This week, we explore the world of non-monogamous relationships, focusing on the trends of polygamy and polyamory. In our conversation, we dissect the cultural and religious contexts of these practices, noting how polygamy is often associated with religious traditions, typically involving one man with multiple wives. Despite some attempting to justify it with biblical references, we argue that such arrangements stray from God's intended design for marriage. On the other hand, polyamory has gained visibility through cultural shifts and celebrity endorsements, encompassing romantic, emotional, and sexual relationships among three or more people, regardless of gender. We also tackle the controversial topic of whether polyamory should be classified as a sexual orientation, presenting a perspective that challenges this notion.

We navigate the complexities of blurred relationship boundaries, where polyamory often emerges unintentionally in relationships. We compare this with the more structured approach of polygamy, exploring how cultural changes have influenced these dynamics. The discussion highlights the evolving language of relationships, such as the increasing use of the term "partner" over traditional titles. We differentiate between polyamory and open relationships, emphasizing the role of consent and commitment structures. Through real-world experiences and the challenges faced by individuals, particularly in Christian communities, we provide insights into how families grapple with these evolving relationship norms and prepare for their complexities.

TIMESTAMPS:

(00:19) - Exploring Polygamy vs. Polyamory Trends

(10:33) - Differences in Polygamy and Polyamory

(18:19) - Navigating Blurred Relationship Boundaries

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#Polygamy #Polyamory #BiblicalSexuality

Complementarianism doesn't mean inequality, and egalitarianism isn't necessarily the solution. Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the often controversial terrain of gender roles and biblical sexuality, with a spotlight on the thought-provoking podcast "Sons of Patriarchy." This episode will challenge your understanding of patriarchy, and the contentious figure of Doug Wilson, a pastor known for his polarizing views. As we prepare for the heated debates likely to arise from this podcast, we urge listeners to consider the complexities and biases inherent in these discussions.

Our conversation navigates the tension between complementarian and egalitarian beliefs within Christian relationships, dissecting misconceptions and misapplications that have led to misunderstandings and allegations of abuse. We argue for a scripturally grounded approach that promotes accountability and mutual respect in marriages, cautioning against extreme interpretations on either side. By examining the role of church leadership in fostering healthy relationships, we aim to inspire a balanced, respectful dialogue that upholds the dignity and worth of both spouses. Tune in for a thought-provoking journey through the intersection of Christianity, theology, culture, and personal relationships.

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Chapters

(00:19) - Exploring Gender Roles and Biblical Sexuality

(09:35) - Gender Roles in Christian Relationships

(14:41) - Navigating Gender Roles and Church Culture

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#DougWilson #complementarianism #egalitarianism

Join me on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the profound challenges and heartaches faced by parents and family members of LGBTQ children from a Christian perspective. In this episode, we share insights and stories from Calibrate Ministries, shedding light on the emotional and spiritual burdens these families carry when their children do not align with their beliefs. We celebrate the joy of witnessing a child's return to faith while acknowledging the sorrow of those who continue to walk away. Through encouragement and support, we emphasize the importance of not condemning these families but rather recognizing their steadfast faith as a testimony to the world.

We also address the evolving relationship between parents and their adult children, especially concerning LGBTQ issues. This conversation highlights the shift from parental authority to mentorship and support, urging parents to relinquish control and trust God with the outcomes. By focusing on their identity in Christ and receiving support from the church community, parents can navigate the complexities of maintaining relationships and setting boundaries. We discuss the need for wisdom, discernment, and the strength that comes from the faith community, while acknowledging the pain that can accompany broken relationships.

Lastly, we emphasize parenting LGBTQ children with grace, encouraging a balance between avoiding self-righteousness and maintaining hope in their potential transformation. We discuss the importance of creating a welcoming and grace-filled environment for children to return to, drawing on the story of the prodigal son. This episode offers support and encouragement for parents, highlighting the opportunity to join a parents ministry and find solace in a shared journey. Embracing growth and self-reflection through God's grace, we extend love and encouragement, reminding listeners of the absence of condemnation for those in Christ and inviting them to explore further resources at Calibrate Ministries.

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TIMESTAMPS:

(00:19) Navigating Parenting LGBTQ Prodigal Children

(09:44) Establishing Boundaries With LGBTQ Loved Ones

(19:12) Parenting LGBTQ Children With Grace

(32:31) Supporting Parents of LGBTQ Children

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#Prodigal #Parenting #LGBTQ

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore "The Widening of God's Mercy," a new book by Richard B. Hayes and his son, Christopher B. Hayes. This episode unpacks the unexpected shift in Richard's perspective, a retired New Testament professor once known for his staunch defense of traditional biblical marriage. Together with Christopher, a professor at Fuller Seminary, they present a more inclusive stance on sexuality, which has stirred controversy and conversation within both evangelical and LGBTQ communities. We analyze their use of terms like "inclusive" and "hospitality" and challenge their assumptions about human sexuality from a conservative Christian viewpoint.

