To keep developing and renovating your career requires honing your communication skills, including speaking in public,.
Speaking in public terrifies many people. It doesn't have to be that way.
Speaking in public for the first time absolutely petrified me.
It was at my wedding reception.
As the groom, I absolutely messed it up big time. My wedding day was great, except for that bumbling speech
A few months later I vowed I would learn how to speak in public and not feel sick in the stomach ever again.
At first people told me that a speech consists of a beginning, middle and end.
I was also told that what you need to do in a speech is “… first tell them what the speech is about, then tell them a few points in the middle, and finally tell them what the speech was about, again.”
Simple, but not very helpful, as the pit of my stomach continued to churn.
Always my little voice in my head said:
“Why would anyone want to hear what I have to say?”
“Will they think I’m bumbling fool?”
“There are better and more qualified people to speak?” etc.
I had to get over it and conquer that voice.
That I did with a speech production system based on:
Be absolutely clear on why you are speaking
Research your topic thoroughly
Identify and construct you particular point of view
Assemble your arguments, if required (I use a mind map process)
Understand your Audience as much as you can
Write your speech, but learn not to read it
Take your speech from the page into your head
Rehearse, rehearse, rehearse
Learn to work without your aids,
Reduce, or elimina5te, PowerPoint Purgatory
Visit the venue where you’ll deliver your speech
Write the MC’s introduction notes and finally
Be prepared to response to your audience.
I remember a lecturer at university who was fanatical about starting his presentation exactly on time, to the second.
On one occasion, the location of lecture was changed and we weren’t told.
Ten minutes later we discovered the new location and marched into the hall.
To our astonishment there was the Professor, with an overhead and pointer, lecturing to an empty hall and continued to do so while we took our seats.
He was a great lecturer, but a little eccentric and thought an audience was irrelevant to doing his job.
After decades of broadcasting and speaking in public, I still follow a speaking process, when I blog, interview, speak in public, and now when I broadcast via the Internet.
On second thoughts, maybe I’m a bit weird too.
A well-known Australian broadcaster and journalist, Terry, pointed me in the right direction to overcome my fear of a microphone and speaking to large audiences.
He dared me to become intelligible and told me that for every long interview he prepared by researching and reading the relevant material for about eight hours. He then worked out if he had a unique point of view or insight about the topic.
Being intelligible meant devoting time to preparing questions and arguments to create an insightful point of view.
Terry, my mentor, lived in fear that he would ask stupid questions and make stupid statements and therefore insult his guest and his audience.
For 40 weeks every year, Terry conducted five one-hour interview programs every week, with at least 1600 hours of preparation. He devoted this effort to engage his audience and build audience loyalty. This he did for 30 years.
As a broadcaster, he was absolutely clear of his purpose – to engage, inform, entertain and build a loyal audience.
Terry said the same applied to speaking in public.
When he spoke at a conference, as a keynote speaker, his research, thinking time, preparation and rehearsal took days.
Understanding the Purpose is critical to overcoming Speaking Fear
I also witnessed a well-known science journalist, who was a broadcaster and writer, present his keynote speech that ended in disaster.