We know, we know. It has been a lil while since you have heard from us. We was a lil under the weather 🤧 and you can tell. Buttt in this episode we discuss people playing games and selling a person a dream when they are getting to know another person. Y'all know that is not right! But Katie and I found out we do that too. 😂 So join us on this ride. 

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Submission is a tricky little thing. Why is that women are the only beings in relationships that have to submit to their partner? We have to bend our will to your might and allow you to take us on a journey and you may have no clue where we are going! On this episode Katie & Nij discuss submission, what they have seen and how they view submission. 

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This episode is brought to you by the lovely Nijeria! It is her BIRTHDAYYYYYYYY. NIJDAY! BUT on to the meat of this episode...Have you ever gone on a date? Sure you have. OK but have you ever gone on a date and the person asked you to split the bill when it came? Bishhhhh we dont do that over here! We dont do dutch dates. If you cant pay, we cant go. 

Join in on the conversation as we discuss our thoughts and experiences on dutch dates. 

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Have you ever heard the phrase “Strong Black Woman” as a term of endearment? Well we’re hear to tell you that it’s not! The connotation behind it is belittling and humiliating! No one wants to go through struggle to be labeled “strong”. 

Also there is the notion that as a black woman we are inherently strong because we have to be! No one asks are we able to be strong. 

Checking all the boxes and being strong ate two concepts that we have yet to really figure out. 

Listen to as we discuss the topic and the way it’s perceived and our take! 

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President Joe Boutdamntime made Juneteenth a Federal holiday. How do y'all feel about EVERYONE getting off for this day that is significant to the eradication of the practice of enslavement of African people? Well, weeee dont like itttttttttt! Catch up with us as we talk about Juneteenth, how we felt about this "historical" moment and other fun stuff. 

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Yoooo, you ever just felt like the way a man was looking at you was making you uncomfortable? Or like he was causing you to randomly girate yo bootayy? Sis that is Male gaze working! Well today Katie and Nij discuss Male Gaze and how it effects them and people they have seen. 

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Turns out I am 100% that... well you know how that Lizzo song goes! But seriously Katie and Nij took the Ancestry DNA test to determine their lineage and any close relatives. And my oh my will the results surprise you. Take a listen to hear them breakdown their experience and the result they got. 

Would you go through with this test as well? Have you already done it?

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Can you believe it has been a year since we started this journey with you? We cannot! In today's episode we recap alll of our conversations. Hopefully for new KaNdie listeners, you will get a quick recap and want to go back and binge alllllll of our episodes from both seasons. 
This is not the end but the beginning. Thank you everyone for all your support and guidance! We love and appreciate you. 
 

It's our anniversary and the anniversary of George Floyd's murder. We always push Blackness and scream Black Lives Matter.

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It's the platonic relationship for meeeee. WE gotta make sure we are setting boundaries for the people that we are in community with. Relationships with people are important and how we navigate those relationships is important. If a person of the opposite gender tries to get at you or cross the friend zone line, how do you handle that?

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Have you ever met a person an instantly connected? How was that experience? We hope it was great for you! Well today we are talking about soul ties, relationships, and child we was cryyyingg. Ugh. Great relationships bring so much emotion out of you that it brought these thugs to tears! Make sure your spirit is aligned, you can heal so much trauma with that alone. 

If no one told you today, you are loved and appreciated. 

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