Listen in as we navigate the complexities of interpreting God's character across the Old and New Testaments, especially concerning LGBTQ inclusion in the church. We discuss how some scholars might misinterpret biblical stories, like those involving child sacrifice, and explore the implications of open theism versus dispensational theology. Our conversation emphasizes that God's nature remains unchanged even as His interactions with humanity evolve, offering insights into the balance between scriptural authority and contemporary societal issues.

This episode highlights the transformative power of God's mercy and the need for a compassionate, yet biblically grounded approach to modern debates on sexuality. Through personal stories and scriptural analysis, we invite you to consider a narrative that honors God's unchanging truth while engaging with the complexities of human experience.

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TIMESTAMPS:

(00:19) The Widening of God's Mercy

(09:20) Misinterpretation of God's Old Testament Character

(15:35) God's Mercy and Biblical Sexuality

(28:33) Challenge of Old Testament Interpretation

(34:26) Reimagining Scripture and Sexuality

(40:55) Sexuality, Scripture and Personal Experience

(56:05) The Transformative Power of God's Mercy

(01:02:38) God's Unchanging Mercy and Truth

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#LGBTQ #Christianity #Marriage

Ready to question some widely accepted teachings on sexual purity? "Every Man's Battle" might be doing more harm than good. On this episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady dissects the implications of this popular book and its over-the-top graphic content, arguing for a healthier, more biblically sound approach to tackling lust and sexual sin. By illustrating the pendulum effect, where extreme corrective measures backfire, he open the floor to a critical and balanced discussion on the real solutions to these deep-rooted issues.

As Brady ventures into the murky waters of marriage expectations, he challenges harmful stereotypes and generalizations about men's struggles with lust. Brady shares his personal journey of fidelity to his wife, countering the narrative that all men face the same battles. He also confront the dangerous idea of treating wives as mere objects for sexual gratification, advocating instead for relationships built on love, mutual respect, and true intimacy. By rethinking these conventional narratives, he aims to set a new standard for what a healthy marriage should look like.

Navigating the broader implications of abuse and redemption within relationships, we touch on the #MeToo and #ChurchToo movements, dissecting high-profile scandals and their impact on public consciousness. Brady critiques the misuse of influential resources like "Love and Respect," discussing how they can lead to manipulation and unrealistic marital expectations. Through the lens of biblical principles and gospel-centered leadership, he calls for accountability, balanced perspectives, and heart-level transformation to foster relationships that reflect God's true design.

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#Abuse #Sexuality #EveryMansBattle #JulieRoys #SheilaWrayGregoire

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we address a pressing issue within Christianity, prompted by the recent resignation of Pastor Steve Lawson due to moral failure. This episode examines the pitfalls of consumeristic Christianity and the dangers of pastors spreading themselves too thin with numerous commitments. We explore the critical need for pastors to be deeply involved in their local congregations and held accountable within a biblical eldership structure. Emphasizing the importance of local church involvement, mutual accountability, and authentic discipleship, we argue for a shift away from valuing charismatic preachers to prioritizing shepherds who engage deeply with their church communities.

Listen in as we discuss how to respond when Christian leaders or members fall into sin, emphasizing the importance of demonstrating hope in Jesus. We explore the necessity of praying for God's grace in the lives of sinners and developing better responses that bring glory to God. By being vigilant in our personal lives and relationships, confessing sin early, and embracing God's standard for sexuality, we can foster a community that reflects Christ's love and hope. This episode aims to encourage you in your walk with the Lord and inspire a deeper commitment to authentic discipleship and mutual accountability within the church.

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#stevelawson #sexuality #Christianity

Join us on Calibrate Conversations as we explore the profound influences of social media on today's youth, particularly those grappling with LGBTQ issues. In our first chapter, we examine how platforms like TikTok provide teenagers with a sense of validation, belonging, and identity, often conflicting with Christian teachings. Through a critical analysis of a YouTube podcast clip featuring lesbian women, we emphasize the importance of understanding these natural desires for connection and how they can be misdirected. We also underscore the necessity of discipleship and applying the gospel to transform hearts, drawing insights from the book of James to highlight the need to protect our children from harmful external influences.

In the following chapters, we address parenting decisions and the impact of smartphones and school environments on children. From the humorous moment when Rowan mistook a phone for a body part to a serious discussion about the anxiety technology causes in younger generations, we stress the importance of modeling responsible behavior and maintaining parental control. We also critique the overreach of public school systems in LGBTQ matters, advocating for alternatives like homeschooling in regions with problematic policies. Lastly, we encourage listeners to evaluate their own lives for worldly influences, set boundaries, and seek spiritual transformation to better navigate and model a Christ-centered life for their children. Tune in and equip yourself with insights to foster a heart aligned with your values.

