What if the things you're chasing aren't actually leading to the life you want? In this message, we take an honest look at the values that quietly drive our daily choices — often without us even realizing it. Drawing from Stephen King's powerful reflection on mortality and Mark 8, where Jesus challenges Peter's very human expectations of what a Messiah should be, we explore what it really means to deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow Christ. We dig into practical ways to evaluate what we truly value (hint: look at your time, your money, and where your mind wanders), and why so many of the things we chase — control, pleasure, status, comfort — leave us empty instead of satisfied. Then we look at three values Christ modeled for us to grow in: surrender, service, and generosity — and how living them out can reshape our relationships, our character, and our sense of purpose.