitive b******t detector and it became quite apparent to anyone that met her that this was somebody who was destined for more than hanging out in St. Louis or being a tour guide on the Grand Canyon.
Sarah (04:53) Yeah, I think the thing that most strikes me about her story is that she’s part of this really big family. She’s got all these sisters and you know, when you grow up sandwiched between sisters, you either develop a personality or you’re going to disappear, right?
Jeremiah (05:08) There’s this great biography of Mickey entitled, Nobody Told Me Not To Go. And it’s written by Ken Cuthbertson. By the way, “Nobody Told Me Not To Go”—great line. And Cuthbertson writes how the gender politics in the Hahn household must have been fascinating and at the same time, somewhat terrifying. Cuthbertson kind of argues she had already developed some sharp elbows. I mean, elbows that could cut glass. And I think that’s what I take away from his biography—that Mickey ends up carrying this chip on her shoulder. She was charming, but once you drop her in, say, genteel society, like a cocktail party in Shanghai or the club in Hong Kong, it didn’t always go over as well with the people that she interacted with. Whenever there is an obstacle, whenever a wall appears in front of Mickey, she goes right at it and leaves a Mickey-sized hole right in that wall. She may not have always made the best decisions, but when she’s confronted with something, she makes a choice and she goes for it with everything she’s got.
Sarah (06:11) And somehow her writing talent does get recognized, doesn’t it? First in the letters home, her brother-in-law, who’s a minor literary figure in Chicago at the time, he can tell that Mickey’s more than just a smart letter writer. There’s definitely some serious writing chops there.
Jeremiah (06:27) It’s a great story because some of these smaller publications, he sends them Mickey’s letters and over time the letters get circulated in the publishing community and she ends up writing for the New Yorker, which in this era was really in its infancy. This was the beginning of that magazine. The editors there were smart enough to snap her up. I think the problem for Mickey was that even when she’s writing for the magazine, even doing what really should have been a dream job, there seems to be this innate restlessness. She’s writing about pickup lines. She’s writing about cafe society and martinis and literary feuds. And she gets bored. And it seems over and over again in her life, when she gets bored, she gets the happy feet and she starts wandering. So she picks up, she hits Europe. She says, well, Africa is a place I’ve always wanted to go. Let me just go there, even though I don’t know a thing about where I’m going. And the same thing happens in 1935.
Things are not working out with the screenwriter guy. She’s been on and off dating him. It’s turning into a disaster. Her sister’s just got divorced herself. They’re commiserating. And Mickey thinks, all right, I’m going to head back to Africa. And my sister Helen wants to go on a trip. She’ll come with me. Let’s go. It just so happens, and this wasn’t part of a plan, Mickey gets stuck in Shanghai of her own volition.
Arrival in Shanghai
Jeremiah (continued) Helen and Mickey travel to Shanghai, and it isn’t long before Mickey realizes that Africa will always be there, but Shanghai is the place to be right now. Mickey lives in Shanghai from 1935 until 1940 during an exciting and increasingly dangerous time in the city. It’s the final act of Shanghai’s golden era, those fabled interwar years when it earned nicknames like Paris of the East and Pearl of the China Coast.
Since the 1911 revolution, China had been fractured under competing warlords. And it was only in 1927 when a government under the leader Chiang Kai-shek finally established tenuous control over the country. And so the Shanghai where Mickey and Helen arrived was a bit of an island and would have been, until quite recently, a failed state. And it was still a country under threat of fragmentation and invasion by the Japanese. The Japanese Navy patrolled Shanghai’s waterways, and their soldiers walked its streets increasingly with impunity.
Nevertheless, Shanghai is a place where people from all over the world converge. Now, most people know the movie Casablanca. Think of Humphrey Bogart and Rick’s Cafe, a refuge for the stateless, the lost and the desperate. But the real Casablanca of that era isn’t in North Africa. It’s in Shanghai.
Mickey lands in a city of nearly three million people, of whom approximately 60,000 were foreigners. Most lived in either the international settlement, where the British, to a lesser extent the Americans, were in charge, or in the French concession. These areas had been carved out by treaty signed after 19th century wars, and they were areas where foreign nationals managed their own affairs, operated their own courts, and remained essentially exempt from Chinese law.
The city also boasts fine restaurants, exquisite craft shops, backstreet opium dens, several hundred ballrooms, gambling parlors, and brothels with quaint names like Galaxy of the Beauties and Happiness Concentrated.
The American poet and author Langston Hughes, who traveled through Shanghai about the same time as Mickey, vividly captures the city’s contradictions in his memoir, I Wonder as I Wander, an autobiographical journey. Hughes wrote:
Mickey (reading Hughes) (12:36) “Incredible Shanghai. While the raw materials and the narcotics trade float over the Bund to the Western world, child slaves are sold to factories and students imprisoned for harboring dangerous thoughts against Chiang Kai-shek. On Nanjing Road, Bubbling Well Road, and the other brilliantly lighted streets in the evening, at the cafes and gambling houses, mahjong chips rattled like locust pods in a high wind. In luxurious bathhouses, singing crickets in cages and musical frogs croaked for the amusement of bathers, jazz bands played in fine cafes and clubs, and thousand-year-old operas performed by actors in noisy theaters, while barbed-wire barricades went up at the gates, and Japanese patrols ever increasingly stalked the city.”
