Chai Convo

Stepping out of your comfort zone is one of the courageous "life tasks"being certain and clear I'm what you want to do and why you want to do is really a great deal.Intending to do anything while doing another may confuse The Universe.Listen to the episode while i tell you how that can work for you.

Being who you are meant to become is an inside job but the detailed aspects of the glimpse of who you are becoming is always peeping in (your)personality context.Who you are is not who you are if you are not in-tuned with who you are becoming.Makes sense?Listen to the episode as i'm trying to reinvent the art of becoming as titled in Michelle Obama's unread book(I need to finally touch those pages)

Kajala Masanja is a Tanzanian actress while Harmonize is one of the Mega Bongo-Flavor Artists.The baby come back theme that is ongoing has made me thought of it as what most of our modern relationships have turned into.Harmonize tries to apologize to Kajala while also trying to drag the fans along and do it the Kanye's style only this one wants tge girl back so he could marry her.

We are in a journey of re-discovering what makes us whole.What's really important and what's not worthy of being labelled as a gender problem.Are we selling words or actions?Are we our experiences or are we powerful enough to break our "generatiional curses"and turn them into blessings.Knowledge is indeed powerful but comprehension is indeed a true change maker.Contribution credits(Male perspectives): Nikki Mbishi(Tanzanian Hiphop Artist).

Borrowed this tweet from Mark Manson(The Author of "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck)...And it reminded me of the song i wrote three years ago when i had an AHA! moment of letting my past be what needs to be...and start over with whatever that i could change and be okay with what i can't undo...Well,lyricalls it doesn't say much of "Goodbye Yesterday"as in Hopeless-Dione Farris (Love Jones)But...it pretty much made sense of the age where i thought my trouble began...I9 years of age.As i shared my experience with y'all...Remember there's so much of you,you haven't met yet.Old mistakes are old...You can restart,recommit and reappear over and over again.Seize the moment.

We have an ongoing "crisis"of ghosting and gaslightimg....texting back late(deliberately) and blocking /unblocking games just tp be in charge( Unrealistically)of the other person's submission in the relationship.

Menstrual activities can sometimes go crazy and alter our lifestyle or behaviours.A reminder that we are aware and understand our monthly struggles.

From a doormat to a dreamgirl?This is an introduction of the next discussion of the upcoming episode that we would like to call "A Book Review"of Sherry Argov's book...Why Men Love Bitches.

Friendship just like any other relationship needs a lot of work.First things first,To identify it...To nurture it and to maintain it.It does sound easy pointing out here but is it really?Listen to the new episode about "Expectancies Of Friendship"and give us your feedback.

So before robbing the bank and run out of all the money for that getaway or perfect gift,make sure you understand the status of your relationship.