Can't Relate

Can't Relate

By Riley Buckler, Alex Stucky, & Kelcie ThomasEducationSelf-Improvement
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Can't Relate episodes

  • epi 6 - I hate to say yolo but...

    in this episode, kelc, alex, & ri are discussing moving out of state.


    we'll talk about:

    • kelcie’s religious experience at the taylor swift concert
    • a couple wedding hot takes we forgot (we'll stop talking about wedding traditions when they stop being dumb okay)
    • STUCKY’S MOVING! where she’s headed and how she came to the decision to abandon riley
    • the right time and headspace to make life-changing decisions
    • how stucky plans to go about making friends in a new city
    • how a uhaul & an office supply store sealed the deal for kelc moving to AZ


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      1 hr 7 min
    • epi 5 - let's piss off some brides

      by popular demand, our topic this week is wedding hot takes. our sincerest apologies to all the brides and brides-to-be… just because we hate your bridal shower doesn’t mean we hate you. <3

      in this episode you'll hear about:

      • riley’s exclusive birthday scavenger hunt murder mystery party bus
      • the overratedness (made-up word? probably) of the life timeline
      • what we think about ~the one~
      • more hot takes on the apparently contentious topic of bridal showers
      • kelcie’s caption icks
      • the hosts' AIM screen names circa 2007
      • the one (relatively simple) concept alex just can't wrap her head around

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        1 hr 5 min
      • epi 4 - I meal prep so I have more energy to choose guys

        your girlies are back for riley's BiRtHdAy ePi where they talk about choice overload in dating. knowin' when to hold em and when to fold em if you will.


        in this episode, you'll hear about:

        • alex's attempted grand theft auto
        • kelcie milan, our resident dog whisperer
        • riley's existential crisis about turning 29 but actually 30
        • whether you're a hesitater, romanticizer, or maximizer 
        • formulating your non-negotiables list for a partner
        • what it feels like when you finally choose ~the one~


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          1 hr 20 min
        • epi 3 - I had to pretend like I didn't like nickelback

          on this epi, riley, stucky, and kelcie chat about people pleasing. no one (except maybe your therapist) is better equipped to talk about this topic than your favorite recovering people pleasers. your ears will be pleased, so please listen if you please.

          they'll discuss:

          • what people pleasing is (as defined by merriam & webster themselves)
          • why it's detrimental to your self worth
          • behaviors you might not have realized were people pleasing
          • ways to stop pleasing others and start being pleased
          • serial killer level sleeping behaviors
          • graphic tees & jorts

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            1 hr 9 min
          • epi 2 - a solid 9 in more ways than one

            stuck, kelc, & ri are back to throw down some knowledge about the enneagram, a personality typing tool that groups people into types based on internal motivations. each type is represented by a number, 1 through 9.

            inside the epi you'll hear:

            • more about what the enneagram is
            • descriptions of each type
            • how your dominant instinct can influence your type
            • the hosts' experiences as their types
            • a never-before-heard glimpse into a relationship between a 9 and a 3 (or maybe a 4... undecided)
            • some strong opinions about french fries 

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              59 min
            • epi 1 - who even is she?

              join dj kelcie minaj, stucklebug, & riley from accounting as they explore the topic IDENTITY. they'll explain who they even are and why they're even here.

              they touch on:

              • finding their authentic selves
              • leaving codependent relationships
              • moving across the country (for a boy)
              • shedding the identity of being a teacher
              • being a recovering people pleaser
              • how much can you go over the speed limit without getting pulled over

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                57 min

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