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reminding yourself to celebrate something you wanted and now you have it and you dont celebrate it anymore. bring yourself back to the time where you hoped and prayed for this opportunity and how happy you were when you get there. also remember its okay to not want what you wanted 2 years ago now.

update on my life, highs and lows of life, friends, relationships, dating, all of it????

in a city with over 1.6 million people, how could you feel alone? it's easy people stay in their phones when walking the streets ot riding the bus. i challenge you to talk to one person when ride the bus (with caution haha) and i challenge you to smile at a person on the street or say hello and to have a good day. itll make you feel good. last challenge i give to you in join a club or do an activity and when doing this...put yourself out there and make conversation with someone, youve got nothing to lose. worst case scenario they dont reciprocate and you try again with someone who will :)

be your true authentic self will help you align with where you should be in your life. 

stop having regrets because those 'regrets' helped you get where you are today and maybe those things happened for a reason. 

you do not have control over anything and i know i have talked about this before but just ride the wave and sit back and see where life takes you.

just be nice.

easier said than done but challenge yourself to have empathy for others around you and kill it with kindness. 

be the person that turns a bad day around for someone.

understanding that everyone is going to through something and be mindful of it.

- put boundaries up with work, friends and everything. maintain those boundaries

- dont put yourself in a position to have to be like 'claire why did i do that'

- truly put yourself first and put yourself in the center

- you can say no sometimes

making decisions can be extremely difficult when you think about all the down-steams it's going to effect but why complicate things. just trust yourself and make the decisions purely on what you think is best. step back and think about those things for yourself, what will make you happiest? if you don't know maybe its not time for you to be making those decisions.

living a more minimalist lifestyle encourages you be more intentional when buying things. it helps you appreciate the things you have which adds ore value to you your things and your life. think about it next time you are buying something that you like but you also have thoughts of you dont really need it.