In this episode, we break down the real assignment of the Christian life: not just getting saved, not just evangelizing, but holy living through discipleship and stewardship.

📌 We’ll Cover:

• Why the modern church created millions of converts but few disciples
• Why sanctification matters just as much as salvation
• How comfort and prosperity quietly destroy holy living
• What it really means to be a servant and steward of God
• Why singleness, marriage, and family are assignments, not personal projects

Callin' them Out Show Notes: https://nefreteri.com/what-are-christians-even-doing-here/

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If you’re saved, there’s no such thing as an “unanswered” prayer — God always answers: yes, no, or wait.

1. Why some prayers never reach God at all (hint: not everyone praying is His child).
2. The #1 reason believers don’t get answers: unconfessed sin and hidden shame.
3. The danger of mistaking self-righteousness for holiness.
4. How to tell when God’s “no” is really His protection.
5. What to do in the “wait” — when the answer exists, just not yet.
6. Real stories, real scripture, and how God still moves even when it feels silent.

Callin' them Out Show Notes: https://nefreteri.com/how-to-handle-unanswered-prayer/

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Let's go back to the basics

The power in the Christian walk comes from prayer, because God is the power behind us. If we don't know how to talk to Him or just don't we'll be left limping through our faith. We're gonna set the foundation for what prayer is here:

• Prayer isn’t just talking at God — it’s a real conversation with Him.
• Romans 8:26-27 reveals how the Holy Spirit literally helps us pray.
• Learn how all three persons of the Trinity are involved every time you pray.
• Get practical tools: A.C.T.S. and the Navigators hand model for prayer.
• Why adoration should come before confession (and how it changes everything).
• Tips to beat distraction, refocus your mind, and keep reverence in the conversation.

Callin' them Out Show Notes: https://nefreteri.com/prayer-101-a-conversation-with-our-heavenly-father/

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In America we feel like we need to hustle harder, earn more, or finally "make it" That pressure isn’t peace, and it’s definitely not from God. In this episode, we’re talking about contentment: what it really means for Christians and how it kills the lies of comparison, envy, and spiritual apathy. 

I think I have to round out Season 2 here and take a break while I restructure Season 3 with set dates and topics. Bear with me as I grow and learn guys. You can still find me on TikTok 🙏🏽

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https://nefreteri.com/contentment-in-a-world-that-wants-more/

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Struggling with doubt, unbelief, or weak faith? Challenging episode - We explore the Christian virtue of faith—what GOD SAYS it is, what it isn’t, and how to grow stronger in your walk with God through Scripture, prayer, and obedience.

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https://nefreteri.com/trusting-god-in-a-culture-of-doubt/

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Stay Salty Christians,

Nef 😉

We admire courage, but why is it so rare today-especially among believers? In this episode of LV, I dig deep into why fear has overtaken our culture and how true courage isn't self-made-it's rooted in faith, humility, and hope in God.

Lost Virtues blog post:

https://nefreteri.com/do-not-be-afraid-the-lost-art-of-godly-courage/

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Ahhh yes, the virtue we all jump to when we have disagreements. . . Not!! This episode we go over what Biblical forgiveness is compared to the world. And you betcha, we're gonna talk reconciliation. Tough, powerful episode, but if implemented, people's relationships would flourish.

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https://nefreteri.com/forgiveness-in-a-culture-of-cut-offs/

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In this episode, we’re breaking down HOPE, which lives between Despair and Gullibility. Christians must know that Jesus gives us hope in life to endure and, in death, salvation. We shouldn't get to caught up with speculation and getting too hopeful, that we fail to be vigilant, which may result in gullible actions.

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https://nefreteri.com/finding-true-christian-hope-in-a-hopeless-world/

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We’re breaking down Moderation (Temperance)—a virtue that keeps us from falling into the extremes of gluttony or excessive self-denial. We’ll explore Scripture, real-world statistics, and how modern food science is designed to keep us addicted. We're gonna talk about alcohol in here too! We'll round it out with practical tips to overcome it.

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https://nefreteri.com/the-visible-but-silent-sin-of-gluttony/

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We hear a lot about pride as Christians, but don't recognize that insecurities and low self-esteem are the other side. Humility, one of the most beautiful—but most misunderstood—virtues in the world, sits right in the middle. It's what allows us to know exactly who we are as God's creation.

Lost Virtues blog post:

https://nefreteri.com/lost-virtues-truth-about-humility/

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