Steve Jacobsen survived oropharyngeal cancer, a rare form of head and neck cancer. He achieved survivorship through a regimen of chemotherapy and radiation treatment. However, the journey took a tremendous emotional toll, both on Steve and his wife, who was his primary caregiver.
An avid athlete from Ventura, California, Steve’s journey began when he discovered a lump on the right side of his neck. He thought it might be a swollen lymph node, and in fact, it was. His general practitioner sent Steve to an ear, nose and throat specialist, who ran some tests and determined the lymph node indeed had some necrotic tissue, a sign that there could be some dead tissue there as a result of cancer.
Not long after that, Steve Jacobsen was diagnosed with oropharyngeal cancer. Specifically, that mean cancer was found on the back of his tongue, where the tongue extends to the Adam’s Apple. Steve felt no pain, not even a sore throat. The only indication of cancer was that swollen lymph node.
As part of his treatment, Steve was put on a feeding tube. What doctors never told him is the tube was there because he would have a difficult time swallowing. Steve couldn’t even swallow his own saliva. He had the feeding tube for a grueling six months. During that time, Steve wondered if he would ever be able to ever again eat food in a normal fashion. His daughter is a speech therapist, and she started Steve on a series of swallowing exercises, which he followed religiously. Even so, as he took a little plastic spoon of warmed apple juice and beet broth, again he wondered if he would ever eat normally.
Because his inability to eat normally was so stressful, Steve Jacobsen diverted his focus on the challenges of radiation treatment and chemotherapy. To deal with the stress from the feeding tube, Steve took advice from a friend who had had her own cancer journey, and he sought to keep moving. He would go on walks of a mile or a mile and a half, and he would seek to use the stairs as often as possible.
Eventually, Steve Jacobsen got the feeding tube removed. Not long after that, he underwent a PET scan, then another PET scan, and both PET scans revealed there was no more cancer.
He still goes in periodically to his ear, nose and throat specialist. He puts a tube down Steve’s nose, a tube that goes into his throat, the tube include a camera, which takes a picture and shows no evidence of cancer.
After the feeding tube was removed, Steve could not immediately return to eating normally. He started drinking a liquid drink in a normal way. Then he would have to have foods that were first pureed. His wife helped out by making smoothies, in an attempt to fatten him up, as during the treatment he had lost 35 pounds.
Then one day Steve Jacobsen went to his ear, nose and throat doctor, who said he didn’t know why Steve couldn’t start eating solid foods. Steve was elated and started with pea soup, meat loaf, vegetables and fruit.
Looking back, Steve Jacobsen says even through the darkest of times, he remained optimistic, as did wife Dorothy. While Steve likes to shy away from including the word “advice,” he says for anyone on a cancer journey, help is out there and to be sure to seek the help.