In this episode, I have a conversation with Riley Sewell about sex. We talk about how God sees sex, why it’s so important for the church to talk about sex and how we can honor God with our sexuality.

Resources:

https://relevantmagazine.com/life5/relationships/where-does-bible-say-extra-marital-sex-wrong/

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𝐉𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 👇🏼

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In this episode, I have a conversation with Katrina McCain about the hurt that purity culture has caused in the church, what purity really is, why purity is important in our walk with Jesus and why virginity does not equal purity.


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𝐉𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 👇🏼

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In this episode, I have a conversation with Nicole Honeywill about toxic femininity, 'feminazis' & the men’s rights movement. We talk about healthy femininity and how we can care about gender based violence, women’s rights and also acknowledge the challenges men face within society.

Resources:

The red Pill documentary

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In this episode, I have a conversation with Robynn King about the notion of race in South Africa, what racism really is and how the church can actively engage in conversations around race as well as practically dismantle some of the systems of racism and oppression.

𝐉𝐨𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲 👇🏼

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Robynn's Podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-hard-things-podcast


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In this episode, I have a conversation with Rylie Silva about the root of hook-up culture, how to practically live out Godly singleness in an oversexualized world, and how church rhetoric has harmed our view of singleness.


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In this episode, I have a conversation with Thornton Fincham about toxic masculinity and its contribution to Gender-Based Violence in South Africa. We talk about what healthy masculinity is and how it is perverted through society and the current South African school system. We also touch on some practical and systematic changes that we believe will cultivate healthy and Godly masculinity.

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Resources:

The way of men by Jack Donovan (book)

https://www.tolerance.org/magazine/what-we-mean-when-we-say-toxic-masculinity

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/12/learning/lesson-plans/boys-to-men-teaching-and-learning-about-masculinity-in-an-age-of-change.html

In this episode, Sarah Ritson shares her journey of getting addicted to pornography and her testimony of overcoming that same addiction. We also discuss the harm that the church has done by labeling pornography as a guy issue and how the porn industry endorses and enables human trafficking.

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Resources:

Exodus Cry: https://exoduscry.com/
Sign the petition to END PORNHUB #traffickinghub: https://traffickinghub.com/
"Free Porn to Porn Free" series - https://subsplash.com/breakaway/messages/ms/+251c46f
EXODUS by Ezikiel Azonwu - https://youtu.be/lNK1RX6vZD4
Fight the New Drug - https://fightthenewdrug.org/
Pluggedin - https://www.pluggedin.com/
Fortify App - https://www.joinfortify.com/

Helpful books:

Kill the Spider- Carlos Whittaker
If You Only Knew- Jamie Ivey
Stop Calling Me Beautiful- Phylicia Masonheimer
Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot- Mo Isom

In this episode, you can expect a raw and vulnerable conversation with your host, Lorinda Pretorius, facilitated by her great friend, Deborah, addressing her recent post on Instagram about her mental health struggles and the pressure that goes along with being a strong Christian woman with a platform.

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Link to the Instagram post discussed: https://www.instagram.com/p/CB_SSDzlSWr/?igshid=1lqc902zm1yf8


Resources

Narrative Therapy: http://coramdeo.co.za

You will be found (song): https://youtu.be/mSfH2AuhXfw

Jackie Hill Perry video: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CCCXxKUnmvi/?igshid=mfhh06ssn9nd

Dr Caroline leaf on managing day-to-day anxiety: https://youtu.be/Zai0LOAo5_c


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In this episode, the beautiful & bold Bokang joins me for a conversation about the effects of false beauty standards within a society, the importance of representation and whether the self-love movement can co-exist with Christianity.


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In this episode, I have a much needed conversation with Myunique Inez AKA Instagram for Believers about the tension between cancel culture and God’s grace.

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Myunique’s podcast: For the One podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/za/podcast/for-the-one/id1465006256

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