It is a blurrryyyyyyyy minefield out there when you have a FWB.

Is it ever a good idea?

Is there ever a good ending?

Let's discuss shall we...

Do you even really know the damage caused and long lasting effects that ghosting leaves on the other person?

Do you dread having this conversation?

When do you even bring it up - is the first date too soon?

Are they such big deal breakers?

Paul Foster & I are here to talk it out...

Being cheated on by your partner, albeit short or long term, is one of the most devastating situations that someone can go through.

Here's how you can start to recover from this painful experience and get over that person, to move on to healthier, happier future memories.

You know where I am if you need me: @nixalina

Honestly, I've changed my mind about this particular question.

It used to be a hard NO, but now, I see things less black and white, more shades of grey in between.

What do you guys think? Yay or nay? Let me know!

It wasn't fun.

It wasn't pretty.

The morphine was great though.

Here's some serious irony: The Toxic Positivity culture of Instagram is actually NEGATIVE. Negative for both the user and the follower.

Say it louder for the people at the back!

Let's delve in shall we?

How much do you really know about contraception?

How much do you know about STDs? (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)

Do you know the pros & cons of each contraception?

Which ones protect against STDs & act as birth control?

Paul Foster and I are here to talk it out.

I just can't even deal with this storytime.

I just can't.

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Happy International Women's Day everybody!!!

To celebrate all the women out there, here's my handy guide on tips to help us all become the best, most badass, versions of ourselves:

1. Scrap the success, live for the passion.
2. Always follow your own wild heart.
3. You have a voice. Use it.
4. Understand that opinions are not fact.
5. Drop the fear and take the leap.
6. Understand the difference of being confident vs loud & centre of attention.
7. Love yourself more than you love anything or anyone else.
8. Drop any toxic shit in your life.
9. Welcome all competition.
10. Don't shy away from confrontation, hold your own and deal with it there & then.
11. Forgive yourself for past mistakes, You didn't know any better back then.
12. Make that inner voice kind, not critical.
13. Embrace the lows, enjoy the highs.