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#TikTok #SocialMedia #Parenting

Struggling with my own journey of same-sex attraction, I once believed that my persistent desires meant God must be okay with it. In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, we unpack the story of a woman who arrived at a similar conclusion after years of prayer and self-reflection. We delve into the challenging yet liberating truth that God's promises aren't about removing our struggles but rather empowering us to surrender and live in obedience. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, we explore how daily surrender, community, confession, and accountability are vital parts of the discipleship process, leading to genuine transformation and a life of peace with Christ.

We also address the psychological toll of concealing one's sexuality and the freedom that comes with living authentically within a Christian community. The weight of others' opinions can be crushing, but anchoring our identity in Christ brings unparalleled relief. Furthermore, we tackle the controversial topic of conversion therapy, separating harmful misconceptions from the true journey of spiritual growth. By examining the choices we do have in living a life aligned with faith, we emphasize the importance of building a compassionate, grace-filled community where authenticity and support can truly thrive.

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TIMESTAMPS:

(00:37 - 01:50) Exposing False Beliefs on Same-Sex Attraction

(06:09 - 07:17) Transformation and Surrender in Discipleship

(14:54 - 16:21) Struggles and Authenticity in Christian Community

(22:26 - 23:25) The Efficacy of Conversion Therapy

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#TikTok #LGBTQ #MadeItOutPodcast #Christian #Christianity

What if the wisdom you’re following is leading you astray? Join us as we unravel the profound insights from the book of James, contrasting earthly wisdom marked by selfish ambition and jealousy with heavenly wisdom that is pure, peace-loving, and merciful. We explore the damaging effects of pursuing significance through worldly means and emphasize the importance of examining our hearts to ensure our actions align with godly principles, bearing good fruit instead of disorder.

Our discussion delves into contemporary issues, such as critical race theory, through the lens of biblical wisdom. We share personal reflections on the value of gentleness in conflict and the unparalleled strength found in meekness. With practical advice on being teachable and open to reason, we highlight how these qualities can lead to better relationships and deeper understanding. 

As we seek unity rooted in wisdom and equal treatment, we address the dangers of tribalism in both religious and political arenas. Reflecting on the controversy surrounding Megan Basham’s book, "Shepherds for Sale," we discuss the divisiveness it has caused within the Christian community and call for a perspective filled with mercy and compassion. Finally, we provide practical steps for living out biblical truths, emphasizing patience, empathy, and a prayerful approach to seeking divine wisdom in all aspects of life. Tune in for an enlightening episode that challenges you to reflect on your motives and pursue true, godly wisdom.

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TIMESTAMPS:

(00:01) The Pursuit of True Wisdom

(06:41) Wisdom From Above

(23:39) Unity Through Wisdom and Equal Treatment

(37:00) Biblical Wisdom in Daily Life

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#Sexuality #Wisdom #Christian

Join us for an uplifting and transformative conversation on Calibrate Conversations, where we welcome Ally Kutz as our special guest. Ally shares her powerful testimony of finding hope and freedom through faith in Christ. From growing up in a Christian home, grappling with her identity and sexuality, to living a gay lifestyle for over a decade, Ally's journey is one of inner conflict, steadfast love for Jesus, and ultimate redemption. Her story underscores the liberating truth found in the gospel and aims to challenge the world's narratives about sexuality and transformation.

Throughout this episode, we explore the profound shifts that come from seeking God's guidance. Ally recounts a pivotal moment with Pastor Paul that led her to a deeper spiritual quest, culminating in a transformative shift in her heart. We discuss the misconceptions within the church regarding sexuality and the importance of focusing on a relationship with Jesus rather than adhering to societal or even traditional church expectations. 

Listen in as we tackle complex issues surrounding LGBTQ relationships within the church, the impact of generational sins, and the damaging effects of rigid gender stereotypes. Ally shares her experiences with love and support from her church community, the struggle between faith and sexuality, and the importance of setting boundaries while maintaining love. We also address the significance of genuine discipleship and the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding believers through personal struggles. This episode is a compelling narrative of transformation, truth, and the beauty of a life continually growing in Christ.

TIMESTAMPS:

(00:19) Hope and Freedom Testimony

(07:35) Identity Transformation Through Faith

(17:39) Embracing Identity in Christ

(33:35) Navigating Church and LGBTQ Relationships

(42:23) Transformed by Truth and Love

(53:14) Navigating Gender Stereotypes and Sexuality

(01:00:29) Navigating Sexual Choices and Susceptibility

(01:06:00) Navigating Family Acceptance and Boundaries

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#Sexuality #LGBTQ #Christian