Are you just a super compassionate leader?

Or is it passivity in disguise?

We see so many men being "nice guys" instead of kind men, because they're overwhelmed, afraid of conflict, unsure what to do, obsessed with comfort...whatever the reason, it's causing grief in your family.

In this episode we talk about why you might actually be patting yourself on the back for something that isn't actually compassionate, and how to fix it.

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In This Episode:

0:00 Intro

1:17 When everything falls apart, even though you're being "nice"

4:26 Misplacing compassion

7:25 Values drive right action

12:59 Gaining leadership when you've been too "compassionate"

20:47 Justifying overwhelm and passivity

28:40 The cost

36:50 What might you still need to surrender?

51:37 The next move

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