Cheaters IRL Podcast

Episode 11 Part 1: Lying About the "Whys" behind Cheating Behavior

Episode 10 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Confirmation of Cheating

Episode 10 Part 1:  

Cheaters' Lies when Confronted About Cheating. Cheaters lie about all aspects of cheating, not just about IF they are cheating. They lie about how many times, where they cheated, how they cheated and most of all WHY they cheated. They often even find a way to blame the cheated-on for their cheating.

Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse. The cheated-on spouse often feels surprised by how much anger they feel toward the person their cheating spouse cheated with. They often feel more hurt than expected, are surprised at feeling relief at discovering they were right about their spouse cheating, and feel a roller coaster of emotions.

Common Apps used for Cheating. There a lot of apps commonly used for cheating. Some of these are specifically designed for cheating, others are common apps whose functionality has been taken advantage of by cheaters. We discuss the most common ones that cheaters currently use and why.

Episode 9 Part 2: Stacy & Todd Confirmations of Cheating

Episode 9 Part 1: Support Systems, Vehicles and Work Schedules as Red Flags

Support Systems are critical for physical, mental and emotional health

Vehicles can often contain a lot of evidence of cheating, as they are common hiding places for cheaters

Work is one of the most common claims to conceal cheating incidents

Episode 8 Part 2: Amy & Chad Confirmations of Cheating

Episode 8 Part 1: Rumors, No Smoke Without Fire, Confessions by Cheating Partners, The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated-on Spouse

Rumors, No Smoke without Fire

The impact of rumors of cheating on relationships

Why do cheaters confess their cheating to others

Why do Cheaters' Cheating Partners Confess to the Cheated-On Spouse

The Impact of Cheating on a Cheated On Spouse's Feelings of self-worth

Episode 7 Part 2: Michelle & Danny Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Raquel & Kyle Suspicions of Cheating Arise

Episode 7 Part 1: Difficulty in Identifying Emotional Abuse is Occurring, Types of Evidence of Cheating, the Impact of Cheating on a Couple's Sex Life

It is often difficult for people to realize they are being emotionally abused

Emotional abusers often don't realize that their behavior is abusive

Emotional abusers are often self-centric

Types of evidence of cheating, four main categories (claims of others, confessions, physical and witnessing it)

The impact of cheating on partners' sexual relationship with each other, misconceptions about this and red flags 

Episode 6 Part 2: Nicole and Dave Suspicions of Cheating Arise, Tanya and Jeff Suspicions of Cheating Arise