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Getting Stronger“Stronger Sex”1 Thessalonians 4:1-8
Sex is so deeply spiritual, it needs to be taught and learned as a part of discipleship.
Learning to please God
God is pleased when we do His will
God is pleased when we pursue sanctification
Learning to live a sanctified life
Sanctification is the process of being made holy
Sanctification is the process of becoming more like Christ
Sanctification includes avoiding sexual immorality
Learning to avoid sexual immorality
Begin with God’s vision for sex
Sex was invented by God as good.
Sex within marriage is beautiful and blessed.
Sex glues our soul to another person.
Sin distorts and deforms what is good.
Understand sexual immorality
Sexuality + sin = sexual immorality
starts in our hearts and minds
shows up in our actions: premarital sex, adultery, hookup culture, pornography, abuse, homosexuality, incest, etc.
“Any kind of sexual activity outside the context of one man and one woman in a marriage covenant.”
Realize the destructive power of sexual immorality
It destroys community
It damages your soul
It devastates real intimacy
Pursue God’s purpose for your life
God’s purpose for your life is holiness
God’s gift is the Holy Spirit
He convicts us of our sin
He points us to Jesus
He applies forgiveness to our hearts
He heals our shame
He empowers us to live holy lives
LifeGroup Questions
Icebreaker: What was the first time that you realized that culture and Christianity had different views about sex?
What is the difference between viewing sex as recreational versus viewing it as sacred?
Do you actually prefer the Christian teaching on sex?Why or why not?
Ultimately, we do the things that we most deeply want at that moment.What does what you do sexually demonstrate about what you value?
What makes sexual immorality so destructive?
Read Hebrews 13:4.What practical steps can we take to keep our marriage bed pure, whether or not we are currently married?
What have you found helpful in your journey to avoid sexual immorality?
What should you do when you’re caught in a pattern of sexual sin? (cf. 1 Corinthians 6:18; 2 Timothy 2:2)
All of us have dealt with sexual sin in our lives. But every day, Jesus offers a new beginning! A liturgy for group confession is provided below, and can help give words to our sorrow and repentance. We encourage you to read through this liturgy together, to contemplate what it says, and to pray it together to God with sincere hearts. As you do, remember John’s words: “If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:8-9).
Leader: Gracious God, we have come to see that our lives fall far short of your glory.Group: Have mercy and forgive us.
Leader: You have given your Son for us, and poured out your Spirit, yet we fail to return your love with all our heart.Group: Have mercy and change us.
Leader: Too often we are selfish and proud, ignoring you and neglecting others.Group: Have mercy and cleanse us.