Caught Off Guard

In today's episode I talk about how asking the question, " can I do this?" does not always lead us to the path we want to be on. It turns out, we're much more capable than we think.

A better question I've found myself asking is:

Do I want to do this? Do I like doing this? does this bring me joy?

Enjoy today's episode. I will be taking a summer break, see you soon!

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In this episode, I touch on the messiness of expansion and what it looks and feels like to be between two worlds or two lives and giving ourselves the grace to live in the in-between.

0:00 - 9:11 Intro + Announcements

9:11 Episode begins

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We are so used to creating change from shame and guilt or place of self-hatred and it never sticks. In this episode, I talk about how lasting, sustainable change comes from an acceptance of your situation and a nice sprinkling of self love.

10:36 Episode Begins

14:15 Acceptance vs. Denial

25:28 The Role Self Love Plays in Change

34:27 The Energy Behind Change

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14:00 - My interview with Jace from Single and Hungry Club

In this episode, I was interviewed by Jace, who runs the Single and Hungry Club, which is based in Beacon, NY. We talk about the problems in dating culture today, boundaries and how dating post divorce looks a little bit different.

My advice? If you want to meet your person, go be the best version of yourself. You want to find your soulmate? Go meet your own soul. Take the focus back to yourself and let the magic unfold. 

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Living Libations

How clearing out our blocks allows us to choose what we want to replace it with and what we want to create in our lives. Clearing out the blocks allows us to access deeper layers of love. And how the way time moves is not how it used to be!

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This episode is all about 'The Artist's Way,' a 12-week book by Julia Cameron, which guides us through a spiritual practice to connect more to our artistry. I delve into the weekly tasks, morning pages, challenges and insights, emphasizing the importance of living in alignment for creativity. I talk about the experience of living an artist's life and the process of recovering a sense of possibility, connection, strength, compassion, self-protection and faith.

I also share some of my favorite quotes from the book, what resonated most for me, my opinions, and some suggestions if you decide to give the book a try.

Key Takeaway:

• Living the life of an artist = living in alignment, which is not easy, but is essential for creativity.

00:00 - 00:13 Announcements/Intro

00:13 - 01:04 full episode on The Artist's Way recap, key takeaways, thoughts, likes/dislikes and recommendations

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A dive into : What is TBM (To Be Magnetic)? The manifestation phases, a Magic Dark, How to spot the phase you're in, moving through challenging times, tools and the power of saying no and holding strong through discomfort.

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In this episode, I interview my dear friend, Aileen Kyoko, a Japanese-American actress, screenwriter, playwright and photographer. You can find her here and support her newest film here.

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Intro 0:00 - 11:27

11:27 Interview

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00:00-12:25 Announcements

12:25 episode begins

13:21 Alysa Liu's background, retiring and returning

16:38 Detachment from outcome

27:32 Perfection vs. fun

38:03 Burnout, sustainability and beginner energy

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n this episode, I sit down with my friend Michael Tyler to talk about what happens when the path you thought you were on takes an unexpected turn.

Michael Tyler moved to New York from Colorado to pursue acting. Like many actors, he picked up a survival job selling comedy and Broadway tickets in Times Square. What started as a way to pay the bills turned into something much bigger - he and a friend realized they could do it better than the people they were working for and seven years later, they’re running a company.

We talk about identity, letting go of rigid plans, creativity in business and how the thing you “fall into” can be the thing you’re meant to build.

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Yaelokre's album Composing Colentine

FlavCity Powdered Latte

The Artists Way