ChoppedByT Podcast

We love hosting other podcasts for real, raw, AUTHENTIC conversations. That continued this week for Episode 49 of the ChoppedByT Podcast, Brown Table Edition. Chelsey Moore (Instagram: @chelseymooree), host of “The Authenticity Room Podcast,” opened up about her experiences with losing a baby, being cheated on while she was in the hospital, being bullied for being a dark-skinned woman, and more.

Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro

2:07 – Chelsey’s aura is “Black Girl Magic”

2:54 – Being bullied for being a dark-skinned woman and how it changes your thinking

4:44 – What does the nickname “Zebra” mean for a black woman?

6:50 – Sounding like a slave to society when saying you want black

6:54 – The pros and cons of traveling for work

14:14 – Waking up one day and not being happily engaged to your high school sweetheart

17:00 – How dating changes for you after breaking up with your fiancé

17:29 – The worst advice comes from your peers

18:09 – How getting cheated on and losing a baby can make you “heartless”

20:54 – The experience of losing your baby

22:34 – What to do when your fiancé tells you to get an abortion

27:14 – Being confronted by the woman your fiancé cheated on you with

30:04 – Taurus women are so nonchalant

31:00 – Lessons learned from a bad breakup and being cheated on while in the hospital

31:39 – Does independence stem from insecurity after being cheated on?

36:44 – Being the “rich auntie” until you find somebody

39:29 – Why men can cheat, but can’t take it when women cheat

40:34 – Revenge cheating

42:14 – How and why so many men get caught cheating

43:14 – How and why side chicks are winning more than girlfriends

47:24 – Advice for your younger self

51:14 – Chelsey is the host of The Authenticity Room Podcast

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On Episode 47 of the ChoppedByT Podcast, special guest Grace (Instagram: @ayee_amanduh) answers the question of whether exes can still be friends while co-parenting after a breakup.

Grace also takes us through how women must show accountability and give more in a relationship, as well as sharing her experience during the early stages of motherhood.

Timestamps:

2:05 – Courting women is easy if you do this

6:15 – Single mother by choice

8:59 – The challenges of platonic co-parenting

19:15 – Co-Parenting is more than a business decision

30:15 – Knowing your child's zodiac sign

33:00 – Managing your emotional triggers

36:45 – Black women don’t always come from the best examples

39:15 – Cheating is in a man's nature?

55:35 – Is it realistic for women to have male "friends"

1:09:55 – Step parents vs biological parents

1:14:15 – Your child only owes you this

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From Pulaski, Tennessee to Middle Tennessee, to California. Claire Rodgers (Instagram: @clairerodgers) took three big jumps on her journey to becoming an actress. The ChoppedByT Podcast flew west to celebrate T’s birthday. Claire met up with us during Episode 48 to explain overcoming bullying and insecurities early on in life, breaking up with her ex shortly after moving to California, her experiences with acting so far in California, and more.

Timestamps:

10:20 — Overcoming bullying in a small town

12:30 — Having a healthy balance of good and bad

15:00 — How to find your way in the film/TV/social media industry

16:20 — We DON’T bash black women on this podcast

18:00 — You are what you attract in a relationship

20:30 — Claire’s ex had baggage, causing issues during the move to California

25:30 – Tips  to staying focused when you move across the country

26:10 – Sharpening your acting skills during the pandemic

27:30 – Long distance relationship issues when you move across the country

28:45 – How being single gives you the opportunity to learn yourself in a new city

33:10 – What is being a toxic person?

39:00 – Investing in a person will cause them to support you forever

42:00 – How to keep up relationships with all the influences of the world

48:30 – Avoid lying about your true intentions with a person

59:00 – Nobody understands the relationship between T and the mother of his child

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Starting a business from the ground up is exciting AND lonely. You HAVE to invest your time and energy into your brand, only to struggle to get your family and friends to buy into your business vision. Unless you’re Maliyah (Instagram: @queen.mb), this week's guest for Episode 46. The Co-Owner of Rolled 4 Ever Ice Cream (www.rolled4ever.com) in Nashville, TN sat down with us to discuss the concept of Rolled 4 Ever Ice Cream, how she and her business partner manage their expectations of support from family and friends, staying focused and sacrificing relationships, and more.

Timestamps:

4:30 – Rolled 4 Ever Ice Cream began with a Spring Break trip in 2018

10:21 – Respect the rise of black entrepreneurs

12:00 – How Maliyah handles doing business with friends

32:10 – What to do when your significant others, family, and friends don’t support you

41:00 – Maliyah’s keys to running a successful business

42:10 – Solutions to lack of support coming down to camaraderie

48:10 – Being surprised that a female entrepreneur is single

58:10 – How do you approach women in public and through DM?

1:08:00 – Making your business a priority over romantic relationships

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Listen to the entire episode before you judge. Episode 45 featured Black Entrepreneur Choc Black (Instagram: @_xxshavs). Choc is an independent black woman who owns her very own consultancy, Pure Romance, where she educates and helps people enhance their sexual and romantic experiences (Check Out Her Website). She opened up about the business, why she stands firmly on sex and gender not being reasons to get violent with women, how she handled domestic violence, and more!

