If you’ve been journaling, visualizing, or making vision boards but still not getting what you want—this episode is for you. Legan and Max break down five powerful truths that will completely change how you manifest so you can finally align with the results you’ve been chasing.

You’ll learn why your unconscious mind—not your wish list—decides what shows up, how hidden trauma and low-vibration energy push your desires away, and the simple shift that stops resistance in its tracks. They’ll show you how to use emotion to rewire your subconscious, trust the process (even when life feels off track), and raise your energy so you naturally attract the right people, opportunities, and experiences.

🎧 In this episode:

• The #1 reason your manifestations aren’t working (and how to fix it)

• How to tell if your desire is ego-driven or soul-aligned

• Why emotional experiences are the fastest way to create change

• A mindset shift that makes you magnetic to what you want
  

Manifestation isn’t about forcing outcomes—it’s about becoming the version of you who can receive them.

📩 Connect with us:

Legan – www.leganlyons.com

Max – www.askcoachmax.com

This week on Chaos and Chemistry, Legan and Max dive deep into the emotionally charged world of long-distance relationships—and things get personal. Max shares insights from his own LDR, while both hosts explore how attachment styles play a huge role in shaping the challenges (and growth opportunities) of being far apart.

Whether you're anxiously clinging to texts or loving the freedom of distance, this episode breaks down how long-distance setups impact avoidant and anxious partners differently—and why both styles may secretly be choosing distance on purpose.

You’ll learn:

• Why LDRs often feel romantic but can hide deeper wounds

• How avoidants and anxiously attached people each get trapped in LDR patterns

• What makes an LDR work—and what makes it implode

• The critical importance of emotional and physical closeness

• Why self-love and honest communication are the real cheat codes

This is a must-listen if you're in a long-distance relationship, considering one, or trying to heal from one. Full of raw truth, personal stories, and practical tools to move toward closeness—whether together or apart.

Links & Resources:🎧 More at: www.chaosandchemistry.com🔗 Max: www.askcoachmax.com🔗 Legan: www.leganlyons.com

This week on Chaos and Chemistry, Legan and Max tackle a frustrating feeling so many of us face: the belief that we’ve somehow regressed in our healing.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “back at square one” after doing so much work on yourself—this episode is for you. Legan and Max break down why that feeling is almost never true… and why it’s often a hidden sign of deep, next-level growth.

They explore:

• Why “old patterns” don’t mean you’re broken

• How more intimacy and success activate deeper healing layers

• Why the “dark night of the soul” feels like hell—but is the path to love

• What it really means to grow through pain, fear, and identity loss

• The truth about your fear zones and how to move forward through them

• How to respond when you feel like you’re failing again

This episode is packed with powerful re-frames for anyone facing emotional setbacks, resurfaced wounds, or self-doubt on the healing path. You'll leave with a clearer understanding of why your hardest moments might be your bravest breakthroughs.

🔗 Learn more:

www.chaosandchemistry.com

www.leganlyons.com

www.askcoachmax.com

This week, Legan and Max sit down with executive coach and brand strategist Brandy Holder for a raw, vulnerable, and ultimately hopeful conversation about grief, healing, and finding love after unimaginable loss. Brandy shares the story of losing her husband to cancer just 44 days after their wedding—and how that experience cracked open a journey of emotional survival, financial reinvention, and deep personal transformation.

Together, they explore:

-What healthy love looks like after years of chaos and codependency

-How childhood messages about independence shape who we choose

-Why success doesn’t fix the parts of us still hurting

-What it means to grieve while someone is still alive—and how to heal after they’re gone

-The power of attracting love based on choice, not need

-And why healing isn’t something you perform for others

Brandy’s story is proof that it's possible to rebuild a peaceful, joyful life and love from the ashes. If you’ve ever felt broken by loss, or unsure what comes next, this conversation offers both clarity and comfort.

Find Brandy on LinkedIn at Brandy L. Holder.

⁠www.chaosandchemistry.com⁠

In this episode of Chaos and Chemistry, Max and Legan unpack a subtle but life-changing truth: the difference between wanting something and needing it to feel okay. When desire becomes attachment, your peace, worth, and joy get tied to outcomes outside of you—like a text, job, or relationship. The result? Anxiety, burnout, and a constant feeling of not-enoughness. But when you learn to want without clinging, everything changes.

🎧 Tune in to explore:

• The emotional spiral of attachment

• Why anxious love feels so addictive

• How society wires us to chase and never arrive

• The 3 types of hidden addictions (power, security, sensation)

• How to loosen your grip and come back home to yourself

No one and nothing outside of you is your home. You are.

🌀 www.chaosandchemistry.com |

In this episode, Legan and Max return to one of the mostpivotal questions in a struggling relationship: Is today the day I leave?

Building on last episode’s theme of navigating misery in arelationship, this conversation explores the moment when your answer to that question changes—and staying no longer feels like the obvious choice.