Life in Shanghai: Victor Sassoon
Jeremiah (continued) By day, she’s working on her writing, filing dispatches for the New Yorker. She’s also receiving royalties from her books in American dollars. In Depression-era China, a foreigner earning in dollars can still live rather well. By night, she immerses herself in Shanghai’s vibrant and chaotic social scene, rubbing elbows with some of the city’s most influential figures. And she quickly catches the eye of one Sir Victor Sassoon, an immensely wealthy businessman, property mogul, and the unofficial king of Shanghai nightlife.
Victor owns the Cathay Hotel, where Shanghai’s elite gather to see and be seen. What’s the attraction? Well, for Mickey, Victor offers entree into Shanghai’s social circles, fascinating conversation, and he has a shiny blue Chevrolet coupe for weekend jaunts.
Among Victor’s many passions is photography, specifically nude photography. And Mickey, being Mickey, poses for him. But Mickey isn’t looking to be tied down, even by somebody as dashing as Victor Sassoon. And she makes an effort to explore the city beyond the foreign concessions and the international settlements. Soon she is broadening her social and her dating circles. For Mickey Hahn, someone who loves excitement, cigars, cocktails, unconventional people, and different cultures, Shanghai is a perfect fit.
She describes her affection for the city in her memoir, China To Me.
Mickey (reading from China To Me) (12:36) “Of all the places it is the town for me. Always changing, there are some things about it which never change, so that I will forever be able to know it when I come back. There will still be the Chinese, there will still be the old codgers among whom I will someday take my place, drinking a little too much and telling each other how Shanghai isn’t what it used to be. Let the aesthetes sigh for Peking in their dream world. It is a reward for the afterlife. Shanghai is for now, for the living me.”
Sarah (13:09) Yeah, it seems to me that Shanghai at that time was maybe more like someone coming from the countryside and landing in New York or London would be today. It was just really multicultural, really interesting, colourful and, you know, a real feast for the senses. And also, it was a bit of a free for all where none of the rules applied. And she’s also dating one of the most famous men in Shanghai. Not everybody loves Victor Sassoon. He’s not always the most popular person, but he’s well known and there she is posing nude for him. She’s riding around in this blue Chevrolet and she’s still managing to write her dispatches for the New Yorker.
Jeremiah (13:49) I totally get what you’re saying. Even though Mickey had lived in New York and she had lived in London and she spent time in Africa, you get the sense from her writing that Shanghai was just, if not overwhelming, it was just so much. And it was so many of the things that she really values. It was a place that finally she could stop for a moment because there was so much to see. It filled that void. It calmed her wanderlust, at least for a moment. And for you and I and anyone who’s been to China, you just can’t get away from it, the sheer weight of being one person in a city of millions. It can be a lot and there’s no eject button. There’s no pause button to say, okay, let’s stop this ride for a moment. You either embrace it or you get swept away by it. And to me, it really feels like Mickey embraces it.
She’s living this kind of exciting life—jazz, cocktails, new people. As you said, she’s dating one of the most famous men in the city. He owns the Cathay Hotel, which was basically the Studio 54 of interwar Shanghai, this man about town. And he finds her fascinating because there just aren’t a lot of single American women in Shanghai and certainly none with Mickey’s independent spirit and freewheeling attitude.
Sarah (15:02) Yeah, I think they seemed like they were on the same wavelength. They didn’t like to do anything that other people expected of them. Certainly rebellious and taking pleasure in being a bit cheeky and drawing disapproving stares from other people. She just seemed allergic to situations that bored her as well. You know, Victor, as we know, as a character, he was certainly not boring.
Jeremiah (15:25) Our friend Paul French has just published a fascinating book about another American’s time in Shanghai, and that is Wallis Simpson, the future Duchess of Windsor. And Paul writes about these infamous rumors about the Duchess of Windsor having posed naked for Victor Sassoon. And what’s interesting about this story is that Paul makes a rather compelling case that the gossip mongers had gotten it wrong. In fact, Wallis and Victor weren’t even in Shanghai at the same time. So these rumors about the Duchess of Windsor’s nude photos in Shanghai were not made up, but he theorizes were mixed up with the story of another liberated American woman who was adventuring in town. And that was Mickey.
Mickey’s Financial Independence and Cultural Awareness
Sarah (16:12) Yeah, what I find remarkable about Mickey in Shanghai is that she wasn’t there as some kept woman or she wasn’t looking for a sugar daddy. She didn’t need the money, essentially. She was financially independent because of her New York income. And I think a lot of other people from around the world, especially creatives, were flocking to China because the currency exchange just made it so easy to live like royalty on a writer’s salary.
Jeremiah (16:39) And most of these writers, you know, they talk about how much they love and they respect China’s culture, but it’s hard not to feel like there’s a certain parasitic element to it as well. Not all the writers—and Mickey is an exception—but they’re often writing these novels and stories and dispatches about their art collections or their parties or their friend, the opera star. And the vast majority of people in China or the realities of living in China often appear only incidentally or as background color. I think Mickey is one of the few who realizes that her grand adventure is being financed by some pretty backbreaking inequalities that was China in the 1930s.
Sarah (17:25) But that’s what makes travel writing from this period so complicated, isn’t it? Because Mickey was essentially a 1930s digital nomad, wasn’t she? She was writing remotely for the New Yorker. She was living the expat lifestyle. We can’t deny that. And it reminds me of conversations that we might have today about people who set up camp in Chiang Mai or Bali. How do you acknowledge disparities that make your life or your lifestyle, I should say, possible without seeming insensitive to the economic realities of your situation?
