🔥 The shocking truth about what's actually breaking relationships apart...Most couples think they need grand gestures, expensive therapy, or perfect communication to save their relationship. But the real relationship killer?Leaving connection to chance.In this episode, we reveal the ONE thing that 90% of couples completely skip - and it's costing them their relationship. We're talking about intentional couple care planning, and why creating a "couple care menu" might be the most important thing you do for your relationship this year.🎯 What You'll Learn:The #1 reason couples drift apart (it's not what you think)How to create your own couple care menu in under 10 minutesWhy spontaneity is actually killing your connection25+ couple care ideas for any budget, time, or energy levelThe difference between couples who thrive vs. couples who surviveABOUT US:We're Carlene and Jaime, and we've been married for 17 years. After nearly losing our own relationship to the "roommate trap," we discovered the power of intentional couple care. Now we help couples reconnect and build relationships that actually last.💬 LET'S CONNECT:What's one thing from your couple care menu that you want to try this week? Drop it in the comments below! We read every single one and often feature your stories in future videos.

Is your relationship running on autopilot?In this episode, we’re breaking down what Couple Care really means — and why it’s the secret ingredient most couples are missing.We’re sharing:🌿 What “Couple Care” actually is (it’s more than just date night)🙏🏾 How to invite God into the daily rhythm of your relationship💛 3 easy practices that build connection, trust, and joy🎉 Plus: How to start your own “Couple Care Menu” todayWhether your marriage feels disconnected or just in need of a tune-up, this episode is your reminder that love needs tending.🔔 Subscribe for more faith-based encouragement, practical tools, and real talk to help you build a marriage that lasts.

💬 In this episode, we dive deep into why waiting to have kids was the best decision for our marriage. From building a stronger emotional connection to exploring personal goals, delaying parenthood gave us the space to grow—individually and together.🎧 What you’ll hear in this episode: • Why we chose to delay starting a family • The surprising benefits for our communication and intimacy • How career growth and travel shaped our bond • Advice for couples considering waiting to have kids • Honest reflections on societal pressure, family expectations, and what we’d do differentlyWhether you’re married, engaged, or simply curious about how timing affects relationships, this conversation is for you.🔔 Subscribe for more real, raw conversations about love, marriage, and intentional living.👍 If this resonated with you, give it a like and share with someone navigating the same decision.💬 Tell us in the comments: Have you considered delaying parenthood? Why or why not?#MarriagePodcast #DelayingParenthood #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageGoals #CouplesTalk #MillennialMarriage #IntentionalLiving #ParentingDecisions #LoveAndMarriage #StrongRelationships

Are you and your partner living like roommates instead of lovers? In this raw and honest conversation, we dive deep into what happens when life gets so busy that you forget how to connect with the person you love most.What We Cover:The warning signs that busyness is killing your relationshipWhy "quality time" isn't enough (and what actually works)How to reconnect when you're both exhausted and overwhelmedThe 15-minute daily habit that saved our marriageSetting boundaries with work, kids, and life to protect your relationshipWhy scheduling romance isn't unromantic—it's essentialPerfect for couples who:✓ Feel like they're just going through the motions✓ Can't remember the last time they had a real conversation✓ Want to reconnect but don't know where to start✓ Are tired of putting their relationship on the back burnerDon't let busyness be the reason your love story ends. Sometimes the best thing you can do for your relationship is hit the reset button.What's your biggest relationship challenge right now? Let us know in the comments below! 👇Follow us on instagram:  @CarleneplusJaime  #MarriageAdvice #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipGoals #MarriageReset #BusyCouples #RelationshipTips #MarriageTips #CouplesCommunication #LoveAndMarriage #HealthyRelationships

Are you and your spouse going through a rough patch? Learn how to handle difficult marriage problems privately without involving the whole world. In this episode of Carlene + Jaime explore why privacy in marriage matters and how to work through challenges as a team - just the two of you.

