What does love actually look like when words aren't the primary language?
In this episode of Canadian Salad, Andrea and Hostion dig into one of their favourite frameworks — love languages — but through the lens of Asian culture and heritage in honour of Asian Heritage Month. They explore why acts of service and food are often the dominant expressions of care in many Asian households, why verbal affirmation can feel hollow or even suspicious in certain cultural contexts, and how saying "have you eaten?" is so much more than small talk.
They get personal too — sharing real stories of cultural misunderstandings, the generational gap between immigrant parents and their kids, and what happens when two people are speaking completely different emotional dialects. The conversation also ventures into business relationships, lateral violence, and the beautiful challenge of learning new love languages without abandoning where you came from.
Warm, funny, and genuinely insightful — this one's for anyone who's ever felt loved through a plate of food, a quiet act of care, or a comment about their weight that somehow meant "I see you."
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