But to be fair to Mickey, what’s so great about her, and I think that’s one of the reasons that you and I want to talk about her on this podcast, is that she wasn’t blind to that privilege. She talks about riding in rickshaws, for example, being pulled around by these guys all over town. And there’s a rare self-awareness in her writing about it that you don’t often see in Western accounts from that era.
Jeremiah (18:21) She actually writes: “I have never gone through the phase experienced by most Europeans in China. When they first see rickshaws, I was always ready to admit that it was shameful to be pulled around on wheels by another human being when I was just as able to walk as he was. But why balk at a rickshaw when you’re doing just as much harm in every other way, merely by living like a foreigner in the overcrowded country of China.”
One other factor too is Shanghai, the city. We’re going to talk about some other cities in China, but she arrives in Shanghai and it really is the ultimate bubble for this kind of experience, especially if you live in the international settlement or the French concessions. The Chinese government had very limited, if any, jurisdiction in these areas. And so Europeans and Americans and other foreign nationals, they could be dancing and drinking even as things might be falling apart just outside the Shanghai city limits.
And the looming threat is the Japanese. And this is hanging over almost everything that’s happening in Shanghai during the period that Mickey is there. Japan is part of this foreign concession system. But of course, in the 1930s, even more than the other foreign powers, they’re using their influence to take over large sections of China, the country. They’ve already conquered parts of the Northeast. They’re aiming to conquer the rest. And as Japanese power rises in China, it’s clear even to the other foreign nationals that things are changing. And it’s starting to make that little island of safety maybe not as secure as everybody thought it was.
Sinmay Zhao and Chinese Literary Society
Sarah (20:00) After her dalliance with Sassoon, Mickey finds herself drawn to a different Shanghai circle, a world of Chinese intellectuals. She becomes friends, and then more than friends, with Sinmay Zau, a handsome Cambridge-educated poet from a wealthy family who, despite his Western education, insists on wearing traditional Chinese robes. Sinmay becomes Mickey’s entry into Chinese literary society.
And soon her apartment transforms into a salon where artists, intellectuals and revolutionaries gather late into the night, debating politics and literature. These discussions start in English out of respect for Mickey’s limited Chinese, but as they grow heated, they slip into Mandarin. Mickey isn’t the first foreigner to learn more Chinese after midnight than in daylight.
The small detail that Sinmay is already married with children doesn’t slow their relationship one bit. His wife is never directly confronted with their affair, although it’s hard to imagine her not being aware of the situation. In fact, Mickey gradually becomes part of the extended household, even becoming a favorite of Sinmay’s children.
Everything changes in 1937 when the Japanese invade Shanghai. Sinmay, with his connections to Chinese resistance, becomes a target. In a desperate move, he asks Mickey to marry him—polygamy still being legal in China—so his printing press and other assets would, on paper, belong to her, an untouchable foreigner from a still neutral country. Mickey agrees.
Mickey (reading from her memoir) (21:32) “Sinmay suggested that we visit a Chinese lawyer to sign a document stating that we were husband and wife. It was more of a matter of legal procedure than substance. What’s more, Sinmay promised me a plot in the Zhao family graveyard so that if I should die in Shanghai, I wouldn’t be alone as I had feared.”
Sarah (21:51) This unconventional arrangement with Sinmay sets tongues wagging from Shanghai all the way to Manhattan, where rumors spread that Mickey Hahn has thrown away her career to become the concubine of a Chinese poet.
Jeremiah (22:08) One of the things we like to talk about on this podcast is not just the travelers, but the people they meet along the way or when they get to where they’re going. And one of those people for Mickey has to be Sinmay Zau. He’s a fascinating figure in his own right. And he’s this kind of liminal figure in the sense that he exists with a foot in two worlds. There were plenty of Western educated Chinese intellectuals. They would act, dress and in the Western style and all of that. And there were of course, many people in Shanghai who despite all of the foreign influence still had these really intense emotional ties to the old society’s tradition.
But here’s Sinmay. He’s this handsome guy. He has interests that are global. He was educated at Cambridge, but then you see him walking down the street or when he walks into a cafe, especially—you’re thinking like a cafe with a lot of foreigners—and he’s there with this long robe, which is an affectation for someone of his age in this era. And I don’t know whether it’s a pose or not, but it makes an impression. And now you think about Mickey, she’s never really been shy about making an impression herself. And I think I can kind of see why she’s really taken with him.
And the relationship, it’s not just about Sinmay, it’s also about this whole other world, this whole literary world. They’re in her apartment like two in the morning, all these guys shouting at each other about French philosophers and anarchism and Chinese opera and whatever their new or next literary project’s going to be. It’s all very idealistic. And many of Sinmay’s friends and to some extent Sinmay himself, they dabble—sometimes more than dabble—in politics, in revolution. They’d be exactly the kind of people that the Japanese authorities would be looking out for.
And Sinmay, he’s a publisher. He’s got a printing press. He edits all these journals. He’s somebody who would definitely have a target on his back if the Japanese were to increase the control of the city. So what does Mickey do? She marries him and makes all of his assets technically hers. And of course, as an American, at the time at least, she’s still from a neutral country. There isn’t that same kind of danger to her that there might be for Sinmay and his Chinese friends.
I love the way too that Sinmay, out of gratitude, I don’t know, throws in an added bonus of: if this all goes to hell and we all die, you can be buried with me in the Zhao family plot next to me and my parents and my other wife.
Sarah (24:46) I was going to say that part’s quite sweet, but yeah, is it in that case? But yeah, she constantly crosses those social boundaries, doesn’t she? She’s just so good at that. She’s gone from dating Sir Victor Sassoon and then all of a sudden she’s the second wife in a traditional Chinese family. It’s not exactly what you’d expect from this sort of girl from Missouri, is it?
