In this episode, Kate shares her personal journey from anger and pretense to spiritual awakening and authentic faith. She explores themes of judgment, kindness, grace, and the importance of heart transformation in living free in Christ.

 Key Takeaways

Judgment and hypocrisy in Christian life

The role of kindness and God's grace in transformation

Understanding God's judgment and favoritism

The importance of self-awareness and heart surgery

Practicing kindness and extending grace in daily life

Chapters

00:00 From Anger to Awareness

06:26 The Judgment Trap

22:22 Contempt for Kindness

32:10 No Favorites with God

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In this episode, the host Kate explores the differences between the world's concept of the 'Let Them' and God's 'Let Them' and its implications for spiritual growth and relationships. Drawing from biblical teachings, particularly Romans 1:24-32, the discussion delves into the dangers of self-authority, the consequences of rejecting God, and the importance of community and support in navigating life's challenges. The host emphasizes the need for self-reflection and the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding believers towards true freedom in Christ.

Takeaways

The world's 'Let Them' can lead to spiritual stagnation.

Cultural trends can influence our spiritual formation negatively.

God's giving over is a serious consequence of rejecting Him.

Freedom in Christ is about governing our desires according to His will.

The exchange of truth for lies can lead to a depraved mind.

Relationships require dependence on God for strength and guidance.

Jesus' way of letting people be is rooted in love and truth.

Community support is essential for spiritual growth.

Self-preservation can lead to pride and isolation.

Healed people are called to heal others. 

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Let Them

05:51 The Downward Spiral of Self-Authority

11:15 The Consequences of Rejecting God

16:55 Delighting in the Lord's Desires

22:35 The World's Let Them vs. Jesus' Way

28:05 Assignments and Love in Relationships

33:33 The Freedom Audit: Self-Reflection Questions

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In this episode of the Choose to Live Free podcast, host Kate discusses the importance of addressing the suppressed truths within our souls, drawing parallels to the book of Romans. She explores the concept of a 'junk drawer' in our souls where we hide uncomfortable truths and the consequences of suppressing God's truth.

The episode emphasizes the need for spiritual honesty, the dangers of idolatry, and the importance of recognizing God's presence in our lives. Kate encourages listeners to confront their suppressed truths and to live authentically in their faith.

Takeaways

Rhythm is essential for personal growth and healing.

We all have a 'junk drawer' in our souls where we hide truths.

Suppressing the truth drains our souls and lives.

God's wrath is a form of justice and love.

Suppression leads to self-deception and emotional ailments.

The truth about God is plain and accessible to all.

Worship is about the state of our hearts, not just songs.

Idolatry can manifest in many forms, including distractions and work.

Acknowledging our idols is crucial for spiritual freedom.

Healed people have the power to heal others.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles

05:59 The Weight of Suppression

11:39 The Nature of Suppression

20:26 The Exchange of Worship

35:19 Mid-Episode Reflection

44:21 Practicing Unsuppressing the Truth

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In this episode of the Choose to Live FREE Podcast, host Kate dives deep into the concept of power and its implications in our lives, particularly in relation to faith and the gospel. She discusses the five deadly relational factors that can pull us away from God, emphasizing that while power itself is not inherently bad, the motives behind its pursuit can lead to spiritual enslavement. Kate encourages listeners to shift their focus from chasing power for personal gain to using it for impactful purposes, highlighting the importance of humility and the transformative power of the gospel in overcoming shame and embracing one's identity in Christ.

Throughout the episode, Kate shares personal anecdotes and scriptural insights, particularly from Romans 1:16-17, to illustrate how the gospel empowers believers to live unashamedly and authentically. She emphasizes that true freedom comes from understanding our worth in Christ and not being bound by the shame that often accompanies feelings of unworthiness. The episode concludes with practical pathways for listeners to actively embrace their identity in Christ and live out their faith with confidence and joy.

Takeaways

Power can be used for good or ill, depending on the motives behind it.

Chasing power can lead to enslavement and exhaustion.

The gospel offers a different kind of power that brings freedom and healing.

Shame is an attack on our identity and can keep us caged in lies.