🎯 What You'll Learn:

Why keeping marriage problems private actually strengthens your relationship

How to resist the urge to vent to friends, family, and social media

Effective ways to communicate and solve problems between yourselves

When it's appropriate to seek outside help (and when it's not)

How to create a safe space for honest conversations at home

🤐 Signs you might be oversharing your marriage problems:

Complaining about your spouse to friends or family

Posting cryptic messages on social media about your relationship

Seeking validation from others instead of your partner

Feeling like everyone knows your business

This episode focuses on building a stronger, more private bond with your spouse. Learn how successful couples handle difficulties internally while maintaining respect, dignity, and ultimately solving problems together.

🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more practical marriage advice that keeps your relationship strong and private!

In this episode, we break down the toxic relationship between Chrisean Rock and Blueface to reveal the 3 essential things every couple MUST do before getting married. Their drama-filled relationship teaches us valuable lessons about red flags, communication, and relationship foundations.

🚨 BREAKING: Will Smith just admitted he made a "very very very terrible mistake" with his parenting approach - and we're breaking down exactly why his "radical honesty" method backfired!In this explosive episode, parenting experts Carlene and Jaime react to Will Smith's shocking confession from his recent Heart Breakfast interview where he revealed how his parenting philosophy damaged his relationship with Jaden and Willow.⚡ WHAT WE UNCOVER:✅ Will Smith's exact words about his parenting "mistake"❌ Why "radical honesty" can be harmful to children's development🧠 The psychology behind why this approach backfires💡 What parents should do INSTEAD (evidence-based alternatives)🎯 Red flags every parent needs to watch for💭 DISCUSSION POINTS:Evidence-based parenting strategies that actually workSetting healthy boundaries vs. radical transparency

In this powerful discussion, we explore the unique challenges and opportunities facing Black girls and young women in today's political climate. As parents, educators, and community members, how do we nurture strength, confidence, and resilience in the next generation of Black leaders?This video covers:Building unshakeable self-worth in environments that may not always affirm their valueTeaching critical thinking skills to navigate media, politics, and social pressuresCelebrating Black excellence while acknowledging real challengesPractical strategies for parents and caregiversWhether you're a parent, teacher, mentor, or ally, this conversation offers insights into empowering young Black women to thrive despite obstacles. We discuss how to balance protecting their innocence while preparing them for reality, and how to instill both pride in their heritage and tools for success in any environment.Join the conversation in the comments about your own experiences and strategies for raising confident, resilient young women who know their worth and power.

Raising resilient Black queens begins with affirming identity, embracing joy, and equipping our daughters with the tools to navigate a world that often challenges their worth. In this heartfelt episode, we delve into empowering practices like daily affirmations, celebrating Blackness, and recognizing the importance of teaching our children to confront microaggressions with confidence and grace. This conversation is about building strength, cultivating emotional wellness, and fostering genuine connections in a society that doesn't always value our stories. Discover how creating a village of support—through home, school, and community—helps instill pride and resilience in the next generation of Black leaders. We share insights on affirming individuality, the beauty of our heritage, and the significance of teaching real history to ensure our children grow up self-assured and empowered. Join us as we reflect on the emotional weight of parenting, the mutual commitment to lifting up Black excellence, and the journey of recognizing your worth and standing tall in every space.

What happens when we let go of our carefully laid plans and step boldly into the unknown? In this powerful conversation, we explore the beautiful tension between human planning and divine purpose—and why God's greatest work often happens in the spaces we never saw coming.From Abraham's call to leave everything familiar behind, to the disciples dropping their nets to follow Jesus, scripture is filled with ordinary people who said "yes" to extraordinary invitations. But what does this look like in our modern lives? How do we distinguish between reckless abandon and faithful obedience?

Whether you're facing a major life transition, feeling stuck in routine, or sensing a stirring to pursue something that seems impossible, this conversation will challenge you to see uncertainty not as an enemy, but as the very place where miracles are born.Sometimes the most profound question isn't "What's my five-year plan?" but rather "God, what are you inviting me into today?"Perfect for: Anyone wrestling with big decisions, feeling called to something new, or simply wanting to live with greater faith and expectancy.Connect with us:Subscribe for weekly episodes on faith, purpose, and living boldlyShare your own "stepping out" story in the commentsJoin our community discussion using #IntoTheUnknownRemember: The God who parted seas and moved mountains is the same God writing your story today. What if the unknown isn't something to fear, but somewhere to flourish?