Jeremiah (25:10) I get the feeling too that she learned Chinese or at least Mandarin pretty well, pretty quickly, or at least in that kind of foreigner getting around the city and able to communicate the basic needs kind of way. And I’m sure a lot of it has to do with not just her relationship with Sinmay, although Sinmay speaks English great, but just being in that environment with Sinmay and his friends. I’m guessing the cocktails didn’t hurt. There’s nothing quite like liquid Berlitz to help travelers immerse themselves in a local culture when language might be a barrier.
Sarah (25:45) Yeah, exactly. Alcohol always helps, at least with your confidence. And I also think for Mickey, she’s a great example of a traveler whose attitude was, right, I’m going to roll up my sleeves. I’m just going to throw myself into this because you always have a choice when you land in a new place. Are you going to engage? And so all credit to her.
Jeremiah (26:03) I totally agree with you, Sarah. It’s about that attitude. It’s about that willingness to take a risk. Just to be clear, Sarah and I are not saying that travelers need to emulate Mickey Hahn and for example, find themselves a polyamorous semi-legal marriage as a form of cultural immersion. But just taking that little bit, that little extra and putting it out there, it pays enormous dividends no matter where you are. And Mickey was somebody who clearly was not afraid to do that.
Mr. Mills the Gibbon
Sarah (26:35) While in Shanghai, Mickey acquires a gibbon named Mr. Mills for 170 Shanghai dollars—about one third the usual market price, she wants us to know—and proceeds to make Mr. Mills the most controversial figure in the international settlement.
Mr. Mills the Gibbon attends cocktail parties, sometimes wearing a coat made from pieces of Mickey’s Chinese sable. He also sports diapers that scandalize colonial society, although one wonders what they would have thought if he’d shown up without them. His natural curiosity also makes Mr. Mills unpopular with Mickey’s Shanghai neighbours.
Mickey (reading from her memoir) (27:23) “When Mr. Mills escapes, there is simply nothing to do about it but wait for developments, holding your breath. He usually scales some likely wall and enters an open window. After a horrible pause, there comes a shriek, a crash, or both. Shortly afterwards, he climbs out the window, saying thoughtfully to himself, ‘whoop, whoop.’”
Sarah (27:49) One English hostess sends an invitation with a penciled note: “Sorry, we cannot extend an invitation to Mr. Mills.” Mickey refuses to attend at all.
Gibbons aside, living in China strips away what Mickey later calls her “crass American perspectives.” “I was over-educated and under-experienced,” she later would write. “And like most Americans, I was a smart aleck.” But as has happened with many other travelers turned expats, the captivating sights, sounds, and the rhythms of life in China work their magic. Even later, Mickey would recall with perfect clarity the streets of Yangtze Pu in Shanghai, the dust-choked air of Peking in summer, or the wet pathways of Hangzhou along the lakeside, referencing some of the country’s most famous sites then and today.
Sarah (28:50) Let’s talk about Mr. Mills, this gibbon in a sable coat and nappies attending cocktail functions. You know, apart from the fact that it’s wearing a coat made of another animal’s fur, which I just find incredibly creepy, I can’t think that gibbons make very good pets in general, let alone as a fashion accessory at social events.
Jeremiah (29:10) No, I do not think so. I would guess that if you were to Google “should I keep a gibbon as a house pet,” every website would come back with an emphatic, like, do not keep primates in an apartment. More than her choice of pet, I just love her reaction to the invitations that say, “we want you to be here, Mickey, but Mr. Mills can’t come.” She’s like, listen, accept my weird life and my weird pet, or don’t bother inviting me at all.
Sarah (29:38) It’s such a power move and honestly, it’s a bit radical even by today’s standards, you know, no matter how eccentric she was. Just imagine showing up to a dinner party with your emotional support ape.
Jeremiah (29:51) I use a phrase that gets overused today—it’s kind of part of her lifestyle brand. There are so many foreigners in China at this time who try to conform to some idealized version of expat life. They try to recreate little versions of England or mini versions of America—the race courses, the club, all the trappings of life back home. But in China, Mickey does the opposite of this.
Don’t get me wrong. I mean, gibbon shaming aside, she’s always down for the cocktails. But at the same time, more than the other foreigners in the city, or more than most foreigners in the city, she’s embracing the unfamiliar and she’s choosing to make the unfamiliar a part of her daily existence. It’s reflected in her friends. It’s reflected in the way she decorated her apartment, which many people commented on. And the kindest thing people would say is that it was eclectic.
And while gibbons aren’t necessarily reflective of any particular aspect of say Chinese culture, it’s still a statement. Her pets aren’t going to be some yippy dog. She’s not going to be a cat lady. No, what she’s going to do is she’s going to have a four foot primate that occasionally breaks into people’s homes.
Sarah (31:07) I think that’s also all of that is part of kind of squeezing all the juice out of the orange, right? She’s really making the most of being there. And at this point, I think it’s clear that she’s no longer just visiting. Of course, now she’s decided to settle down. She’s a sojourner, right? She’s become part of the community. She’s a resident in Shanghai with a job. She’s got social circle, pets and daily interactions with the neighbors who hate her pets. She’s got the full experience now. She’s no longer a tourist.