This episode is not about reactive decisions or giving uptoo soon. Instead, it’s about tuning into your inner knowing, honoring your emotional process, and finding clarity. Legan and Max walk you through five essential signs that indicate you're in the right emotional and mental space to truly let go—without running away from yourself in the process.

What you'll learn:

• Why leaving a relationship without inner peace can keep you stuck in the same patterns
• How to know if you’ve done your own work or if you’re still projecting blame
• The difference between reactive emotion and deep emotional processing
• What it means to grieve what you hoped the relationship would become
• How to leave with love, clarity, and no loose ends

Whether you're considering a breakup or looking to betterunderstand your relationship dynamics, this episode offers grounded guidance on how to know if today is the day to go—and how to do it with your heart fully intact.

🔑 Takeaway: You don’t leave to escape. You leave when you’ve done the work, honored the journey, and can say goodbye with peace.

🔗 Resources & discovery call info: www.chaosandchemistry.com

📩 Reach us: ⁠[email protected]

Feeling stuck in a relationship that makes you miserable—but also feeling like you can’t leave? You’re not alone. In this powerful episode, hosts Legan and Max dive into the paradox of loving someone who brings you pain.

They break down five transformative strategies to help you navigate this emotional catch-22—from taking radical responsibility to practicing full commitment (just for today) and breaking free from resentment and rigid thinking. This episode isn’t about blaming your partner—it's about reclaiming your power, finding clarity, and rediscovering compassion for yourself and the person you're with.

🧠 You’ll learn how to:

• Stop seeing yourself as a victim and reconnect with your agency

• Commit fully, one day at a time, to get clear on what you truly want

• Break cycles of resentment that silently destroy love

• Inject curiosity and doubt into toxic belief patterns

• Return to compassion, simplicity, and wonder in your relationship

💡 Whether you're questioning your relationship or just feeling emotionally trapped, this episode offers real tools to shift your experience—starting now.

🔗 Resources & discovery call info: www.chaosandchemistry.com

📩 Reach us: [email protected]

In this episode, Legan and Max are joined by Julie Peters, a transformational life coach and dream weaver. Julie shares her journey from unfulfilling relationships to discovering self-leadership and how she now helps others create lives they truly love.

They explore the connection between self-relationship and reality, how energy impacts our lives, and the importance of aligning inner beliefs with external success. Julie breaks down the concept of self-leadership—embracing self-love, integrity, and responsibility—and how it shapes financial abundance and personal fulfillment.

Julie also shares practical tips on identifying your dreams, shifting your energy, and stepping into the life you truly want. Plus, learn why embracing your current consciousness level is crucial for growth.

Tune in for insights on manifesting abundance, the power of self-awareness, and how to elevate your energy to transform your reality!

Connect with Julie Peters on Facebook at Julie Peters Mindset Coaching, and mention "Chaos and Chemistry" for a free video call to explore your dreams and break through limiting beliefs.

Find Julie at:

https://www.facebook.com/p/Julie-Peters-Mindset-Coaching-61555764813631/

Join hosts Legan and Max as they unravel the real meaning of being "high value" beyond the internet's obsession with strategy and appearances. This episode challenges the common belief that value is something you achieve through external tactics. Instead, they dive deep into the truth: real value is an inner journey of self-discovery, not a mask you wear.

Explore the key attributes of genuinely high-value individuals, including:

• Taking full responsibility for your actions and reactions.

• Balancing healthy masculine and feminine energies within yourself.

• Trusting your intuition and staying grounded in the present.

• Moving away from strategy and into authenticity.

• Cultivating self-awareness and deep connections with others.

Legan and Max break down why strategy-based "value" is often fear-driven and leads to inauthentic connections. True value isn’t found; it’s uncovered within you.

Tune in to learn how embracing your true self—not strategy—leads to real, lasting connections.

Connect with us:
🌐 www.chaosandchemistry.com
✉️ [email protected]

Discover the power of showing up as your authentic self—no games, no strategy, just true value.

Join Legan and Max on Chaos and Chemistry as they dive into the critical distinction between healthy expectations and harmful entitlement in relationships. Understanding this boundary is essential for building authentic connections and avoiding unnecessary conflict.

Discover the traits of healthy expectations—mutual respect, open communication, and reasonable needs—and how your understanding of these may be shaped by childhood experiences. Learn how entitled expectations often come from a self-centered mindset, expecting a partner to abandon themselves to meet your needs, and how this can mask unresolved emotional wounds. Entitlement doesn’t foster connection—it creates a prison.

Legan and Max explore how these entitled patterns often stem from what we witnessed growing up and the belief that someone owes us something. They share practical ways to shift from entitlement to healthy expectations—by softening your stance, accepting imperfection, staying curious, and recognizing your own patterns.

This episode will help you spot red flags in yourself and transform the way you show up in relationships—so you can build stronger, more secure connections.

Visit www.chaosandchemistry.com for more.