SERVING OTHERS: THE SACRIFICE AT WORK AND HOME
We're going to be talking about sacrifice at work but also at home and what does that look like. What we're talking about today is how do I serve my families and also serve myself in that process? We hope that these tips are helpful in the both.
HAVE YOU BEEN SACRIFICIAL?
For me, it always gets back to I could do more. There's always going to be more to do. If this becomes the norm versus the exception, it leads to a path of being sacrificed. We'll talk about burnout in the next couple of weeks.
HEALTHCARE LEADERS: THE NEED TO COMPETE
For me, there is a line that got crossed from pure humility. I'm here to serve and to sacrifice for others. For me, though, I cross the line into pride. Where is that line and how do we draw that line?
PUT YOURSELF FIRST IN SACRIFICE
There's a difference between putting yourself first or deciding that you will always be last. I see that as a working parent, both at work and at home, unless I'm intentional about putting myself first. How can we look at sacrifice with a more healthy mindset?
THE NEED FOR TRUSTFUL ADVISORS
I think it really illustrates the value of having people that can bring high challenge to us. If you don't have them, it's not easy to find. We can't just put our heads down and keep chugging along until a critical event happens. How are my relationships, who's speaking into my life?
HOW TO STOP THE DARK SPIRAL
If my tank is full, I have a higher capacity. There are physical things like sleep and nutrition and these are all things that at some point I want to get to. If I am sacrificing myself, the tank is low, the deep dark spiral happens. But if I am resting and in relationship and getting good sleep, then thattank is full.
WHEN SACRIFICE IS ACTUALLY ENERGIZING
Is there a difference between that healthy sacrifice and unhealthy sacrifice? When I'm leading with rest, the sacrifice comes from more of a health and it's energizing. Work is not bad when it becomes more sacrificial than it should be.
CHOICES MADE: RECHARGING YOUR SOUL
Katie, are there intentional opportunities that I can recharge knowing my schedule never goes 100% according to my plan? I love that you brought it down to choices because we do have choices and sometimes we're not always going to make the right choice. One of the most powerful words is the word no.
RECHARGING WITH NO AND YES
Can I say no to something that involves others? It is still very difficult for me why, when I do that, guilt and shame makes an appearance. Are there some intentional times where I can say yes to me, which means I have to says no to others?
HOW TO DEAL WITH GUILT AND SHAME
Let the guilt and shame come. For me, the way I look at it is I try to think of the big picture. It then helps me better serve those that I'm called to serve.
KATIE ON HOW TO TALK TO YOURSELF
Katie, I'm hearing you give yourself grace and compassion here as a mom. Trying to talk to myself the way I would to someone else in the same situation has been really helpful for you. We encourage you to try something. Maybe it didn't work for you, okay?
SELF- ASSESSMENT OF SACRIFICE
We've talked about different ways to approach sacrifice in a healthy way. How to identify it when it's unhealthy. I would encourage all of us to do a quick self assessment.
WHAT IF I ASPIRATED OTHERS TO DO AS I DO
What if I'm asking those around me to be sacrificed for the sake of the profession, work, family, friends? And why would you not? Or isn't that something you should do? You signed up for this. That's a badge of honor.
How do we define sacrifice? For different people, it's going to look different ways. Getting into the unrealistic or the impossible is really then warning lights for sacrifice.
How challenging is it to tell good people who want you to do good things? In making these tough decisions, it's our hope that it will lead to greater health.