The Song Sisters Biography Project
Jeremiah (32:14) By 1938, after three years in Shanghai, Mickey Hahn is restless. Because while life in Shanghai is affordable, especially if you’re earning in US dollars, her income is still a little unreliable. She needs a project, one that will bring both purpose and income. Serendipitously, she is commissioned to write a biography about three of the most famous women in China, the Song Sisters: Ai Ling, Qing Ling, and Mei Ling.
Now long before the world knew anything about Kardashians, the Song sisters were famous for being famous in Shanghai high society. But their influence wasn’t just about glamour. It was about power. Ai Ling, the eldest, is married to H.H. Kung, a banker, politician, and a descendant of Confucius. Qing Ling is the widow of Sun Yat-sen, the revolutionary hero who helped overthrow China’s last dynasty. And Mei Ling, the youngest, is the wife of Chiang Kai-shek, leader of the nationalist government.
These women didn’t just marry well, they control their own narratives. They know how to manage their image, how to play the press, and how to dictate what can and what cannot be said about them. Many journalists have tried to get inside their world. Most have failed. But Mickey takes the commission anyway, knowing full well that access to the Songs is nearly impossible.
Then, fortune smiles on Mickey. Sinmay’s aunt is an old friend of Madame Kung, the eldest, Ai Ling. And when Mickey flies to Hong Kong to make her case, she’s surprised to find Madame Kong is interested. Why? Well, it’s a little unclear, but one thing is certain. The Songs are frustrated with how they’ve been portrayed in the Western press. And so despite their usual reluctance, they grant Mickey near exclusive access.
But writing their story won’t be easy. First, she needs to finalize arrangements in Hong Kong with Ai Ling. Then she has to make the treacherous journey to China’s wartime capital, Chongqing, nestled in the mountains of southwest China, where the youngest, Madame Chiang Kai-shek, awaits.
Once in Chongqing, Mickey soon settles into a new routine. She types away at her portable typewriter, hammering out chapter after chapter. But when the air raid sirens wail, she has to grab her unfinished manuscript and her typewriter to rush down into a basement bomb shelter, waiting for the all clear.
Over time, Mei Ling, Madame Chiang Kai-shek, grows to trust her. She invites Mickey to functions, photo opportunities, and public appearances. She also answers Mickey’s endless questions. Mickey, for her part, respects the sisters, but she isn’t there to write a flattering state-approved biography. The sisters, to their credit, don’t ask for one. All they want is a fair portrayal.
After several months dodging Japanese bombs and winning the trust of China’s most powerful women, Mickey finally finishes her manuscript. Her thoughts turn homeward. She flies back to Hong Kong from Chongqing with a simple plan: arrange to have her belongings and her beloved gibbons shipped from Shanghai, book passage on a steamer from Hong Kong back to the States and close this remarkable chapter of her life. Hong Kong should merely be a waypoint, a brief administrative stop on her long journey home.
But Hong Kong has other plans.
Sarah (35:37) Talk about a change of pace at this point. Everybody wants to write about the Song Sisters, but they’re notoriously private.
Jeremiah (35:46) Right. This comparison to the Kardashians, you know, “famous for being famous”—it’s a good one, but it somewhat undersells how powerful the Songs were. This youngest one, Mei Ling, Madame Chiang Kai-shek, she’s married to the leader of the country. And later on in the 1930s and 1940s, she becomes something of a de facto foreign minister for China. She gives speeches at the US Congress. She is one of the public faces of the country.
The middle sister, Qing Ling, she was married to this great revolutionary hero, Sun Yat-sen, who is, along with Chiang Kai-shek, one of the most famous men in early 20th century Chinese history. And the eldest one, Ai Ling, the one that had this connection with Sinmay’s aunt that gets Mickey the access that she needs, Ai Ling is married to one of China’s richest men. And because of that power, they are so wary of the press. And with all of that, it’s kind of amazing that this American woman who’s been living a rather unconventional life in Shanghai is the one that they trust with their story.
Sarah (36:50) As you and I know, Jeremiah, in China, having personal connections is everything. It’s the thing that can open doors that might otherwise stay shut, especially if you’re a foreigner. And obviously the fact that Sinmay’s aunt is a connection goes a really long way towards helping her get to these women. And he’s Chinese as well. All of that helps.
Jeremiah (37:13) I think it does. And in China, like a lot of places, knowing somebody’s aunt is a great tool that can unlock or fix many difficult situations. But just getting the commission and then getting the access, this is all the first part. She still has to write the book. And to do that, she’s going to need to go to Chongqing, the city that’s the wartime capital. And even though the war is starting to affect Shanghai at this time, you can still get the finer things in life available. Hong Kong is still at this point too, relatively safe. It’s an island, it’s a British colony, it’s got everything that you might need. But now she’s going off into the interior to a part of the country or to a city that’s more or less cut off from the rest of China or even the rest of the world.
Sarah (38:02) Yeah, that’s right. It’s in Sichuan province. And for people who aren’t familiar with China, that’s in the southwest part of the country. You probably mostly know it because of its famously spicy and delicious food, but it’s up in the mountains in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River. And I think that’s why it was chosen as a wartime capital because it was thought to be relatively safe from the Japanese. But to get to China’s interior, most of the flights were out of the then British colony, Hong Kong, and they were very strictly controlled because you’re flying into a war zone.
Jeremiah (38:34) She actually does meet Chiang Kai-shek once. Remember, this is Mei Ling Song’s husband. And so there is this story that she recounts where she was interviewing Mei Ling in the living room of the presidential home, what they were using. And the thing about Chiang Kai-shek, he’s a notoriously very fussy, very kind of difficult guy. He’s always very buttoned up.