Living unashamedly in Christ means embracing our worthiness and identity in Him.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Power and Its Implications

05:55 Living Unashamed: Embracing the Gospel

15:08 Righteousness: A Status, Not a Standard

24:07 The Transformative Power of the Gospel

31:29 Practical Pathways to Embrace Freedom

37:36 Conclusion: Choosing to Live Free

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In this episode of the Choose to Live FREE Podcast, host Kate discusses the importance of community versus co-op living, drawing insights from a recent YouTube episode on housing co-ops. She emphasizes that while co-ops offer autonomy, they often lack the intimacy and accountability found in true community. Kate reflects on the Apostle Paul's letters, highlighting how he consistently expressed gratitude and a desire for connection with fellow believers, illustrating that genuine community requires mutual encouragement and support. The episode encourages listeners to evaluate their own relationships and to seek deeper connections that foster spiritual growth and accountability.

Kate also shares practical reflections and challenges for listeners, urging them to break free from isolation by reaching out to someone whose faith inspires them. She emphasizes that true freedom in Christ is not about individualism but about serving and uplifting one another within a community. The episode concludes with a reminder that healed people heal people, encouraging listeners to actively participate in their faith communities and support each other in their spiritual journeys.

Takeaways

We all say we want community but are probably living in more individualistic co-op realities instead of the community we so desire.

Apostle Paul shows us that freedom is found when we choose to see the work of God in others.

Isolation is the playground of the enemy. When you are alone, your perspective can get skewed.

The more independent our society becomes, the lonelier people get.

We cannot choose to be, choose to live, and choose to stay free alone.

Isolation is the playground of the enemy.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Update

04:54 Scripture Reading and Reflection

11:06 Encouragement in Community

15:52 The Importance of Connection

26:51 Conclusion and Call to Action

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In this episode of the Choose to Live FREE Podcast, host Kate embarks on a transformative journey through the first seven verses of Romans chapter 1, exploring the concept of identity and freedom in Christ. She begins by addressing the roles we often play in life—whether as professionals, caregivers, or community members—and how these roles can sometimes feel burdensome. Kate emphasizes that true freedom comes from understanding our identity as servants of Christ, as exemplified by Apostle Paul, who introduces himself as a servant before anything else. This foundational identity allows believers to break free from societal expectations and the pressures of self-identity, leading to a more authentic and fulfilling life in Christ.

Throughout the episode, Kate delves into the significance of being a servant, the power of the gospel, and the importance of belonging to Christ. She encourages listeners to reflect on their own identities and the pressures they face, inviting them to embrace their calling as children of God. By recognizing that they are set apart for a purpose, listeners can find peace and joy in their spiritual journey. The episode concludes with a call to action, urging listeners to audit their own identities and to live freely in the grace and peace that comes from belonging to Christ.

Takeaways

True freedom begins when we realize we are only accountable to one master, Jesus Christ.

Everyone is a servant to something; choose to serve Christ.

Your credentials in Christ are not based on your achievements but on your identity as His servant.

The gospel is not a self-improvement manual; it is the announcement of victory over sin.

Belonging to Christ means you are set apart for His purpose.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Identity and Roles

08:29 The Freedom of Being a Servant

12:49 Defining the Gospel and Its Power

19:26 Mid-Episode Reflection and Identity Audit

28:04 Practical Pathways to Living Free

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Summary

In this introductory episode of the Choose to Live FREE Podcast, host Kate invites listeners to embark on a transformative journey through the Book of Romans over the course of 48 weeks. She emphasizes the significance of this book as the 'constitution of the Christian faith,' highlighting its depth and theological weight. Kate shares her personal experiences with the transformative power of Romans, particularly chapter eight, which played a crucial role in her healing journey from past traumas. She expresses both excitement and apprehension about the task ahead, acknowledging the daunting nature of spending a year dissecting such a profound text.

Throughout the episode, Kate outlines the structure of the upcoming series, introducing the 'Freedom Map' that will guide listeners through various phases of spiritual growth and healing. She emphasizes the importance of honesty and self-reflection in this journey, encouraging listeners to confront their struggles and embrace the freedom that comes from a relationship with God. With a focus on practical application, Kate invites her audience to commit to this year-long exploration, promising that it will lead to a deeper understanding of their faith and a more liberated life in Christ.

