Can't Relate

Can't Relate

By Riley Buckler, Alex Stucky, & Kelcie ThomasEducationSelf-Improvement
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Can't Relate episodes

  • epi 16 - these are my confessions

    this is the one where the hosts air their elementary school dirty laundry. kelc, alex, & ri were talking one day and realized they each had a deep, (not so) dark secret from ~2002 that they had never told anyone... so why not make their confessions on the pod?!

    in this episode:

    • stories of riley's and kelcie's elementary school that did not include modern luxuries like A/C
    • stucky's formal apology 22 years in the making
    • kelc compares the chips in a costco variety pack
    • riley's oral hygiene journey
    • follow us on insta: ⁠@cantrelate.pod⁠

      email questions, comments, praise, and stories about texting the numbers on bathroom walls to ⁠[email protected]⁠

      54 min
    • epi 15 - changin vs. chillin

      this ones for all our girls with a self improvement addiction. we talk about the ebb and flow of changing & evolving vs. sitting back to enjoy yourself and your life as it is.

      in this episode:

      • texts from our dads <3
      • stucky's a san diegan!
      • the balance between evolving and stopping to celebrate your evolution
      • is over-therapizing a thing?
      • resting does not equal being lazy
      • follow us on insta: ⁠@cantrelate.pod

        email questions, comments, praise, and san diego recs to ⁠[email protected]⁠

        58 min
      • epi 14 - thirty, flirty, & surviving

        is that a mirror in your ears? because we can see ourselves in your ear buds. ;) in this episode, ri, stuck, & kelc discuss flirting.

        you'll hear about:

        • the ken approach to flirting
        • why it's okay to flirt with pretty much everyone you see
        • the girls' takes about whether flirting is easier on the apps or in person
        • life hack: how to break the ice in the wild
        • follow us on insta: ⁠@cantrelate.pod⁠

          email questions, comments, praise, and pickup lines to ⁠[email protected]⁠

          1 hr 4 min
        • epi 13 - healthy and happy with ease (feat. certified health coach, meghan jaskinia)

          meghan jaskinia joins us to talk about her company, healthy and happy with ease, and her "conscious living" approach. years ago, her own health issues prompted her to redevelop her relationship with food. she found that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to healthy eating and living. her conscious eating method teaches her clients to listen to their bodies to determine what foods are healthy for them. she gives us tips on how to begin doing the same.

          meghan talks about:

          • her own health journey
          • finding the happy medium between healthy and happy
          • how to determine what's healthy for you
          • the necessary mental shift in regards to body image and health goals
          • meghan's website: healthyandhappywithease.com

            instagram accounts meghan loves:

            • her own, obvi: @healthyandhappywithease
            • @wakeupandreadthelabels
            • @thefoodbabe
            • @just.ingredients
            • follow us on insta: ⁠@cantrelate.pod⁠

              email questions, comments, praise, and healthy & happy recipes to ⁠[email protected]⁠

              1 hr 2 min
            • epi 12 - ...but keep in touch!

              today, your girls are talking about maintaining (and letting go of) adult friendships.

              in this episode:

              • why riley loves an only-reach-out-when-they-need-something friend
              • growing apart & wishing old friends the best from afar
              • resenting your phone for keeping you constantly available
              • stucky's tips for staying in touch
              • which one of the girls is basically a part-time dentist
              • follow us on insta: ⁠@cantrelate.pod⁠

                email questions, comments, praise, and target e-gift cards (for the 500 pack of twin-line flossers obvi) to ⁠[email protected]⁠

                1 hr 14 min
              • epi 11 - start small & let your pile of good things grow (feat. dr. jess bohlke)

                we're back with our first guest, dr. jess bohlke! dr. jess is a chiropractor, business owner, healer, and inspiration. her story is about overcoming cancer, but her message about self-advocacy and empowerment extends to every aspect of life. we talk to her about:

                • how tiny, positive changes compound to create bigger benefits
                  • how she listened to her body, advocated for herself, and consequently overcame cancer at age 20
                    • details about the holistic form of cancer treatment she underwent
                    • follow dr. jess on insta: @journeychiro.kc & @drjessbohlke

                      www.drjessbohlke.com

                      follow us on insta: ⁠@cantrelate.pod⁠

                      email questions, comments, praise, and dr. jess luv to ⁠[email protected]⁠

                      1 hr 29 min
                    • epi 10 - manifestation, hacking into your subconscious, & rotfl

                      in this episode, kelc, stuckle, & ri discuss mainfesting your dream life.

                      you'll hear about:

                      • lol vs. haha vs. lmao vs. hahahhaha
                      • what manifesting is not (hint: thinking positively, vision boards, etc.)
                      • the secret, three-step formula to actually manifest
                      • why it was always riley's destiny to be a sad girl™ (she can't help that she was born on a wednesday)
                      • PLUS, our first discount code!!! start manifesting today by signing up for the pathway membership at tobemagnetic.com. get 15% off with code CANTRELATE.

                        freebies as mentioned on the episode:

                        • expanded podcast by to be magnetic
                        • free clarity DI
                        • follow us on insta: @cantrelate.pod

                          email questions, comments, praise, & your biggest manifestation goal to [email protected]


                          1 hr 8 min
                        • epi 9 - enjoy the off-season

                          this is the final episode of the breakup series where your hosts discuss post-breakup healing. this episode isn’t just about breakups, though. the girls talk about general self-care strategies and the importance of always showing yourself love.

                          kelc, ri, & stuck discuss:

                          • kelcie's series of unfortunate events this morning
                          • self-care strategies the hosts have used to heal after breakups (and continue to use in their daily lives)
                          • the importance of a single era
                          • how it feels when you’re in authentic alignment, aka ~*lucky girl syndrome*~
                          • riley’s embarrassing instagram behavior
                          • follow us on insta: ⁠@cantrelate.pod⁠

                            email questions, comments, praise, and spa gift cards to ⁠[email protected]⁠

                            1 hr 15 min
                          • epi 8 - to break up with me you need a 500 word essay

                            this episode is the second in the breakup series. the series is broken out into three episodes covering pre-breakup, breakup, and post-breakup topics. in this epi, your hosts discuss the act of breaking up, including...

                            • the most traumatic breakup riley’s experienced (spoiler: it's taylor swift & joe alwyn’s)
                            • reactions to getting dumped—are you a cool girl alex or a need-a-dissertation-about-what-went-wrong riley?
                            • closure: why some people just can’t give it to you & how good it feels to give it to yourself
                            • what constitutes ghosting (vs. the fizzle)
                            • storytime about alex’s and kelc’s experiences with ghosting
                            • what a praline is
                            • follow us on insta: @cantrelate.pod

                              email questions, comments, praise, and your address to [email protected]

                              1 hr 15 min
                            • epi 7 - if it's not a f*ck yes, it's a f*ck no

                              this episode is the first of a ~bReAkUp~ series. the series is broken out into three episodes covering pre-breakup, breakup, and post-breakup topics. in this epi, your hosts discuss the pre-breakup, including...

                              • why we stay in relationships past their expiration date
                              • the anxiety of making the decision to end a relationship
                              • is "right person, wrong time" bullsh*t?
                              • how much "ick" to tolerate... whether it's from a significant other or someone you've only been on a few dates with
                              • stucky's experience dating the seven dwarves <3
                              • the scenario in which you shouldn't end a relationship you're unsure about
                              • follow us on insta: @cantrelate.pod

                                email questions, comments, praise, and breakup stories to [email protected]

                                1 hr 14 min

                              About Can't Relate

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