But one day, Mickey and Mei Ling are chatting in the living room of the presidential house. And all of a sudden Mickey turns around and there is Chiang Kai-shek, you know, the guy who’s known as the Generalissimo, right? But not in any uniform. He’s there in his dressing gown and then he’s still trying to be very proper because he didn’t expect to see this American woman sitting in his living room. And he greets her and Mickey greets him. And then he slowly walks away. And then Mei Ling turns and says, “I’m so sorry for him. He’s usually more talkative. He just didn’t have his teeth in at the time.” So that was Mickey’s brief moment of meeting the leader of China.
Sarah (39:33) How does she get herself into these situations, honestly? She’s amazing for that. She wasn’t there as a passive observer, that’s for sure. She became a participant in China’s wartime history at this point. So just going, transitioning from her lifestyle in Shanghai, and now she’s in the middle of a war. She’s experiencing the bombings, the dangers, just like anyone else, just like the Chinese citizens around her. Because at the end of the day, when the bombs fall, you’re either in the shelter or you’re not.
Jeremiah (39:58) There was one rather harrowing moment that she writes about, in fact, where the bombs are falling. She’s outside and there’s this huge panicked crowd that she gets caught up in moving up these rather steep steps because Chongqing as a city is kind of built on a hillside. And at one point she is nearly knocked off the staircase, off the cliff and down into the river and would have fallen, except for this Chinese guy who’s on the steps with her. He just reaches out and grabs her at the last second. So there’s some real danger there in what she’s doing. And she doesn’t shy away about writing about it either in her accounts.
There were foreigners who perhaps went even further into the front lines than Mickey did, but still, her experiences in Chongqing, she was part of a war.
Sarah (40:52) Yeah, in some ways she’s sort of like a spiritual literary or journalistic sister to people like Martha Gellhorn, isn’t she, who wrote about the civil war in Spain or the British writer Rebecca West, who actually was a close friend of Mickey’s in London, funnily enough. She wrote quite a bit about Yugoslavia. These are women writers who risk their lives to tell stories, essentially, to commit journalism, as we say, and immerse themselves in critical moments in a country’s history. And whether she found herself there by accident or not, I’m not sure what you think about that. She stuck it out.
Jeremiah (41:26) Right. And as anyone who’s ever written a book knows, it’s a hard process under the best of all possible circumstances. She’s dodging bombing raids. She is running out of underwear. She seems to always want to tell us because of the limited goods that can be flown into Chongqing. But she manages to finish the book and now she’s headed back to Hong Kong. She’s going to get the manuscript to a publisher and finally her time in China is coming to an end, she thinks.
Hong Kong: Meeting Charles Boxer
Sarah (41:59) In 1940, Mickey Hahn’s life has taken another dramatic turn. Initially, Hong Kong is meant to be a brief stopover. Her manuscript on the Song Sisters is finished and has been delivered to the publisher. She’s heading home, but for the moment, she’s fresh from wartime Chongqing and back in a city not yet at war.
Mickey (reading from her memoir) (42:19) “As an experienced observer of myself, I should have realized that I was set for mischief that summer.”
Sarah (42:31) She finds Hong Kong society dreary, rigid, and not nearly as much fun as Shanghai. But it does have its attractions. While waiting for her boat to leave, she’s spending her time partying. She meets up with Charles Boxer, a married British intelligence officer who’s fluent in Japanese and who had previously sought her out in Shanghai after admiring her writing. He’d wanted to meet the woman behind the words.
Their reconnection is immediate and electric. Soon tongues are wagging about Mickey and Boxer. But Mickey cares little for colonial propriety. Mickey and Charles share a love of conversation, drinking and defying convention.
Mickey (reading from her memoir) (43:13) “I was serious about Charles from the beginning, from before the beginning, and that was a completely new departure for me. I told him so. We never talked about it seriously, but I told him just the same when I had fortified myself with whiskey.”
Sarah (43:29) When she reveals her feelings, Charles proposes an audacious plan. Mickey should stay in Hong Kong, send for her gibbons, and have a child with him.
Despite the scandal, Mickey seems happier than ever. She settles on May Road in the mid-levels with not just her original gibbons shipped from Shanghai, but three more purchased in Hong Kong. Because as Mickey might say, what’s better than three gibbons? Six gibbons.
That quote that she’s “set for mischief” is classic Mickey. She’s obviously restless and bored. In my opinion, by today’s standards, she’d be called just an adrenaline junkie. I think she’s slightly addicted to the drama. She’s just finished this really intense project in wartime Chongqing. She’s probably quite tired. She’s probably letting her guard down a little bit. Then along comes a very handsome Charles Boxer.
Jeremiah (44:29) And there’s something about turning a page, finding yourself in a somewhat new environment. There’s also this sense, and I think a lot of people, we’ve been there—I’m done with the work. I’m semi on vacation. I’m just kind of biding my time on my way home. And that is, you know, it’s exactly the sort of time that many travelers get into a little bit of trouble. And that is exactly what Mickey does. And who better to get in trouble with than Charles Boxer?
He’s this British army officer stationed in Hong Kong. He’s fluent in Japanese. He’s a historian and a scholar at heart. He’s a master at kendo, Japanese sword fighting. He almost sounds like a fictional character. The other thing too is because he’s an intelligence officer, he reads pretty widely what’s written about China and he’s become a fan or he was a fan of Mickey’s writing.