Timestamps:

4:16 – Learning Your Partner Emotionally and Physically

10:56 – The Dangers Of Having Casual Sex

11:15 – How Growing Up With Brothers Can Change Your Perspective

19:20 – The Business of Pure Romance (By Choc Black)

24:00 – Educate Yourself On Personal Hygiene If You’re Sexually Active

32:30 – The Experience Of Having Your Boyfriend Try To Kill You

42:40 – Importance of Telling Who You’re Having Sex With To Avoid STDs and STIs

48:20 – My Boyfriend Put A Gun To My Head

49:30 – He Wanted Me To Submit Because He’s A Man

57:00 – I Love Trying To Save People From Doing Bad Things

1:04:00 – Women Will Run Game On Women, Too

1:08:50 – I Still Allow My Father To Be A Father To Our Child After The Abuse

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Listen to the entire episode before you judge. Episode 44 of the podcast, OUR LAST SHOW OF 2021, features TiMesha (Instagram: @boss_indi) and Toya (Instagram: @prayntwerk). The two ladies make up the Live N Direct Podcast, dropping by to discuss why they don’t take advice from friends, why dating people can be dangerous when you have kids, breaking generational curses, and more.

Timestamps:

2:03 – The pros and cons of dating somebody with kids

4:33 – Being a parent can make thirst-trapping easy

5:28 – What is the Live N Direct Podcast?

6:43 – Live N Direct versus the  ChoppedByT Podcast

10:32 – Black parents breaking generational curses

17:43 – Why therapy doesn’t work for everybody

19:43 – Why you shouldn’t go to your friends for advice

23:03 – Do men hate on their friends?

25:23 – Challenging your partner becomes harder when you start having sex

32:03 – Having women in your life helps you tap into your femininity

34:23 – Who taught you how to be submissive?

38:33 – Every woman should experience a natural childbirth

46:18 – What if the child isn’t yours?

47:46 – Toya asks Scoe was the woman trying to trick him during the pregnancy

49:23 – Marriage and maintaining your dignity

54:33 – What to watch out for when you’re dating people with kids

63:03  – Live N Direct Podcast interviews Omar Gooding

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On Episode 43 of the podcast, Tiara (Instagram: @titicoleman) stopped by to talk about all things motherhood. T and Scoe asked her about the experience of losing her boyfriend while she was still pregnant, self-care tips for women post-childbirth, how her parents’ marriage impacted how she handled heartbreak during pregnancy, and more!

Timestamps:

5:30 – Be in the moment with your pregnancy

6:55 – Reshape your expectations for being a parent

8:55 – Deal with any childhood trauma

15:15 – Prepare for your body to change

20:31 – Invest in your own self-care

23:00 – Discover the personality of your baby

24:50 – Reconcile and figure out how to co-parent

29:00 - Let your child’s father be a parent

33:20 - Learn how to be friends with your child’s father

39:00 – Set boundaries with your child’s father

49:35 – Walk in self-confidence of who you are

56:30 – Prepare to be pursued while pregnant

60:30 – Understand why your relationship ended

63:00 – Redefine your identity as a woman/parent

66:18 - Decide when you're ready to start dating again

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It is possible to be in a relationship and not have sex! This week’s guest Jaz talked about dealing with temptation and having discipline on Episode 42. T, Scoe, and Jaz also talked about both sides of the relationship needing to be on the same page in order to please God, the benefits of “sharing” your partner, making emotions a priority, and more.

Timestamps:

4:07 - The benefits of polyamorous relationships

6:55 – No judgment for the “side chick”

13:20 – How to decide when you’ll abstain from sex

16:00 – Long-distance relationship decisions/reasons

23:45 – When is it “right” to get married

28:30 – Why women don’t make men’s emotions and feelings a priority

38:50 – Having sex with men/women in the same friend groups

50:00 – Tips for maintaining your long-distance relationship

52:30 – Moments when sex ruined the relationship

55:30 – Why women never admit when they’re wrong

57:30 – Why sacrifices need to be made to be in a relationship 

60:30 – Marriage can cause you to be controlled by your spouse

64:10 – Don’t go to bed mad at your partner

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Do you find yourself saying "we're just friends" a lot, only to get ghosted and left confused? You may struggle with setting boundaries! Good news, this week's podcast guest Ky (Instagram: @Direct2Ky), dropped by and sparked plenty of conservation about where men and stand on the ability to just be friends and save your peace of mind. Ky is also a director, and opened up about her time working on projects like Chrisley Knows Best and her own consultation business, Project D.A.N.C.E.

Timestamps: 

0:00 - Establish Boundaries and Save Your Peace of Mind

7:25 - What is Project D.A.N.C.E.? 

9:00 - Is there such a thing as an original idea?

10:42 – Get A Free Consultation! 

17:00 – How death can spark your creativity

22:20 – Why men are afraid to express themselves out loud

27:25 - Is outwardly emotional gender specific?

28:40 – Some of you are spiritually immature 

29:30 – I have a different perspective of God

41:30 – Directing (job) impacts your personal life 

43:00 – Can guys and girls be close friends?

55:30 – Ky’s advice for women and men in relationships (you can’t save them) 

1:01:50 – Sliding in the DMs is an art form of communication

1:03:50 – Same-sex attraction  

1:14:00 – How to get over your ex

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