What if real confidence is not loud, not performative, and not fighting for attention, but calm, grounded, and unshakable? Ashley sits down with Tara LaFon Gooch, host of Grasp Confidence, to talk about confidence that comes from Christ, identity rooted in God’s approval, and how to stop listening to the voice of fear, scarcity, and comparison.

This conversation also gets practical about protecting your marriage and legacy by closing the small “gaps” the enemy uses, how gratitude becomes a living prayer, and why surrendering your will can unlock the breakthrough you have been praying for.

What you will learn

• Why calm confidence is often the strongest kind
• The difference between arrogance and depth, the money jar analogy
• How to recognize the voice of fear vs the whisper of God
• Why comparison steals confidence, and how to break the cycle
• Collaboration creates legacy, gatekeeping shrinks your impact
• A practical way to close “space” in marriage and rebuild connection
• Gratitude as prayer without ceasing
• What surrender actually looks like when the math is not mathing

Favorite Quotes

• “Confidence is calm knowingness.”
• “If the jar is full, it doesn’t shake.”
• “The voice of God is a whisper, the opponent is loud.”
• “The enemy creates space, close the gap.”
• “God backed confidence is not worried about a giant.”
• “I no longer want what I want for myself.”

Scripture mentioned or referenced

• 1 Corinthians 13
• Proverbs 18:21 life and death in the power of the tongue
• 1 Thessalonians 5:17 pray without ceasing
• James 2:17 faith without works is dead
• Job 1 and 2
• David and Goliath 1 Samuel 17
• Armor of God Ephesians 6

Connect with Tara
Website: TaraLaFonGooch.com
Podcast: Grasp Confidence
LinkedIn: Tara LaFon Gooch

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Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth.

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