In her early forties, Heidi Slansky of Keller, Texas was in the best shape of her life. She was a fitness fanatic and loved playing tennis. Her doctors had already started her on annual mammograms at age 38, and it was just a couple years later, in 2013, because of a mammogram, she was diagnosed with Stage III breast cancer that had already metastasized into her lymph nodes.
This was very difficult, as children were ages, five, seven and nine at the time. After engaging in a bit of research, Heidi learned her family has a mutation of the CHEK2 Gene, which trigger breast cancer and a variety of others cancers. Heidi if she had known about the mutation earlier, at an age earlier age, she would have far more proactive in paying attention to potential indicators of breast cancer, it would could have spotted at an earlier stage.
Heidi Slansky opted for a double mastectomy with reconstruction. The procedure was accompanied by an extremely aggressive chemotherapy regimen that included the drugs carboplatin, taxotere, perjeta and herceptin, that plus radiation therapy. Heidi went through six chemotherapy treatments, and said the last two were the toughest. Because her husband was working, he was often unavailable to drive her to her treatments, so she had to do it.
Like many undergoing chemotherapy, Heidi went bald. She tried wigs, but didn't like the idea, so she chose to wear lots of hats. She also was tired all the way, which made the tough job of raising three small children even tougher, having to plan the occasional nap after her kids' activities. It was in the summer of 2014 that Heidi started feeling and trending toward survivorship.
As difficult as chemotherapy was, Heidi Slansky is glad she went through the regimen, saying she would do anything to be there for her family.
Heidi later had a second cancer journey, but it was nearly as impactful as Stage III breast cancer.
When making an annual visit to her dermatologist, the doctor found a spot on the bridge of Heidi's nose that was cancerous. It turned out to be basal cell melanoma, which was easily treatable. Heidi had a lengthy incision made across her face, leaving her with a scar. Heidi is just thankful it wasn't the more challenging basal cell carcinoma, but either way, she urges anyone spending a lot of time in the sun to use sunscreen and to try to stay out of the sun during mid-day hours.
When Heidi was diagnosed with breast cancer, she lived in Kentucky. In 2016, she and her family moved to Texas, in the Fort Worth area. She doesn't think patients 'fight' cancer, believing much of that is done by doctors and nurses; and yet, inspired by pursuit of fitness and her personal cancer, she began a nonprofit for women diagnosed with breast cancer and those who have survived breast cancer called StrongHER. While it offers many services, it has a number of fitness classes for women in which they put on boxing gloves to dramatize their 'fighting'cancer, on the premise that going through the physical motions of 'fighting' empowers the women in the class.
By way of advice, Heidi Slansky says there are lots of support resources out there, and for the person diagnosed with cancer to choose the resource that best fits them.
Additional Resources:
Support Group: StrongHer https://www.cancerstrongher.org