Sarah (45:20) Yeah, I love how he essentially tracks her down because he quote unquote “likes her articles.” It’s kind of like the 1940s version of sliding into someone’s DMs, isn’t it? “Oh hello. I liked your New Yorker pieces. Do you fancy getting a drink sometime?”
Jeremiah (45:37) Well, it does seem to move pretty fast. You know, she gets to Hong Kong at sometime at the end of 1940 and then they connect and pretty soon he’s making this bold proposal—stay in Hong Kong, have a baby and we’ll work the rest out later. And there are complications to this plan. Boxer’s wife, Ursula, had just left Hong Kong and she had been part of a general evacuation order that meant that British officers’ families left the colony for safer locations. It may in fact have been the head of British intelligence, Charles Boxer, who recommended this plan.
Regardless, the situation left Charles free to spend more time with Mickey and this relationship became an open secret. I think for Boxer, the stakes were high, you know, maybe more so professionally for him than for her. He’s a military officer. His personal conduct is always under scrutiny. So he has a lot to risk.
Sarah (46:42) Yeah, but at the same time, you know, she’s literally packed up her bags, she’s ready to go home, the manuscript for the Song Sisters is finished. And by the way, it eventually will go on to become a really huge success. You know, she had pitched and written a few books based on her time in China and not all of them had been a success. Some of them have been rejected outright and now she’s enjoying her moment of literary fame. So at the same time, her personal life is set to maximum chaos thanks to this suggestion from Mr. Boxer.
Japanese Occupation of Hong Kong
Jeremiah (47:19) In October 1941, just weeks before the Japanese invasion of Hong Kong, Mickey Hahn gave birth to her daughter, Carola.
When the city fell to the Japanese on Christmas Day 1941, Mickey’s world was transformed. Charles is severely wounded in the battle. The Japanese begin rounding up enemy foreigners. Mickey faces a desperate choice. Will she be interned with her infant daughter or will she find a way to stay free?
With characteristic ingenuity, she pulls off her boldest gambit yet. She claims Chinese citizenship through her previous marriage to Sinmay. When Japanese officials—many of whom knew her and had dined with her and Charles on previous occasions—questioned how she could have a Chinese husband while caring for the baby of a British officer, Mickey delivers what really is a classic response.
Mickey (48:12) “Because I’m a bad girl.”
Jeremiah (48:20) Remarkably, the Japanese officials accept this explanation. Freedom, though, comes with its own challenges. Despite her literary success, Mickey’s American bank account is frozen, so she strikes a pragmatic bargain: teaching English to Japanese officers in exchange for food rations and for having them not look too carefully at her marriage situation. Precious supplies sustain not only herself and baby Carola, they also help Charles, to whom Mickey smuggles food during daily visits.
Mickey (reading from her memoir) (48:49) “I had become an expert black marketeer, which is to say that I was an incorrigible optimist, living from day to day, exchanging everything for food. My most valuable possessions, a gold watch, my wedding ring from Sinmay, all went for condensed milk and rice.”
Jeremiah (49:10) When she’s offered a place in a Red Cross prisoner exchange in fall of 1942, Mickey refuses to leave. She will not abandon Charles.
Sarah (49:27) You know, what’s remarkable about that “I’m a bad girl” moment is that it reveals how Mickey understood power dynamics. She didn’t plead her innocence or try to present any complex justifications or any sort of BS excuse. Most people would probably try to do that, but she just shrugs and says, “Well, I’m a bad girl, you know, what of it?”
Jeremiah (49:49) Yeah, and she does have these interesting personal relationships with the Japanese authorities. Part of it is that Charles as a Japanophile and as an intelligence officer had had pre-invasion contact with many of the same Japanese officials who then oversee the occupation of Hong Kong. And so she kind of knows a lot of them. And through those connections, she ends up getting a job teaching English to some of the officers. Some people might call that collaboration. It’s certainly a practical reality. She needs the money. She needs those connections to help her get the ration coupons that feed her and especially her baby.
And she’s able to also keep this fiction of a marriage with Sinmay. And she hasn’t really heard from Sinmay in quite some time. They had started to break off the relationship long before she had gotten to Hong Kong. The idea that she was married to Sinmay at least kept her out of the prison camps because she’s not an American. If she’s married to a Chinese national, she’s a Chinese national and Chinese nationals are being protected by the Japanese, at least according to the propaganda. And so she can’t be interned with the other foreigners. It’s an interesting arrangement. It’s a complicated arrangement, but somehow she makes it work.
Sarah (51:10) She’s wearing all these different hats and she’s so good at it. And it’s that kind of adaptability that makes her so interesting. Well, and remarkable as a person and as a writer and as a traveler. She’s essentially conducting a resistance operation. Like she’s smuggling food. And yes, okay, some people might think that her decision to teach English and stay on good terms with the Japanese officials and charm them could be seen as collaboration, as you say. But I think she understood that survival required some moral compromise, you know, she wasn’t above that, let’s say.
Jeremiah (51:41) One of her English students who’s also an intelligence officer gives Mickey a picture of himself in his uniform and he signs it something like “to Emily Hahn, my prisoner, 1942” or something like that. She has a bad habit of getting drunk with the Japanese officers. At one point she ends up slapping the head of the Japanese intelligence service in Hong Kong for an intemperate remark that he makes. It’s complicated.
But let me just say this. I hope that in our lives, we never are in a situation where we have to make the kind of choices that Mickey or anyone living under occupation has to make on a daily, hourly basis. But that level of adaptability means sometimes doing the smart thing, even if it’s not always the right thing, may be the best approach. I guess that’s the only way I can really think about what she did during her time in Hong Kong.