Takeaways

The Book of Romans can transform your life.

This journey is about healing and living free.

You are not alone in your struggles.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Journey Through Romans

10:08 Understanding Freedom and Slavery

18:32 Invitation to Join the Journey

20:21 Episode Closing

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Summary

In this episode, Kate A. Coker-Daisie reflects on the significance of the New Year as a time for personal growth and spiritual renewal. She emphasizes the importance of shifting from a mindset of 'trying' to 'training' in various aspects of life, particularly in spiritual and personal development. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, Kate discusses the value of discipline, motivation, and commitment in achieving one's goals. She also shares insights from the past year, including successes and challenges faced by her ministry, and outlines goals for the upcoming year, encouraging listeners to embrace a mindset of training for lasting change.

Takeaways

The New Year symbolizes hope and renewal.

Reflecting on past achievements helps set future goals.

Training is a structured process, unlike trying.

Discipline and routine are essential for success.

Desire and motivation drive effective training.

Spiritual fitness is as important as physical fitness.

Living for God requires sacrificial love.

Community support enhances personal growth.

Setting clear goals is crucial for progress.

Embrace a mindset of training for lasting change.

Chapters

00:00 Embracing the New Year: A Time for Reflection

05:47 The Power of Training: Commitment and Consistency

11:38 Discipline and Early Routines: Setting the Tone for Success

16:26 Desire and Motivation: How Bad Do You Want It?

22:04 Spiritual and Physical Wellness: A Holistic Approach

29:16 Training vs. Trying: A Mindset Shift

33:50 Gratitude and Acknowledgments

40:18 Looking Ahead: Goals for 2026

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In this episode of the Choose to Live Free podcast, host Kate reflects on the importance of being led by the Holy Spirit in decision-making, contrasting it with human instincts and intuition. She emphasizes the need for spiritual growth and obedience to God's will, discussing the different types of God's will and how they interact with human free will. The conversation encourages listeners to seek God's guidance in their daily lives and to understand the significance of living a spirit-led life.

Takeaways

The T-A-C-S method is a simple way to study the Bible.

Understanding the difference between human instincts and being led by the Spirit is crucial.

Human free will allows for conscious decision-making, but it must align with God's will.

The will of God can be categorized into sovereign, perceptive, permissive, and desired will.

The Holy Spirit empowers believers to make decisions that align with God's will.

Living by instinct often leads to reactive decisions, while living by faith leads to thoughtful responses.

The peace of God is a key indicator of being in alignment with His will.

Believers are called to serve others, not just seek what serves them.

Choosing to live free involves making godly decisions that reflect one's faith.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Reflection on 2025

06:13 Understanding the Book of Jude

19:04 The Will of God and Decision Making

27:14 Living a Spirit-Led Life

32:50 Understanding Peace: God's Peace vs. Personal Peace

39:25 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Decision Making

44:43 The Importance of the Fruit of the Spirit

50:30 Living Differently in a World of Instincts

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Continuing from Episode 166, in this episode of the Choose to Live Free Podcast, Kate delves into the practical application of speaking truth in love, as outlined in Ephesians 4:15. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our identity in God, the motives behind our speech, and the necessity of love in communication. The conversation explores the nature of truth, distinguishing between human knowledge and divine truth, and highlights the role of love in effective communication. Kate encourages listeners to reflect on their motives, understand their audience, and aim to build others up through their words, ultimately fostering healing and unity in the body of Christ.

Takeaways

We must know who we are in God to speak truth.

Our motives in speaking must honor God.

Speech should be seasoned with grace and truth.

Truth is not subjective; it is rooted in God's Word.

We must speak with pure motives and good intentions.

Love is essential in communicating truth.

Understanding our audience is crucial for effective communication.

We should aim to build others up, not tear them down.

The truth we speak should lead to peace and unity.

Healed people heal people; we must share our healing with others.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Speaking Truth in Love

11:45 Understanding Truth: Facts, God's Word, and Jesus

27:31 The Role of Love in Speaking Truth

35:03 Conclusion: Building Up Through Truth and Love

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