Leaving Hong Kong and Postwar Life
Sarah (52:49) By 1943, Mickey’s precarious existence in occupied Hong Kong becomes unsustainable. Mr. Mills, her faithful gibbon companion through so many adventures, dies. Allied warplanes appear overhead and her access to Charles becomes severely restricted. Charles manages to convince her to accept an upcoming prisoner exchange. “Get to America,” he tells her. “After the war, I will find you.”
Before departing, Mickey is granted one final, heavily supervised visit to see Charles.
Mickey (reading from her memoir) (53:25) “Carola jumped up and waved. She shouted loud and clear. Her shrill voice sounded through the silent camp. ‘Daddy, bye-bye. Daddy, bye-bye.’”
Sarah (53:37) On September 23, 1943, Mickey’s eight-year China adventure ends. She and Carola are aboard a Red Cross vessel first to India, where they swap ships with a group of Japanese POWs heading east and then on to New York.
Back in America, she reunites with family who haven’t seen her since 1935. Mickey transforms her experiences into China to Me, a memoir that becomes an immediate sensation, selling over 700,000 copies.
Despite success, she battles the torment of conflicting reports about Charles. Rumors of his execution alternate with reported sightings. But on September the 4th, 1945, Mickey learns that Charles has survived. That November, he flies to New York for an emotional reunion captured by Life magazine. They marry in Connecticut days later, settling at the Boxer family estate in Dorset.
While Charles found life in the English countryside idyllic, Mickey remained characteristically restless. Not even the arrival of a second daughter, Amanda, could keep her in one place. By 1950, gossip columns reported their impending divorce, but true to form, they found an unconventional solution: an open marriage. Mickey would spend exactly 90 days a year in England, the maximum before having to pay British income tax, while the rest of her time was spent in New York or traveling.
For nearly 50 years, Mickey became a cornerstone of the New Yorker. Her career was astonishingly prolific—54 books and over 200 articles filed from across the globe, writing on subjects from Mata Hari to diamonds, Chinese cuisine to animal-human communication. In late 1996, at 91 years old, Mickey had a bad fall in her apartment. She died on February 18, 1997.
Visiting Shanghai Today
Jeremiah (55:33) So if you’re interested in learning more about Mickey Hahn, there are some books, including ones that Sarah and I quoted or used to put together this episode that are worth exploring, including Ken Cuthbertson’s biography, Nobody Told Me Not To Go. We’ll put the links and the list of books in the show notes. Of course, we’ll also recommend that you check out China to Me. She’s a great person to travel with, whether you’re sitting in an armchair traveling or you’re on a plane all the way to Shanghai.
Sarah (56:02) Yeah, speaking of being on a plane to Shanghai, let’s talk a little bit more about Shanghai now because it really is a nice entry point to China.
Jeremiah (56:11) Shanghai is kind of China level one. It’s a great place to go if you’re a little bit concerned about, “I don’t speak Chinese” or “I’m not as familiar traveling in Asia.” There’s a lot that will be familiar to someone who’s been to other cities around the world when you arrive in Shanghai. I think sometimes it does get unfairly overlooked as a city of history and culture because it tends to lean into that glamorous international image thing.
If you go to Shanghai, there’s a lot of what Emily writes about that some of it is gone, admittedly, but there’s a lot that’s still there. There’s the waterfront known as the Bund, which has these great old buildings. The Bund today looks somewhat like the Bund that would have been the place where Mickey Hahn arrived or where Langston Hughes arrived. And you can still walk through some of the foreign concession areas. They’re no longer foreign concession areas, but they do feel different. You can definitely get that sense that these were built on a European model. The tree-lined streets, the buildings, all of them give a sense of the cosmopolitan nature.
And if you want to know what Shanghai would have been like back in the 1930s, back in the time of Mickey Hahn, there’s a great company known as Historic Shanghai, and they do walking tours of the city. And if you’re visiting the city and you want to get a little more of that feel for the city that Emily Hahn lived in, that Langston Hughes visited, they’re a great group of people to explore the city with.
Sarah (57:48) Yeah, I’m glad you mentioned Historic Shanghai. It’s one of my favourite outfits in the city. It’s run by Patrick Cranley and his wife Tina Kanagarathnam. And I absolutely love—one of my favourite things to do in Shanghai is go on a sort of art deco safari with those two because one of the really lovely things about Shanghai is that it still retains a lot of its original 1920s and 1930s art deco architecture and it’s really delightful.
Jeremiah (58:16) What we’ll do is we’ll put in the show notes links to Historic Shanghai, links to some of the books and other materials that we used to put together this episode. And for anyone who’s interested in learning more about Mickey Hahn, her time in China, the China that she visited, and her amazing life and literary career, you can find that information, as I said, in the show notes.
Conclusion
Sarah (58:46) From her days in Shanghai’s literary salons to her wartime resilience in Hong Kong, and finally to her long tenure as one of the New Yorker’s most prolific writers, Mickey’s story is one of courage, independence, and a relentless curiosity about the world.
Jeremiah (59:00) She lived through some of China’s most tumultuous moments—Shanghai in 1937, Chongqing in 1939, and Hong Kong from 1940 to 1943. While many foreigners experienced these events, Mickey gave her readers an unvarnished look at what was happening, and she did it with a style all her own.
Sarah (59:20) Thank you for joining us on this journey through the life of Emily “Mickey” Hahn. Join us next time as we explore more stories of people who lived life by their own compass.
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